Shun-D
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Shun-D
@richardobi710
The next big thing to happen to the world is Africa, and Nigeria is the starting point. Forget the mess currently; God is at work.
Katılım Temmuz 2023
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@Cr7Godbrand Even the bible says "it's better to live on a roof top or in desert, instead of living in same house with contentious woman"
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One thing I respect about my father is the decision he made later in life. One day, he chose to leave my mother. He rented an apartment and lived alone for the rest of his life. He never remarried. Instead, he kept his life simple and private.
He found one young woman he paid to spend time with once a week, and that arrangement suited him. My father was an extremely calm and quiet man. We could almost count the number of words he spoke in a day. He rarely talked, but when he acted, his actions were firm.
My mother did everything she could to get him to come back, but he refused. As children, we all knew there were serious issues in their marriage, and many of us believed my mother played a big role in the constant conflict.
Watching that situation taught me something powerful: a man’s peace of mind matters, and sometimes walking away is the only way to protect it.
That lesson stayed with me and later influenced my own marriage. At one point, when my wife began creating constant problems and tension in our home, I didn’t argue endlessly.
I told her calmly that I was leaving and that a friend was coming to pick me up. I packed my bags and my clothes and was fully prepared to go. Only then did she rush home from work, apologizing, crying, and promising to change.
What I learned is that women only take a man seriously when they see he is truly willing to walk away. When a man shows he is not afraid to lose the relationship, the dynamic changes. Boundaries become real. Words start to carry weight.
CHUKS 🍥@ChuksEricE
“Sometimes I close from work on time, but because of the woman I’m going home to, I stay outside until midnight just to be sure she has fallen asleep before I return. Some women, when they marry calm men, tend to take advantage of their patience.” — Bolt driver laments domestic viølence
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@Skinnies20 @Danysleek seriously my guy. Most times men look down on good women because they feel like they are not upto their standard.
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@Danysleek This is it!!!!!!
Things like this makes me know that good women dey, na the men no dey look well
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My wife, my wife, she has done a lot, but let me say this particular one.😄
I lost my job almost 5 years ago & after paying rent & spending on some other projects, I went flat broke.
My wife placed me on monthly allowance, was buying the food & sorting the bills at home.
She would send money to the joint account, my own account and when she wanted to buy things even with her own personal funds, she still gave me the unwavering respect; telling me before she spends on such.
She never disrespected me for once bacause I wasn’t able to provide financial covering, she never subtly passed a message of contempt, instead she covered me in my presence and absence and was still utterly submissive.
We would go out, she will give me the money or her ATM to pay as if the money came from me.
She gave me her laptop to start a program then and paid for what I needed pay for during the course.
She prayed, fasted and blessed me, she understood that we are partners, a unit and that when her king was down, she as the queen had to keep things running, she understood the assignment of a true queen in words and indeed.
There’s nothing I can’t do for her, except I don’t have it and even when I don’t have it, as soon as I get it, I do it, I will do more and will continue to do more for my Heaven’s Gem as the Lord bless me.💎❤️
Pharaoh👳🏾♂️👑@MrMekzy_
I need married people to quote and reply this tweet with sweet and really thoughtful things your spouse has done for you. We need a TL cleanse from the Negative marriage PR.
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2016 to 2019 was a very rough and tough year in my marriage.
Immediately we had our second son in 2016,things became so rough, it was as if my husband's work was placed on hold to test my loyalty and love.
I became the one running the home with the little profit from my business, there were days we would sleep on hunger even though I was breastfeeding exclusively. There was a particular week we ate cooked corn morning and night, when I noticed the whole situation I quickly begged someone to give me a piece of land to farm, I farmed yam and corn.
It was that corn that became our saving grace, I struggled to pay our rent for that year, my husband would go out and even struggle to transport himself back home.
2017, it got even worse, my business wasn't moving much, I couldn't save for rent at all, landlord came and told us to vacate his house since we couldn't pay, there was no pay to pay him and no money to rent another house. I noticed my husband was frustrated
I took my laptop one day to sell so we can at least have money to pay for 6 months in another house. The man refused to buy it instead he borrowed me 50,000
I took the money and saw a house for 100k a year but no water, I begged the caretaker to collect 6 months and she collected. That was how we moved in there, I
Was still the one running the family and no one knew, not his family, not my family. I would send money to my parents in his name, I would send money to his parents in his name.
In 2017 God gave us a land miraculously but money to develop it wasn't available, same 2017 my business kicked off again and I began to save aggressively, I took a black leather bag and was saving in it. December 2017 I called my husband told him to sit that I want to show him something, I brought out the bag poured the money on the table and told him this is what I've been saying since January, told him from it I settled the rent, the kids school fees and all other household expenses and this is what's left.
And after he counted the money it was 170,000, he looked at me with teary eyes and asked me what do we do with the money, I told him let's buy 9 inches blocks for our house.
That 170,000 was the foundation of our house today.
Ladies times like this do happen,your attitude will either break or serve as a source of strength to your husband. Will you cover up for him or expose him.
THE END
2017 Vs 2025


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Today marks another year of grace.
I’m grateful for the journey, for the family, the fold, real friends, and for our LORD, who seizes upon the reach of one’s faith to supply all we need to be and to do all that He has called us to.
I thank Him for all the moments along the way.
And somewhere through the years, I’ve learned this:
Purpose is not something you chase.
It is something you commit to — daily, quietly, faithfully.
Every year is a reminder that life is not measured by applause,
but by impact.
Not by how loud the moment is,
but by how deeply it shapes persons, people, and populations.
