yogurt man

kirby is the only one worthy of determining who gets to live

@okhotsk_bgotsk @ManySuchCases if she wants to “identify as black” i can’t do anything to stop her. but it doesn’t impact me so why would i care?

@squidddad @ManySuchCases Rachel Dolezal identifies as black, and it's not your place to say she's not.

There is a big difference between the sexuality of a man who is attracted to males only, and that of a man who is attracted to males and masculinized females ("trans men.") They are different sexualities and should be referred to accordingly. Gay is not an umbrella term.

@bulkbiker @ManySuchCases i know there’s nothing bad about being bisexual! I’M bisexual! i LOVE being bisexual! but it’s not your place to define who others are happy being.

@squidddad @ManySuchCases Err yes we can...and anyway what's so bad about being bisexual in 2026 anyway.. they should embrace it. They simply aren't gay though.

We like the entirety of the male body - yes, that includes dick, dear. Our homosexuality is neither a "genital preference" nor a "big problem"; you are a homophobe for saying it is. Lastly, gay men don't date "trans men" because "trans men" are women.

@iamjeffreygmay @Fredayesthatone @ManySuchCases don’t care + didn’t ask + literally everyone who matters recognizes my relationship as gay + seethe about it

@Fredayesthatone @ManySuchCases @squidddad I'm outside all the time and I meet actual real men and actual real women. I enjoy it very much. It is impossible to change sex. You will always be a man no matter how you dress & how you wear your hair.

this goes for all sides btw! i don’t align with the left or the right and society doesn’t like that.

i’m not mad, i just think it’s funny that nobody can handle an opinion that’s different from theirs and will label you the worst of the worst in their mind because you SLIGHTLY disagree on one thing, even if you fully agree with the rest of their beliefs on a subject.

me: defends transsexuals and the reality of our bodies this fucking app:

@CoDeLuna6789 @Willowfoxxo okay i did a quick google and apparently they DO use skeletal remains (pelvis and skull) to determine *sex*, but recognize that there are limitations due to individual differences and age of the person when they died. social gender is analyzed differently.

@squidddad @Willowfoxxo I think it's mostly by how they were buried because even if there's any specific difference, a good amount of people can also have those differences because of some reasons, intersex, hormonal unbalances,... So that wouldn't work mostly just because bodies are diverse

True!

@JRMillerCWI @SimpPolice911 i despise the way men are treated when it comes to custody and child support

@JRMillerCWI @SimpPolice911 my mother kicked me out and forced me to live with my dad, with my sister and half brother staying with her. my dad was still forced to pay child support for my sister even though he took me in on one income while my mom and hers and her husband’s.

"If a woman files for a divorce, she should take accountability and be the one to pay for child support" 💯

@MUTANT_Q @Lispy_Dipshit yeah, i suppose. tomboy and femboy types in media but irl it’s always trans people which is a little funny to me because i can’t tell if he’s seeking them out or the other way around

@squidddad @Lispy_Dipshit So he's GNC attracted

@Lispy_Dipshit i’m not a woman myself but he’s bisexual so he is also into women, trans or otherwise

@Lispy_Dipshit i feel like some people would try to argue that my partner is a chaser. not that he specifically seeks out trans people (that i’m aware of at least) but his preference is for those who don’t necessarily 100% match what’s typically male or female, most notably transitioning adults

@thepeacepoet99 i’m 27!

@squidddad How old are you now?

