AMR
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AMR
@sandaross
Iowa girl in Colorado following 25 years in Texas. Politically homeless since 2016. ❤️☘️🏈






On this Fourth Sunday of Advent, a story for Dispatch Faith about the best gift—and biggest surprise—I’ve ever unwrapped. A story that took more than a decade to be written, with @lwmccormack: thedispatch.com/article/named-…



An older fish swims up to a group of younger fish and says, “Good morning boys, how’s the water?” One of the younger fish responds, “What the hell is water?” Sometimes the most obvious and important truths are hard to see. They’re defaults that we unconsciously accept. Those defaults are limitations. The young fish doesn’t know there’s a whole other world above the water’s surface. 🐟 You’re the fish. Do you sense that there’s more out there—an alternate universe where you’re living your best life? At the tail end of a vacation, do you catch yourself browsing local real estate listings and joking with your spouse: “What if we just moved here?” Then you quickly dismiss it as unrealistic. Let me ask you a question: How’s the water? Are you aware of the defaults you’ve unconsciously accepted—and the limitations they impose? At least a dozen times a month, I get a DM from someone who is contemplating a big life change—usually a career pivot or moving to a new place. I always challenge them to answer one question: What would the radical version of your next step look like? We tend to approach change incrementally, operating within the bounds of our default environment. But the people with the best lives are those who realize they’re swimming in water—and occasionally leap from it. 🐟 (This post was inspired by David Foster Wallace’s legendary 2005 commencement speech, “This Is Water.” He uses the metaphor to make a different point, but it’s worth reading.)














