Frodo of the Shire

@blaq_en_belle @IamaExcellency I don’t tolerate nonsense, not when I know that I’m right. That store keepers don’t try it with me. Just a phone call and a warning of what is to come puts fear in their body.

@shire_frodo @IamaExcellency I agree

I had a package sent from Abuja to Ibadan, paid 20k to the driver as the delivery fee, he got to Ibadan, dropped the package with someone and when the person I sent to collect the package got there, he was told he needed to pay 1000 naira to collect the package because they held it down for him. We called the Abuja driver and asked him why he didn’t settle the Ibadan driver properly as we are now being asked to pay 1000 naira. After going back and forth, we had to pay. A day after, we sent another package from Lagos to Ibadan, paid 4k and specifically told the driver to let them know we won’t be paying anything to collect it, and to settle whoever he leaves the package with at the park. The person who was going to collect got to the park and they won’t give him the parcel until he pays 500. We called the Lagos driver and asked him why he didn't settle whoever he left the package with, he said they weren’t supposed to charge us again that he settled him...…when he had nothing else to say, he then said “just pay, it’s only 500 naira.” It’s just so appalling. This has now become a strategy. They have become so dubious. Is this how it is now???

@mayhorizzy @The_Florencee Haha I thought you weren’t reading. Weak boy. 🤣

@shire_frodo @The_Florencee You're here because of the madness of your father. He should have masturbated.

Men are always arguing about the wrong things. You can work and still show up for your kids, but nooo, you want them to have a rapport with you when you’re not present. “I was out working to feed them.” Mind you, you can do that and still be present in their lives, lmao.

@blaq_en_belle @ElumeFredrick It’s theft and it’s because people condone it that the monster has grown fangs. It’s theft.

@ElumeFredrick It was almost immediately...the driver chose not to call the receiver...it's theft.

@ElumeFredrick @blaq_en_belle Why don’t they mention that part from the beggining of the transaction? They are very dubious and it’s theft. I threatened one that he’s in Possession of my package illegally as I don’t have an agreement with him and he released it immediately.

@blaq_en_belle This is like a normal thing now. But then, they keep your parcel safe so I feel the payment is commensurate with security fee.

@blaq_en_belle @IamaExcellency Even if you are there waiting, the driver never answers the call and will hand over the package to the “store keeper” immediately he arrives at the destination. It’s a syndicate.

@IamaExcellency Crazy...they won't expect someone should be sitting waiting for them at the park

@ani_danielson @NitanTreats_ What kind of grammar is this?🤣 Dumbo.

@NitanTreats_ Channel that energy on those cakes. Those write up looks really bad😕

Do you believe in gender roles?? Imagine washing dirty plates in the kitchen while your wife is trying to lift 2 bags of rice that just arrived

@NitanTreats_ @ani_danielson Finish him! Fatality! I love it!

@ani_danielson At least my write ups are logical and still give me client, unlike your own opinion that are non-logical, sounding like what a 2year old would write. Now run along, and learn how to use your logic more next time👋🏿

Some of you men just want to have kids for ego and proof of fertility. You don’t want to be fathers. The same way some of you want to marry but not be dutiful and faithful husbands. I’ll be here to call out this evil culture of exonerating foolish and wicked men.🫵🏿

Time for your children ❌ Time for extra-marital affairs ✅

"my wife will face the consequences of her actions if she decides to have a cesarean section". Words of a bumbling idiot.

@mayhorizzy @The_Florencee If you didn’t read it before typing then you are getting closer to madness. 🤣🤣 Mad man.

@shire_frodo @The_Florencee Who is reading this nonsense?

@Only1Etubo @okonkwo__bee See how a man is teaching his fellow men how to be normal in 2026. Almost like he’s teaching 5 year olds. Chai whoever did this to Nigerian men, sorry. 😭🤣

