@subnamedd@HoosierHunk …except they do, and they are??? 😭😭😭 gay people are role models for other gay people, naturally, no matter their occupation. so when those role models partake in actions that imply “oh yeah you just need the right conditions to turn you”, that deserves an explanation!
rt’d one of my posts I made during the time I was “cancelled for being straight”…and I think reading those comments again undid the last year of therapy jfc😭 Mind you I still haven’t had sex with a cis woman off camera :)
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk Touch some grass, dude. If seeing a vagina on your timeline is so triggering then you shouldn’t be on the internet. Theres no betrayal of trust because it’s not some fucking contract.
@subnamedd@HoosierHunk you’re being willfully ignorant at this point. the whole point is that you COULD avoid this content but except you can’t, not when creators you trust to not post it EXPLICITLY betray that trust and post that content that is triggering for you
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk Stop. Policing. Other. People.
They create content. They don’t owe you explanations. They aren’t your role models. They decide who they collab with. They live with the rewards or consequences. They have agency over their bodies and their sexuality.
@subnamedd@HoosierHunk because it DOES matter to people outside him and his partners: the people he creates sexual (and thus involving SEXUALITY and SEXUAL ORIENTATION) content for!!! why is this so hard to understand 😭😭😭
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk Lgbtq & queer doesn’t just mean gay- there are several facets to it. If it’s triggering to you- don’t consume the content and don’t follow a creator so you can do a gotcha comment when he brings up something that affected him. There are thousands of people on here- go follow them
@subnamedd@HoosierHunk “gay” male adult content creators creating bi/straight content in the industry (which is triggering for their primarily gay male audience) and then especially trying to rationalize it using similar rhetoric to conversion therapy (not saying that the creator in question did so)
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk So if people’s experiences aren’t universal then why are you policing him for having sex with a woman? What if he is bi after all? And the bigger question is why should it matter to anyone but him and his partners?
@subnamedd@HoosierHunk …no?? 😭 people’s experiences aren’t universal like that?? and that’s also assuming that straight is the default and that people HAVE to experiment to know that they’re not the sexuality they thought they were.
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk What situation? He experimented with his sexuality and posted it online. It got a mixed reaction. That’s it. People are trying to crucify him for it but newsflash- every single gay person has experimented- that’s how they knew they were gay.
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk And yet you’re in his replies trying to shame him into what- an apology? Again he doesn’t owe you anything. Unfollow him and move on.
@subnamedd@HoosierHunk I didn’t say he owes me anything or that he can’t do what he wants (though, he’s a public figure, he’s subject to public criticism). what I’m saying is that he needs to stop acting so confused why he received the response he did when it’s obvious as to the reason why.
@antonymofcynic@HoosierHunk “Deservedly” stfu dude. He doesn’t owe you anything and he can collab and fuck whomever he wants. Don’t like it, unfollow him. Its so fucking ironic how gay people love to police others who experiment in their sexuality. Take your ignorant fandom somewhere else.
@HoosierHunk@subnamedd it’s always so funny to me when “gay” male content creators who formerly posted exclusively gay content all of a sudden post bi/straight content and then act all surprised and defensive when they understandably and deservedly receive backlash for it