I’m grateful for the journey so far —
for the privilege of serving,
for the lives I’ve been allowed to walk with,
and for the grace to keep showing up.
This season reminds me that there is still more to do.
More to give.
More to build.
More to speak.
More ground ahead to cover.
So today, I give thanks —
for life,
for love,
for purpose,
and for the strength to keep going.
The LORD Himself be praised.
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@Nwigwe_praise @worldgenerall nothing in this world will make me do this one
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@Rogerthat_1652 @eyram_tracy naira; Nigeria currency.
About 200k dollas at that time
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"Your wife's money is her money, stop putting your eyes on her money"
As far as I'm concerned, that 👆 is by far the most RIDICULOUS marital advice.
I, myself, as a Wife, my husband & kids are my responsibility, Just as myself and the kids are my husband's responsibility.
Every of my penny belongs to my husband & kids.
My husband's money belongs to me & his kids.
I love it when my husband bills me.
It gives me that opportunity to be responsible for my man.
And he dare not refund me. Its an insult to me. He knows that.
I glory in spending on my man.
I don't keep scores of the expenses I've made.
This is my family we're talking about.
If I earn N1M and my husband earns N100k
The total amount we have as a family is N1.1M
Nobody, not even pastor, no matter how anointed he think he is, can tell me otherwise.
My husband is the High Priest in my marriage.
I don't know about others, I'm not just submitted to my husband
My income, investment, salaries, submits to him.
And guess what??
He(my Husband) puts me in charge of his finances.
That's how much he trust me with his life.
If you aren't willing to put your resources together with your man
Please do not get married.
If you use your money to buy foodstuffs for your family, and you expect your husband to refund you that money, please don't get married.
And lastly, if you're willing to build an empire with your man
Please and please, no go marry man wey him head no correct ooo.
Or else, him go carry your hard earned money dey give sidechicks.
I rest my pen ✍
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@kingsleypst The truth is; if you take money away, is only very few women will allow you to lead them.
Majority of women are loyal to money
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@Wendi_Irlbeck @JedediahBila one way through which Jesus makes you whole or give you rest, is by giving you a husband or wife. That's why God gave Adam to Eve shortly after creating him
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Prioritize a relationship with Jesus Christ and you’ll never be lonely. There’s lots of married people with children who are extremely lonely because they lack faith. How do I know this? I’ve worked with several. They have money, a large family, but they have no faith and they’re always searching for “something” that only a relationship with Jesus Christ can satisfy.
The Bible talks about this in depth.
Psalm 42:1–2
“As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?”
Isaiah 55:1
“Come, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost.”
Matthew 5:6
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
John 7:37–38
“Let anyone who is thirsty come to Me and drink. Whoever believes in Me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.”
Matthew 28:20
“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
Matthew 6:33
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
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@OjubanireKehin2 @philipolubakin Your God said you should not do it.
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@philipolubakin I disagree with that ma. I have seen Muslims who married christians and they are fine in their respective marriages!
I am a Christian. I see nothing wrong if i marry a Muslim. Nothing is wrong with that ma.
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Religion is making you call your fellow black person darkness. A good person is darkness because they are not Christian.
It would be too late for some of you when you finally realize how much you have missed out on because of the white man’s religion.
You let people who directly benefit from the religion financially, people who have made it their career by being on the alter dictate your own life in the name of preaching, I hope you don’t wake up one day with regret.
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@AdeyemiSijuwade She would have told him that she don't want to get pregnant before the wedding na.
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So this man lured his wife back from Australia that his parents are celebrating anniversary, they got to Nigeria he took her papers and phone and has gone back.
His reason being she has refused to get pregnant saying she doesn't want to carry pregnancy herself they should rather use a surrogate
He lured her back, dumped her and his people have gone to return her dowry oga say e no marry again
Wife is insisting its her body nobody can force her to carry kids when she doesn't want to, they got married 2022 she relocated 2024
Oga says if you don't want to carry pregnancy then marriage is over let him find someone who is willing to be a wife
My own is couldn't they have both reached a compromise?
Was the guy too harsh?
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Okay let me gist you guys
So a few days ago, me and chairman had an argument
One ridiculous argument like that.
Such that I can’t even remember what it was about. Honestly I can’t remember as I type now.
But we sha had this heated argument, we kept going back and forth and back and forth.
Then as usual we were both upset. And we went quiet.
I did not talk. He did not talk.
We just went and started doing our chores because it was the weekend and we were just cleaning our house together.
I went to the sink to do the dishes
He carried the mop and was cleaning the floor.
Everywhere quiet.
I was vexing and he was vexing.
As I was on my own, vexing and washing plates, I felt the mop stick touch my leg. I thought it was just a mistake because he was cleaning next to me.
Until the mop kept touching my leg over and over.
That’s when I knew this guy was just looking for my trouble.
I turn around to look at him with annoyance, he burst out laughing and I burst out laughing.
And then we hugged. And maybe stole a smooch or two. 🙈
And just like that, fight is finished. Less than two minutes o
People of God, there is no spiritual awakening here o because i know you’re waiting for the dimension of glory 😇
The reason why I’m sharing this story is to remind you not to put your mouth inside married people’s matter.
Marriage is a mystery o
Husband and wife they were vexing now now will climb bed in two minutes.
And then you that your friend was reporting their husband or wife to you, and you open your mouth and start insulting their spouse, you will become their enemy over night.
They will use you to settle
Sha just be nodding your head like lizard when they are gisting you and leave them like that
Don’t say I did not warn you o
Have a great week ahead.
Blessings!

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@thewinlos So if two unbelievers get married, and the woman became a believer later, are you saying she should not submit to him.
This you advice no dey bible o
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