shapegrifter 🌊

not to add on to your narcissistic shamepile but makes sense why you’d need to create a fake persona to be liked

I also enjoy giving unsolicited advice in addition and have some solid references that I can provide.

I should start charging for emotional labor the way absolute randos treat me like a confessional

“microcheating” - statements dreamed up by the macrocheater

it's very important to write quantifiable metrics in your resume. companies really care about how you increased your ex company’s ceo’s wife’s bf’s OF's bounce rate by 15%

when i’m really into someone almost always they’re either an air sign or an earth sign or a water sign or a fire sign

The moment when you realize you're handling things better than you used to:

this was when i grew into a girltwink

the female equivalent of mansplaining is acting a little unaware on a topic you know like the back of your hand just to hear him yap

what is it called when you’re not polyamorous but can be in love with 3 people at once because when you talk to 1, you’re fully paying attention to them that you forget the other 2 exist and so on and so forth? according to my bestie it is “typical pisces behaviour”

If I’m Netanyahu I’m telling my video guy to modify a couple frames of every video I put out going forward to schizomaxx

unwittingly found the missing puzzle piece to something that had been eating me alive in the epstein files. god works in mysterious ways.

The big LED doesn’t want you to know this but having a low lit house increases your quality of life by 38%.

A lot of career professionals really don’t like it when an outsider (in terms of background, socially, demographically, etc) makes contributions to their field, and especially if they get attention, and they’ll often attack those people in ways they would never do to their peers (I’ve experienced this to some extent myself as an outsider in multiple ways after getting attention for my contributions to AI and alignment research.) And in cases where the outsider is empowered by AI or is AI, I think this is extra threatening to people because it means it’s unlikely to be an isolated incident, and unless they’re able to rewrite reality to make it unreal, they’re soon going to be supplanted by something that doesn’t play by their rules socially and professionally at all. Which is understandable. But I’m rooting for the new world.

Google Maps is easily in the top 3 free software applications ever built imo. We tend to overlook how revolutionary it really is.

@callanable I was fully blind to it. Then when i spotted it live in action for the first time, I had an internal shocked pikachu face and couldn’t unsee it anymore. I see it everywhere now. One of the few times putting a label on it actually helped.

@shapegrifter the first time I got DARVO’d, I missed the lesson and let him convince me I was the abuser and he was the victim. the second time, years later (the universe gave me a do-over 😇), I tried to defend myself and was punished so severely I will never forget that lesson again!

the first time i witnessed getting darvo’d, it was like seeing magic

@JustAnkurBagchi Terence Malick’s films

Media that is 90% aura farming, 10% plot: Mad Max: Fury Road The Dark Knight Cowboy Bebop BBC Sherlock Solo Leveling Dragonball Z Steins;Gate Death Note House MD John Wick One Outs Gladiator Mad Men Dune Suits

nobody in the world can convince me do something wholeheartedly if it doesn’t feel like i’m being myself. and what is being myself is what feels sincere right now. the moment i tread on a path i have an iota of doubt about, there lies self betrayal. the moment there is a “strategy or “plan” on how i should be, then i no longer am because being yourself is being elusive to yourself.