
Sam
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Sam
@samuelcapps_
turn lead into gold




The secret to couragemaxx (which is the key to winmaxx + fulfillmentmaxx) is to have a tribe. This is especially true for men. In no point in history people who thrived were true lone wolves. Tigers have claws, eagles have wings, people have tribes. Digitalization of the world allows some true lone wolf behavior but it's always a losing game - you compound misery in small doses actually. Very dangerous. When you look at all the old school baller businessmen, if they aren't truly lost/miserable souls but actually have both max fulfillment, happiness & winning - in 99% of the cases they either have close family and/or working relationships. They have a tribe. The loneliest, most autist types who seem to suck at human relationships (like Elon) - even he has it. There are no lone wolves, that's usually a trauma-induced fantasy. When you ask people about the most impactful things early (or even later) on their careers (and life), they'll often tell you about other people believing in them, helping them, some relationship, etc. It's always a secure relationship. Without a safe, secure (on some level) home base & community (even if just one relationship, even if it's not with a living person or a person at all), why would your stressed out nervous system and gazillion-years-old unconscious mind, which have perfect data on what happens to people like you who are left alone (= death), why would your system ever predict you to actually win & succeed? Why would it even allow you to take any risks? It simply won't. And people then beat themselves up again and again, thinking they have some courage deficit or aren't manly enough or something. In some cases that might be true depending on the context, which is no biggie, even Napoleon had times where he pu$$ied out ofc, that's human. The secret to couragemax - which is THE key to thrive in this life and without it no matter who you become or what you do, life is stale and you fail on yourself - is to have a tribe. It is to have secure relationships. There's no thriving without it.


How quickly you detach from a success wave determines how soon you catch the next one. Clinging to past results is force. Flowing with reality is power.






