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Tatyana Ali (Ashley from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air) spoke about the difficult pregnancy she had with her first child and the discrimination that Black women face during pregnancy “I had a really healthy pregnancy… and all of that changed once we got into the hospital. Our birth plan wasn't followed... I was also held down, my arms and legs," she continued, using the term “obstetric violence” to describe the experience she went through “I mean, I'll be real with you, they pushed him back inside me… that's what happened, my baby was all the way crowned, that’s not a real procedure.” “In my records, it shows that he goes from the lowest station, I saw his hair, I touched his hair, to the highest station and it doesn't say how that happened. It's an incredibly dangerous thing that they did; they could have snapped his neck, but this is after hours of them holding me down.” She added that her baby "couldn't pee on his own for a long time, about five or six days." “Actually, it was a pediatric urologist who was the only one who came to my side and said, ‘I saw what happened during your birth, the things that resulted in this emergency C-section.’ She said, ‘I think the traumatic nature of his birth is what is causing this,’ ” Ali recalled, revealing, “We [then] left [the hospital] in the middle of the night … we ran away." Black women suffer discrimination during pregnancy, and Ali made a point of emphasizing that “It's been happening for a very long time … black women are three to four times more likely to die in childbirth, and I think a lot of times people go, ‘Oh well, those are other health risks.’ Yes, that's in the mix of things, but there are incredible traumas that are also being experienced in the hospital when you're a black woman, an indigenous person, giving birth. The treatment is just totally different…” 🔗podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/tat…



I obviously have a great deal to say about this, but the crux of the matter is you never know what someone is going through. Hygiene poverty, illness (both mental and physical), disabilities, and housing inequality can all affect a person’s ability to maintain odourlessness.



I'm not even religious but I'm generally unsympathetic to these complaints. You don't have to have a wedding but you don't get to have the benefits of a legal marriage if you don't get a legal marriage lol that's just how it works!


Parents face criticism after posting and celebrating their daughter’s baby shower. 👀 🎉







A girl stopped being my friend cause my mom didn't let me go to her baby shower. I was 14 and she was 15. I was sad and upset then and blamed her for me losing my friend but now I understand her saying why should a 15 y.o. have a baby shower. 😐🤷🏿♀️






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