@CrazyVibes_1 This is the day for you to feel 100% you. It's stunning, it's your dream, you MUST wear it and feel amazing. It's about you and your fiance not a repressed mother-in-law! I wore deep purple Duchess Satin, embroidered like a starry night on my wedding day and not one regret ever.
@SarahjevsEvans Oh Sarah so sorry. This must be so hard after Flash going so recently. I send lots of love ... precious furry purry soul mates leave such a gap in our lives. Take care x
It’s just you and me now Barry💔
💔Goodbye Walter from Port Talbot. The most handsome, fearsome cat. You were always my cat of the day. Until we meet again 💖♥️😢
2010 - 2025
This beautiful cat was dumped on our property. We’re going to keep her inside and give her a good home. We already have a Jude and a Darla. Can anyone help give her a human name?
@silverpebble I so appreciate colour and beauty in your images, your clear love of nature and also the way your brain (like mine) seems to need/enjoy sorting and categorizing. You've brought so much joy. Your calendar in my kitchen one year just brought smiles and interest daily. Thankyou x
The many 1000s of times people have put me down, incl. family -people who had the need to crush someone else, became way too loud in my head in the last few days & I couldn't hold on to anything good about myself at all. Tbh my mental health was 1/10 yday. I was struggling to hold on to reasons to stick around.
If my photos,books or posts about mental health have ever helped you, even a little, could you maybe like this post? I know it may seem needy but I'm really really trying to change the narrative of my thoughts -find some value in myself. If I've helped someone else I can maybe try to hold on to that x
I said goodbye to Flash Evans today 💔
2018- 2025
I am Heartbroken 💔
Goodbye flashy you were the most handsome, cheeky loveable cat💖. I will miss you more than you will know. I’ll see you again some day xxxx💖
Goodbye sweet girl 💔
Yesterday I had to say goodbye to my dear Teasel after she was killed on the road near my home.
I am heartbroken and she will leave a big hole in our lives.
I buried her in my meadow and a new bench will mark the spot.
Loved you so much sweet Teasel 💔
@AfsaRosette That is exactly what happened to me! I wasted 10yrs on someone who just wasn't able to commit to anything deeper. Now I understand our anxious-avoidant pattern I feel such a fool.
If you’re someone who likes depth. You’re more prone to attracting avoidants. They’ll bring intellect & at first it’ll feel like you’re compatible. Until you realise you’re engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
Hello, I’m still here, I’ve just been really unwell for a few months. The last 3 yrs of difficult life stuff caught up with me & I lost all confidence in myself & my social media/work. I’m not sure of the definition of a breakdown but I think it might be the right word, along with full #autistic burnout. I’m recovering very slowly, getting slightly better at not being v unkind to myself & am trying to do things that I know my brain usually loves (like this I made today👇🏼) to try to lift my mood, though the positive response is super quiet. Sorry if you’ve maybe been missing my photos, I’ll be back up to speed eventually x
I tied these ribbons to the railings today outside what was HMP Holloway. There is no other sign at the site to remind people that a thousand suffragettes were imprisoned here and some were tortured. #InternationalWomensDay
@JDaviesPhD Focused on each single day at a time. Therapy. Lots of talking and crying and letting myself be open and vulnerable with friends. Writing stuff down and collecting passages/quotes/lyrics/prose to help normalise what I was feeling.
@Baddiel Our No.3 cat, who until recently was merely a kitty, has developed a penchant for blue cheese, especially Shropshire Blue , & can detect its presence from +/- 1000 metres.
@Theholisticpsyc Crikey - those first sentences took my breath away. I know this is me but hearing it so concisely and clearly is big! Now single and trying to heal so I can find happiness in a future healthy relationship with someone emotionally available 🤞
The aftermath of my marriage & other toxic interactions plus PMDD meant that I spent 2-3 of the last 12 months with the darkest thoughts possible. My brain's been pretty broken & exhausted in the last 2 years, but I'm still here & that was my biggest 2024 achievement by far tbh🌿