
sonma
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sonma
@sonma33249194
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Katılım Mayıs 2020
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@Wizarab10 🤣 if she truly was funding his lifestyle, na him pay bride price marry her, abi she found the bride price too? 😂 Or them loan her to him?
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You just reminded me to address this. He was earning N160k a month from WWTBAM alone. This was 2004 and that was a whole lot of money. How many people earned N160k in 2004? This money does not include endorsements.
That job gave him access, it brought him other gigs, he got lots of cash gifts because Nigerians are very generous people and he was our hero.
That guy is rich.
Neo Officiall@neo_officialll
Frank said he was getting paid N160k to anchor who wants to be a millionaire. She might not have been sponsoring him fully but there is no way they were surviving on N160k.
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@Rise_Forge I've always loved the Air Force and applied through the NDA some years back. I didn't make it, but in hindsight, I'd rather the Army.
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@HaxorJr @OurFavOnlineDoc In most quarters, the principal doesn't even know people buy votes on their behalf. Sadly, we're set to see the most lopsided elections ever. Machineries are already set, and they're all in our faces, starting with the INEC chairman. Unless we just want to turn a blind eye.
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@sonma33249194 @OurFavOnlineDoc You may be right, you may be wrong as well about knowing the outcome
If the election is just a script waiting to play out, then why do these people go the extra mile to buy votes and bribe thugs to do their bidding during election?
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If you are an NYSC corps member,
If you are offered election work in an area that is sensitive or dangerous,
PLEASE DO NOT GO.
I’m telling you this from experience.
When the animals hired by politicians start attacking and killing people,
INEC HAS ZERO PLANS FOR YOUR SAFETY.
Instablog9ja@instablog9ja
“We’ll deploy 1.4 million NYSC members for elections” — INEC boss Amupitan
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@nwoko_greg62705 So, how come in some quarters, Ojukwu is said to be Gowon's senior pls?
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@HaxorJr @OurFavOnlineDoc Pls, let them replace. What's the value of the Nigerian election in reality? After all, the outcomes are known even before the election. Pls... Let people live. The country is already too hard.
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@OurFavOnlineDoc You shouldn't discourage the corps members like this
Rather indulge the state to beef up security at every polling unit
If 80/100 incorruptible corps members decide to not go because of fear, they'll replace them with people they can control like puppets and rigging will be easy.
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@OurFavOnlineDoc 🤣 In 2017, I was posted to Danbam, Bauchi State after camp, and we were told that we should always wear our uniforms because the residents killed Corp members during the 2015 elections, without being aware that they were corp members, so we needed to be identified. Naso I run
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@aleeygiwa I was involved in an accident on Friday, and for the first time in my life, I experienced NPF. No one cared how I was, all they cared about was taking me and the car to the station to write a statement and undertaking and then pay for bail, for what crime? I don't know. Kai
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You can now reach your nearest Divisional Police Officer by phone.
To enhance response, accessibility, and community policing, her are the contact numbers of Divisional Police Officers across Nigeria.
Security is a shared responsibility. Please speak up, report promptly, and remain vigilant.
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Abeg oo I came from a very fertile family 😭😭
Juss.mercy❤️🩹@nwidele
quickies before going out>>>
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Just look at these wild aneemas 😭
👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊@UnkleAyo
Here's a video of South Korea's elite 707th S.Missions Group conducting a counter-terrorism exercise, securing a hijacked bus during a training scenario. You see these clips & you just chuckle at the embarrassment you have at home, whose specialty is assaulting civilians.
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@anishmoonka Learned this from his book, the 7 principles for making marriage work.
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They put 17 people, married an average of 21 years, into a brain scanner and showed them a photo of their spouse. The same parts of the brain lit up that fire when a teenager has their first crush. Two decades together, and the chemistry was still going off like fireworks.
The study ran at Stony Brook in 2011. What changes after 20 years is the anxiety. That panic of not knowing if they love you back, the wondering, the checking. All of that fades. The pull toward them stays.
So that tells you what old love looks like in the brain. It doesn’t tell you how a couple gets there.
A marriage researcher named John Gottman has spent 40 years on that question. He films couples arguing in his lab at the University of Washington and predicts whether they’ll divorce. He gets it right 93.6% of the time, from 15 minutes of footage. More than 3,000 couples now.
He watches the two-second moments between sentences. The pauses. That’s where the prediction lives. The fights themselves matter less.
His go-to example: your wife is staring out the window and says, look at that bird. You glance up and say, oh wow. Or you keep scrolling on your phone. That tiny choice, that little reach for your attention, is what he calls a bid.
He watched newlyweds in his lab and followed them for six years. The couples who were still married had responded to each other’s bids 86 times out of 100. The couples who divorced had responded 33 out of 100. Same money fights. Same in-laws. Same dishes in the sink. The one thing that was different was the bird.
This part stopped me. Gottman found that 69% of the things every couple fights about are problems that never get solved. The chores. The money. His mother. Whose family they spend Christmas with. The arguments repeat for 50 years. Happy couples and unhappy couples have roughly the same list of problems. The happy ones learned to argue about that list without contempt. The eye roll. The sigh. The little smile that says you are pathetic. Gottman calls contempt the sulfuric acid of relationships. He says it’s the single biggest sign that a marriage is over.
When you see two old people asleep on each other on a plane, the forgiveness in that picture is real. They have absorbed thousands of small failures by now. There is something quieter underneath the forgiveness, though. Decades ago, one of them said look at that bird. The other one looked up.
Dear Self.@Dearme2_
Every time I see old couples, I always wonder how many times they’ve forgiven each other.
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