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BE PROUD OF YOUR VULVA. SOME LADIES HAVE LOST SELF ESTEEM BECAUSE A GUY OR LADY HAD MADE FUN OF THEIR VULVA. NO TWO VULVA(S) ARE THE SAME The Quiet Geometry of Her Body And Why the Vulva Needs No Apology There is a silence that follows the word vulva, and it is not an innocent silence, and it is not accidental. It is the kind that is taught, and passed down, and wrapped in shame so delicately that many women grow into adulthood never quite looking at themselves, and never quite naming what is theirs. But the vulva is not a secret to be kept,it is a story to be understood. And as a gynaecologist, I have seen many vulvas. Not one or two, but hundreds, and then thousands. And what becomes clear, over time and with quiet observation, is this: there is no single shape that is “normal,” and there is no single version that deserves celebration more than another. There are labia that are full and soft like folded petals, and others that are slender and tucked like whispers. There are colours that deepen into dusk, and others that remain light like morning. There are asymmetries—because the human body, in all its honesty, rarely seeks perfection. And still, women ask, “Is mine okay?” Because somewhere along the way, we taught women to measure themselves against edited images, and curated fantasies, and a kind of aesthetic that was never designed with real bodies in mind. And so she looks, and she compares, and she wonders if she is too much, or too little, or too different. But difference is not a flaw, it is the language of the body. The vulva is not meant to look like a template. It is not manufactured symmetry; it is lived anatomy. It responds to hormones, and age, and childbirth, and desire. It changes, and adapts, and carries history in its folds. And yes, it can be soft, and bold, and unapologetically present, because it was never created to be hidden in shame. And perhaps the most radical thing a woman can do is to look at herself, not quickly, not critically, but with a kind of gentleness. To sit with her own body and say, this is mine. Not borrowed, not corrected, not compared. Because pride, real pride, does not come from fitting into a narrow definition of beauty, it comes from understanding that your body was never wrong to begin with. And so, we must begin to speak differently. To teach differently. To raise girls who do not flinch at their own reflection, and who do not inherit the quiet discomfort of generations before them. Because the vulva, in all its shapes and shades and stories, is not something to fix. It is something to honour. And that, perhaps, is where the silence finally breaks.

ur religion prohibits YOU!! from those things. it does not prohibit ME!!! at all!!!!

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it's like rule number 1 of sisterhood you DON'T LEAVE an unconscious woman alone in a public place (especially if there are men around)

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where silence feels like love

dead ass bc it doesn’t

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when you're lying in bed and it starts to rain

Do not ignore your fibroids even if a doctor tells you ‘not to worry’ My fibroids were wrapped around my spine & impinged on my ability to walk by the time I got my surgery Take action before they affect your quality of life & work life Also it’s interesting to me that anglo women & their docs call them abdominal tumors, not fibroids and seem to get way more attention & sympathy in doing so 🧐

White ppl really evil son. How u lynch a elephant?😭

walking here.. is like therapy

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