When I tell my story of transitioning in the Middle East and detransitioning in the wake of the profound mindset shift I experienced about my life priorities following the traumatic events of Oct. 7, insignificant leftist trolls on this app often say: “You were never trans/never transitioned/you know nothing about what the trans community goes through.” Or, “You killed Palestinian children, you Islamophobe Zionist murderer!” But here I was four years ago: Living stealth, integrated into religious, non-gender affirming (highly gender segregated) sectors of society being perceived as the opposite sex, and still doing my part to promote peace between Jews and Arabs. What were most American pro-Palestine & trans people my age doing back then? They were having temper tantrums about being misgendered while not even remotely trying to ‘pass’ as the opposite sex. They were claiming victimhood status for not being asked for their preferred pronouns in every single interaction. They were promoting Palestinian terrorism as “liberation” while doing (and risking) objectively nothing of their own to promote peace between Israelis and Palestinians. They were virtue signaling. —————————————- My life in transition was insane! I had incredible, enriching, meaningful adventures while pretending to be a guy. But ultimately, I was living a lie which required deceiving everyone around me. Trans 🏳️‍⚧️ was an invigorating lie to live. I had so many incredible adventures that most women (female people) would never have had the chance to experience. But living this lie made my life increasingly more complicated in ways I could never have predicted. I couldn’t risk getting too close to people because hiding the truth took precedent. I didn’t want to be “trans.” I just wanted to be normal. I thought transition would reduce the social friction I’d experience in my life. And in some surface level ways, it did. No one pestered me about why I wasn’t putting on make up, having boyfriends, growing out my ‘beautiful’ curly hair and wearing form fitting clothes. But that came at the price of having to protect this lie at the cost of so many relationships, my health and my sanity. I was so committed to living a transgender life forever despite all the doubts because still, my life was happy and exciting. For this reason, I was unable to recognize my doubts as doubts. It took living through multiple terror attacks for me to begin to appreciate my health and to understand the importance of my body in keeping me alive. But that understanding was intellectual. It took living through the horrors of October 7 for me that my gender troubles suddenly became way less important to me. And that earth-shattering experience wherein I was forced to contend with my own mortality made me promise to myself that if I were to survive these manifold ever-unfolding horrors, that I would quit living the trans lie. And so I did. And I now live with the consequences to my mind and to my body from a decision that I’d made my mind up about as a confused, idealistic and autistic 12 year old girl who was not told the truth about just how developmentally, psychologically and physically derailing it is to pretend to be someone you wish you were- but objectively are not. ———————— Over the last decade +, trans people have been able to tell their stories: on TV, on the news and all over social media- without being accused of causing harm, without being threatened with death and rape, without being doxxed. They were celebrated. Why shouldn’t detransitioners be afforded the same?

@Yankeesfantwt @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 i ask a person if they’re sure BECAUSE i know it’s not about me. i want them to make the decision that’s right for them, with all available information. that doesn’t mean force women to listen to a 6wk “heartbeat” - it just means going over it and making sure she understands.

@squidddad @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 It has nothing to do with you, so you’re not allowed to. It’s as simple as that.

Lawyer here, the reason why prayer is allowed in Trafalgar Square and elsewhere is that praying is not illegal. Trafalgar Square is a public space and anyone can pray there if they wish no matter which god you worship.

@thepeacepoet99 my transition allowed me to see a future where i was an adult, but i recognize that it’s not the right call fo everyone. though i also didn’t start my medical transition until i was 20 and had plenty of time to fully think about the effects of hrt and whether i wanted them.

Imo if trans activists did the type of advocacy as detrans activists are, there would be fewer detransitioners. Transition these days for my generation has been marketed as a panacea and it really is not. A lot of Gen Z transition regret seems to revolve around “I was sold a false bill of goods and I was too young to understand that.”

@Yankeesfantwt @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 i’m so tired of the affirmation-only model people have adopted for things like abortion and transgenderism these days. it’s not a hate crime to ask “are you sure?” before performing an irreversible and potentially traumatic procedure

@squidddad @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 that’s considered harassment because in those zones you aren’t allowed to try to influence their decision, and trying to ‘help’ or saying they’ll pray for you is an attempt to influence their decision.

@Yankeesfantwt @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 if it can be proven that there is intent to harass or intimidate i can see the argument but the people who pray for you aren’t typically doing that, they just want to “help” in the best way they can. “i’ll pray for you” is an extremely common sentiment.

@squidddad @AldousBall @RajanBarot24 it’s illegal to do right outside of abortion clinics if it’s seen as harassing or intimidating the women seeking healthcare.

@thepeacepoet99 you’ve got a lot on your shoulders with advocating for peace where you are.

@thepeacepoet99 risks even are because we don’t have long-term studies on this topic. and there’s so much more! and i just want to say i’m glad you’re able to live as your authentic self and don’t have to put on a mask anymore. that’s hard for anyone regardless of what’s going on for them and