alissa ✨

finally finished making the aguefort sweater! hoot growl baby!! @dimension20show @dropout #fantasyhigh #fhjy

turkeys voting for christmas just to own the woke left ha ha good one lads you really got em i’m sure having a bunch of assclown n*zis in ur local councils will really help with all the potholes and the barely-hanging-on-by-a-thread care system you or your parents depend on

so fun and cool how we all vote for our own reasons bc i just saw a guy post the election results and say “get fucked woke freaks” and like some ppl vote for policies that will help their community and others vote solely to own the libs god isn’t variety just the spice of life 🫩

like do i miss w****? no, not even in the slightest. do i miss the insane period in like 2020/2021 when we were lowkey pals with v**** and t*****? literally every day all the time.

random return to this app to say i’m having a huge, slightly drunk, nostalgic flashback to the times that v**** joined our z*** like maybe i wanna go back to 2021 or something

me during the national anthem (which isn’t national anthem anyway so it’s fine): 🤐 me during the “engl*nd!” part of any chant: 🤐 me finding it uncomfortable being surrounded by the sgc given how it’s being used atm: 🤐 somehow also me any time one of them scores: 😱🙌🎉

being a lionesses fan is wild because it’s like…i support them with my whole heart but i don’t support engl*nd like it’s two different things in my head i fear. i must keep the two concepts separate at all costs if i am to persist.

also also, many closeted people get into relationships and then find out they’re not safe to come out. that’s almost what happened to me. i think we (the queer community as a whole) can all do better than the “extremes” of this debate that obv get better engagement on this app

also, the years of inner work it took to feel safe to know i’d choose me? so, so many years. i think some people want victims to unlearn abuse overnight and it’s wild.

i try not to hop onto queer discourse but i cannot stop thinking about this one, my heart breaks for both parties in any kind of out person/closeted person dynamic like the obvious villain here is homophobia and not,,,either of those queer people

like in an out person/closeted person situation, both people are victims???? like that just feels like the obvious, empathetic conclusion?????

more likely scenario that this is all part of a pattern that the abuser has attempted to normalise to make the victim entirely dependent on them

some of the contributions to this queer discourse of the week are acting like “an out person has every right to want and seek a non-closeted relationship” doesn’t coexist with “it’s not shocking that a parent who gives their queer kid an ultimatum is probably a lifelong abuser

mind this was only an hour ish after i saw chatgpt on one of my colleague’s big screens yet again. i gen don’t have much energy left to deal civilly w ppl essentially whining “😪 do it for me? do everything for me? too difficult to do my job,,too difficult to think,do it for me?”

fun lil work ai moment today when i googled a word salad that i knew would turn up a link to a law, only for result one to be The Link To The Law and result two to be the ai response guessing which location i was obviously googling and telling me the law didn’t exist

Remember that all "male centered women" discourse in fandom spaces ultimately stems from this and will always lead back to this.

she/her only feels right for me when it’s my queer friends perceiving me as a queer woman, and no other pronouns feel right at all so atp i’ve decided i’m just,,,”queer woman” and i’ve given up beyond that. i don’t have the time anymore i have to do the dishes.

that post that’s like “i’m she/her the way people call boats a “she”” like sure i’m she/her but also i’m actually not, and i’m definitely not they/them or any other pronouns so idfk what’s going on w me, just don’t perceive me at all i’ve decided it’s not for me