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semua kritik harus konstruktif itu warisan suharto

Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake

Gue kemarin baca novel Crazy Rich Asians. Ada ucapan dari Eleanor Young yang nyantol di kepala: Bahwa momentum itu lebih menentukan jadi/tidaknya sebuah hubungan ke pernikahan. Dari sekadar besaran rasa cinta itu sendiri. Misal, pas sekolah / kuliah suka banget banget sama seseorang. Tp lu ga siap mental, pikiran, ekonomi, dsb. Pokoknya ga ready aja. Segimanapun berdua saling suka, kalau momentumnya ga pas, ya bisa aja bubar. Misal, pacaran tp jadi posesif atau suka berantem krn blm siap utk difficult conversation. Tp kalo udh nemu momentumnya, misal udah stabil kerjaannya, udah lebih dewasa, dsb, maka lu bs aja nikah sama seseorang yang cinta-nya "just ok", ga harus menggebu2 kayak pas first love jaman muda dulu.

yap! unpopular opinion about relationship

DNA is really so crazy, have y'all heard that story about the woman who had a baby with her husband and when he got a DNA test done he wasn't the father the mother insisted he was the dad so much so that they repeated the test numerous times the couple got divorced and the man refused tor be in the child's life it later came out based off the DNA results that he wasn't the father but the uncle of the child which was impossible because he was an only child after a more extensive DNA test they found out the husband was actually a chimera which essentially means he had a twin brother that he ate in utero essentially absorbing his DNA. So basically the unborn, twin brother was the father even though the husband bore the child.

Misalnya di dunia ada 2 laki laki 1. lelaki perokok, pemabuk, tapi setia. 2. lelaki tidak perokok, tidak pemabuk, tapi gila perempuan. kamu pilih mana?

POV: when he’s telling you not to do something but teasing him is part of my love language.