filth wizard

Something pretty funny about that specific queer subset of alt style becoming mainstream is watching people design alt characters without being able to tell what particular sexualities and gender identities are being flagged

@NB278998 @nise_yoshimi This is not what the word interchangeably means, for a start

@nise_yoshimi maybe i don’t read enough but what’s so uniquely bad about this compared to 90% of twitter writing

that my writing is like this is the kind of thing I wake up in a cold sweat about

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau It’s really just about making a small effort to be kind to each other, though. Thanks for the discussion

@spirith0st @eastgorteau People aren't always completely pleasant with their annoyances. In further news, water is wet. It's as silly to think there would never be friction as it is to think no one would use a dating app to date. I think this has run its course.

try being queer and on the apps and not interested in ENM and you’ll understand the frustration lol. idc what other people want to do with their own personal relationship dynamics but it makes dating very hard if you’re not interested in it

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau That’s entirely fair, but neither the original tweet in the quote chain nor the one in this reply chain are commenting on this as the simple UX issue it may be, they’re annoyed that people are poly, which is the most unpleasant possible way to sensemake that frustration

@spirith0st @eastgorteau Bother with people you would never date

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau If one wants to have boxes to be ticked that’s fine, but responding to that desire within oneself as though one’s own criteria are something other people have a duty to fulfil, in the same way one criticises poor craftsmanship whn hunting for a good pair of shoes, is weird & rude

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau Feeling like something is the only option is not the same as it being the only option. And when it comes to dealbreakers, what you have described is shopping. That’s how I react to polyester. The issue here isn’t other people it’s a market-stalinist approach to relationships

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau Dating apps aren’t the best anyone’s got, ppl dated just fine before them & still do so w/o, and the grief here sounds to be more about how it’s difficult to find romantic compatibility which is not unique to this situation, that’s just dating & it’s weird to get blamey bc of it

@spirith0st @eastgorteau And every one has plenty of people there for something real who have to filter through the rest. Not everyone gets the memo that you guys apparently do and there are plenty of people for whom this is the best they've got

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau Eh, I’d say they all drift toward it, every few years someone creates a new one that is definitely for sure about Real Connection This Time and the cycle renews

@spirith0st @eastgorteau Not every app is equally a hookup space

Why did no one tell me how much Socrates flirts with his interlocutors in Plato's dialogues?? Not only is it funny and even cute, it's also a debate tactic i hadn't previously considered. Imagine mid-argument getting hit with a "Your sexy ass would say some stupid shit like that"

@DEAD_COSMONAUTS @eastgorteau Sure but seen as there are evidently different types of dating, throwing yourself into hookup spaces looking for a long term monogamous relationship might not warrant so much surprise if it doesn’t often work out, I’d say

@spirith0st @eastgorteau But you're also there to date? This is looking for oranges at the grocery store and finding they're buried in the apples

旦那シャボン玉が好きでたまにベランダから吹いてるのですが、何がそんなに良いのか聞いたら「道ゆく大人がシャボン玉に気付くと1人でも追いかけたり、キャッチしようとするのを見るのがたまらない」と言ってて出会って9年目にして全然知らない情報過ぎた

Perfect equality, we crafted the most collaborative path possible. This could never happen consciously

Finding out that the friend you consider more autistic than you considers You more autistic than Them really is beautiful. It’s exactly like when you’re walking with someone and they ask where the two of you are going and it turns out you’ve been mutually following each other

Bi so curious…?

Espetáculo aquático do Cirque du Soleil viraliza e choca internautas.

@_vividblossom Thats why god made rocks

tonight my husband said he doesn’t think human bodies were made to harm each other because the bones in our hand are so fragile that it hurts to hurt

@hormigavestidas @loonaonfilm @editingtjps I mean if he said they were fake, but don’t they kinda do til a certain gauge?

@loonaonfilm @spirith0st @editingtjps they prob were bcs gauges don’t close up like that

did nobody tell them thats not for the lobe??? 😭😭😭

@loonaonfilm @editingtjps @hormigavestidas Damn really. This whole time I thought he had swag

@spirith0st @editingtjps @hormigavestidas weren’t they fake gauges

i only watch gay porn with classical music in the background because i’m more civilized than all of you