obviously it’s fuck abusers and support victims always, if that’s not ur mindset then you are not welcome here !!!! however it’s a extremely triggering topic for some people and going after each other is simply not productive
fuck danny elfman!!
that being said, i think dogpilling on other fans/the band for simply not knowing (that we don’t know) about the situation is doing way more harm than good. i agree people should do research on who they collab with, but unfortunately that’s not always reality.
I’ll say it again, I would absolutely believe parx if they got online and said they didn’t know. and yeah, I’d love for them to actually commit to doing more research about the people they work with moving forward. my anger comes from the fact that this is a repeated issue.