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@ClownWorldFren @frankthefrstr @meoww739 @yvessirae i’ve read this book and there is literally nothing to do with rape. infact the book emphasises consent🤣! Not a single hint regarding rape so your logic just falls flat
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@frankthefrstr @meoww739 @yvessirae Appeal to popularity fallacy. All of those likes, yet no one has proven me wrong except saying "rape isn't bad if she enjoys it" and "people don't actually like what they fantasize about".
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A lot of the people who don’t get it are men. As a woman, I’d rather die than be raped.
hera۶۟ৎ@herainhistory
Milica Kostic was a high school student from Serbia, Yugoslavia. On Sept 4, 1974, she was lured to a 12th floor apartment in Krusevac by a group of men who then tried to rape her. To avoid being assaulted, she jumped from the window of the apartment and fell onto the street. She was 18-years-old.
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@___anjola men enjoy it when ‘rich men’ humble women. no man would like a woman to be in her phone 24/7 during a date
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it seems like nobody wants to focus on how rude that is to say to someone, especially someone you’re dating lol?
Annalise Keating@Ariannnyy_
Dating scene is so cooked. This girl just told me she was seeing this lawyer for four months. He was always either on the phone at dinner or would cancel the dates due to work. When she called it out he said “okay, well, it’s either that or we can split the bill.”
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niggas in the comments getting wet over a man being rude to a woman, being in the phone during a date is mannerless. He’s clearly just dating to be on a power trip. #bringbackreallovers
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the whole problem with dating nowadays is no one actually likes their date
Annalise Keating@Ariannnyy_
Dating scene is so cooked. This girl just told me she was seeing this lawyer for four months. He was always either on the phone at dinner or would cancel the dates due to work. When she called it out he said “okay, well, it’s either that or we can split the bill.”
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ But should women not argue back? I don’t see the point in partnership if you can’t challenge your partner especially if your a household which both contributes financially.I just find it unfair that women are expected to be all these things but men should just provide money.
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Arguing back annoys men. Especially those of them that don't have control of their emotions. It's one of the causes of violence. I'd just keep my cool. Sometimes he comes back and apologises.
Dialogue solves problems more than arguing or talking back
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Compromising your sleep just to be ‘marriageable’ to a man that isn’t even in your life… yeah no.
We need to decenter men like mad!
LAIBA🇵🇸@laibaparhloplis
telling your daughters no one will marry them because they woke up at 01:30pm is crazyyy
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ apologies for the insults, but i think as well the marriageable traits are becoming a shell of a woman. not going out with friends, constant child rearing,being submissive and not arguing back. Can you say you will live a life like that with no man in your house? That’s the issue
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Adjusting your lifestyle,staying home,I don't agree with those but cooking, waking up early are responsible traits that not only benefits the man but also benefits you and if you don't have those,you can't begin to practice it in marriage. But I understand you though
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Standards women are told to meet for a husband!like waking up early, cooking, being ‘domestic’’,staying home all day, adjusting your lifestyle to be seen as a ‘good wife’. That’s the point you shouldn’t be shaping your life around that before it even exists.
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ You’re conflating two things. No one is against responsibility. The point is why you’re changing your behaviour. Waking up early because it benefits you = responsibility. Doing it to meet ‘marriageability’ standards = conditioning. You’re arguing a simplified version of the point
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Because the very basic standard of marriage is responsibility.
Is it hard to understand?
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@lurkr_13 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ You’re mixing up two different ideas. Responsibility is about how you manage your own life. ‘Marriageability’ is about adjusting yourself to fit someone else’s expectations. The tweet is criticising the second, not the first. You keep reframing it as responsibility to avoid truth
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@sode917 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ I see why people settle for rubbish these days😂😂. " Being responsible has nothing to do with marriageability".
When you want to get married, don't check if he is a responsible man. Atụrụ
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ You’re dressing it up as ‘responsibility’ to avoid admitting it’s about meeting imaginary marriage standards.
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Adjusting your sleep in this context = being a responsible adult. Marriage was mentioned because the general consensus is that marriage happens when a responsible adult man means a responsible woman. Marriage here emphasizes responsibility. Not male centralisation
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@lurkr_13 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ No. I’m saying don’t centre your life around a future husband. Being responsible has nothing to do with ‘marriageability’ ode.
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@sode917 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ You're saying you'd teach your daughters to wait to be married first before leading responsible lives?
Are you okay?😂
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@lurkr_13 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ are you okay? who is talking about married women? the entire tweet is about single women being told to behave like they are married when they are single?🤣
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@sode917 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ What has my studying medicine got to do with this?😂 What is wrong with you people??
The a woman enjoining her female children to stop waking up by 1:30pm means she is making men the centre of their lives?
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Compromising sleep in this context = adjusting yourself to fit an imaginary standard of ‘marriageability’. That’s the whole point you shouldn’t be living around a hypothetical man!
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Please explain what it means to compromise sleep in the context of a relationship between two adults who are married or intend to do life together.
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ the tweet says “Compromising your sleep just to be ‘marriageable’ to a man that isn’t even in your life…” Did anyone say that you shouldn’t compromise sleep when your married? the entire conversation is about women being forced to prepare for something that may never happen!
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@lurkr_13 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ Your studying medicine but your on the internet fighting. I think you need to read your books more because no one said mistreat your husband. the entire premise of the tweet is to stop revolving your life around a man who doesn’t exist!
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@sode917 @Da_Demon212 @khadijahzakari_ Banks in Nigeria without prior warning,sack most of their employees but no woman has stopped applying for jobs because people got sacked but you're willing to treat your husband with disdain because some men leave their wives?You're extremely useless 😂.Pls don't ever get married
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@Da_Demon212 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Waking up early doesn’t make someone ‘marriageable’ that mindset is the issue. Ur a useless woman for not comprehending the original tweet it’s clear you have no literacy skills. No one said mistreat your husband. But no woman is going to wake up at 1pm for someone who isn’t real
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@sode917 @lurkr_13 @khadijahzakari_ Of course. There are foolish men who do that. And you're saying you'll treat your husband with reluctance because there men who leave their wives?
You're a compound fool. Your mother failed woefully😂😂
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