@CatgirlErika fyi, there are lots of ways to avoid atrophy if you dont want that
when starting hrt, lots of doctors or resources talk a lot of shit on atrophy due to no longer being on T, without giving examples on how to avoid it or treat it...
fyi again, t-gel or regular erections stop it
@G_wynie@thotmikli@elelolelole@vuppygirl lots of my friends who were amab have gotten incorrect sizes from checking boxes like that. it's such a presumptuous thing as well, like can you at least tell us what that box is measuring exactly lmfao
@thotmikli@elelolelole@vuppygirl It would be more helpful to say “Do you have wide shoulders: yes or no”
I’ve seen people talking about that selection on r/abrathatfits a few times after someone got an incorrect sizing
@pawxcvtter the terms are goofy silly but started inadvertently glorifying self harm and shreddit is super pro-recovery so it kinda died out with that realization to my knowledge
rn we're on twitter though and we post our cuts and enable eachother so it's whatever here
@LizPh0enix For transfems that can't transition, I honestly suggest getting one even if you don't have boobs yet just as a training bra or for euphoria/fashion
I do think it helps a lot to hide nipple definition on shirts or to stop boob physics from applying when need be
@pissingslitter You are whatever identifier suits YOUR feelings best, not what suits others' feelings.
If you feel like a guy, you are one, even if you like effeminate shit. I'm 100% a girl and still like things that are considered masc, even things like beards.
Society is a poison.
@olefca37489 looks like it, yeah
a lot of the other cuts look like shallow dermis as well
if it's gaping, i.e. it opens and closes after a cut, that tends to be dermis
the first one on the left is for sure deeper styro though