Dear men, I just wanted to share this before I fully move on from this topic because I want posterity to see that I made an effort. It’s Saturday, and today is a good day to take that first step toward bonding with your kids. We know it has been a very busy week, and you are tired. If you’re home, please try not to sleep all day. Get some rest, then ask your kids to find a book and read to you. If they fear you, calmly reassure them that they are not in trouble and that reading to you will make you feel better. Seeing that they can help you in a vulnerable moment will make them happy. Ask them to tell you their favorite stories. Do they like to play football? Watch them play and cheer them on. Do they enjoy playing “suwe”? Cheer them on while they play. Do you have any games at home? Play with them. Do they have a favorite movie? Watch it with them. Ask about their week. Find out what they like and don’t like about school. Talk to them about your work. Share what you do for a living and explain it in a way they can understand. Let them be close to you. Use a calm voice with them. Don’t let it be that the only time they hear your voice is when they do something wrong. As their father, be their confidant and comforter, not just their punisher. When their mother reports them to you, tell her to handle the situation. Don’t discipline them over everything. Sometimes, you just need to talk to them. Praise and boost their confidence when they do something right. When they make mistakes, encourage them to learn from them. Children will always be children; they will make mistakes. It is our responsibility to guide them. Make them comfortable in the house you built for them. Don’t let them walk on eggshells around you. Eat with them. Relax with them. If you are not home with them, today is a good day to call and check on them. Don’t tell their mom to say hi to them, ask her to give them the phone so you can speak to them directly. If they fear you enough not to want to talk, ask their mom to put the phone on speaker. Don’t you think they would love to hear your voice? Don’t you think it’s important for them to know that you are okay? Don’t you think they miss their dad? Hearing your voice could make their day. Call them and ask what they ate. If their mom calls you to report them, tell her you trust her to handle it. She can discipline them too. When you get home, talk to them about it and give them tips on how to avoid making the same mistakes. You can speak to them for just a minute, and it will always be worth it. Tell them you miss them and that you can’t wait to see them. Showing that you care will give them comfort.

@Pheel_Collins1 @lilyally98 See this one’s mouth like protect. Delulu.

@lilyally98 Good! Since u ain't doing all that, don't expect him to provide, protect, buy flowers, be romantic and do other stuffs for you. If u ain't gonna be a traditional woman, that's fine. Just don't expect him to also be a traditional man. That's only fair. 🙂

“I will clean, cook. wash clothes and support my man financially in as much he loves me and cherish me. To see a man that love you this days is stressful so I’ll do anything to keep mine.” 🤡🤡🤡🤡

ever since i was a little girl i knew i was going to grow up to be a difficult woman

@mayhorizzy @The_Florencee Woke are already doing everything. Guess what? That’s why your fellow men and women worship their mothers and takes care of them in old age. If you want don’t do it all for your children, your fate will be same as the cry baby abandoned men.

@The_Florencee Una Sha want make men do everything.

@GloriousGod01 A woman can decide the method she wants. It’s her body!

I don't care how you people see this but just so you know, My wife cannot on her own decide to deliver by Caesarean section. I have heard that some women no longer want to deliver vaginally and are opting for CS even when a vaginal birth is perfectly safe. That is unacceptable to me. Unless the doctor advises or recommends a CS due to medical reasons, she must deliver vaginally the way a woman should. Fear of pushing is not an excuse. I will not allow any woman to carry my child and then choose CS simply because she is afraid of labour pain. Fear of pushing is not a medical condition. Above all, love God.

@ImmaJF @Kezmag_ Why would anyone even pick any bad behavior.

@Kezmag_ My brother neither smokes, drinks nor womanizes. I'm not carrying anyone's badly raised child. Alcohol once in a while is okay. As an addiction or habbit? Mba.

Dear ladies,If you were asked to Pick your Man, between a Smoker,a Drinker and a Womanizer who will you Pick ??

Are you guys arguing for an excuse not to be in your kids life? Please it's 2026, we don't do that here anymore. There’s no single excuse for any father not to be actively, visibly present in their kids life, even if you drive Uber from 6am to 11.59pm.

Another woman is not the reason your husband abandoned you He abandoned you! He did! Like him, by himself chose to do it

@ladyprowess Did his “providing for the family” make him incapacitated when it comes to his children? What does he do? He works 24/7 in a remote village with no network all year with no break? I think you are the wicked woman they speak of.

My husband should leave providing for the family to attend the kids party when I can do that comfortably without anyone being affected??? Tech and online jobs is making y’all think that life is easy. I’ll teach my kids to understand that your father not attending is because he couldn’t do that and that does not stop him from loving you. That was what my mum did for us. She always try to make us understand the actions of our dad. I didn’t understand before but growing up and seeing a lot of things I realized that my mum did great. She did everything she can to make sure we don’t hate our dad… A man that wasn’t trained with emotional support can’t give it. No man is perfect and you can’t give what you don’t have but as a mother you can help me where he’s having issues. A lot of times, kids hatred for their dad is being sponsored by their mom. I know this cos I’ve heard a lot of my friends say how their mum use to turn them against their dad… I know someone specifically that currently hate his mom with passion because it was after the death of his dad he realized that his mom has been manipulating them. He said the only thing he ever gave his dad was 5,000 and he had to hide and give him cos his mom won’t allow them. I can’t say everything but I won’t allow my husband go thru all that to prove to you that he loves you; if you can’t see the sacrifices he’s doing for you as something. When you grow up and have your own kids, you’ll understand