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What's the MOST ADDICTIVE Netflix series EVER?? The kind that makes you say "just one more episode"... and suddenly it's 4 AM 👀

@Drnaturalcare Green Amarathus or called ‘Chaulai’ in India. It’s a weed but used as a ‘saag’ and is highly nutritious.

@dame__betty Add breastfeeding, taking care of the newborn and roller coaster of hormones which is another ball game. No other major surgery expects a patient to take care of another human being in a couple of hours . Also , good luck if you have a toddler at home.

What no one told me about C-section recovery. - You need to learn how to cough again, the first cough I had few hours after surgery was painful and scary. - The first step after surgery is painful, literally learning to walk like an infant. - Getting in and out of bed is even more harder than surgery itself. - Laughing, sneezing hurts - Bleeding for several weeks - Complete recovery might takes months. - No having proper bath for weeks May God bless all mothers, it's not easy 😭 5 weeks postpartum 😊

CS Lewis understood

Marriage in India: the bride and groom are just actors, and the parents are the directors. Indian marriages don’t collapse in one day. They collapse under pressure. And most of that pressure doesn’t come from the couple, it comes from parents. Before marriage, parents decide what you study, where you go, who you meet, how you live. You grow up being managed. Fine. You are a child then. But when you are 28, 30, educated, earning, capable, and about to marry, why are you still being managed? First they decide when you should marry. Then they decide who you should marry. Caste. Age. Salary. Background. Your readiness is irrelevant. Their timeline is the only thing that matters. Then comes the wedding. In India, The bride and groom are just actors, parents are the directors. Marriage is not about two adults choosing each other it is a family production - venue, budget, guest list, clothes, rituals, every small detail involamant. Okay. Marriage done. Now the real problem begins - For Indian parents, privacy as a concept does not exist! You don’t move out, you move into the same house. Two adults who just committed to each other are expected to behave like teenagers under supervision. If a son shows affection to his wife, parents insecurity starts - Wife ne control kar liya, Beta haath se nikal gaya etc.. Now emotional drama begins - I raised you, I sacrificed for you! Love becomes competition. This is where cracks start - A new couple needs space, they need time to build their own rhythm, their own habits, their own intimacy. Instead, they are negotiating ego, control and emotional blackmail. And the story still doesn’t end- Now comes the child pressure ‘Good news kab de rahe ho?’ As if reproduction is a public announcement. As if a baby is a trophy for grandparents. As if your body, your marriage, your intimacy is community property. Some even say, “Dadi marne se pehle pota dekhna chahti hai.” Think about the logic - you want two adults to bring a human into this world to fulfill someone else emotional closure. That is not love, that is entitlement- The root problem is simple Indian parents struggle to let go of control. They don’t see their children as independent adults, they see them as extensions of themselves. And when control continues after marriage, marriage becomes a battlefield. Involvement in everything - No privacy, suspicion of affection, pressure for children etc… Then we act surprised when marriages fail - Two people are trying to build a life. But ten people are sitting in the driver’s seat. Until we normalize boundaries, independence and privacy, the system will keep producing conflict. Not because people are evil. But because control has been normalized for generations!

In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other: “Do you believe in life after delivery?”The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.” “Nonsense,” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?” The second said, “I don’t know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can’t understand now.” The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is to be logically excluded.” The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it’s different than it is here. Maybe we won’t need this physical cord anymore.” The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover, if there is life, then why has no one ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery, there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.” “Well, I don’t know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.” The first replied “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That’s laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?” The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her, this world would not and could not exist.” Said the first: “Well I don’t see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn’t exist.” To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you’re in silence and you focus and listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice, calling down from above.” Maybe this was one of the best explanations of the concept of GOD. – this lovely parable is from Your Sacred Self by Dr. Wayne Dyer 🙏

Women unlock their sacred feminine wisdom as they age. Stop chasing the modern female youth which is prized in today’s world instead of the ultimate divine being that u r becoming. Love yourself . Only a few are given the privilege of getting old. Don it with grace and dignity.

How do these toddlers get so much energy inspite of eating nothing ?

A baby’s brain interprets a mother’s absence as a survival threat — triggering a rapid, massive surge in cortisol. When an infant cannot find or sense their primary caregiver, the response is far more than emotional distress: the brain registers it as an immediate life-threatening emergency. Studies show that separation activates the infant’s stress response system almost instantly. Within less than 60 seconds, levels of cortisol — the body’s main stress hormone — can spike by 200–300%. This dramatic physiological reaction is not a learned behavior or a sign of “difficult” temperament. It is a deeply hard-wired, evolutionarily ancient mechanism designed to compel urgent reconnection with the caregiver, ensuring the infant’s survival. For a developing baby, safety is biologically synonymous with the physical presence of the primary attachment figure. What appears as intense crying or panic is actually a finely tuned neurobiological alarm system that ramps up alertness, mobilizes energy, and drives behaviors aimed at restoring proximity and security. Recognizing that these powerful responses stem from fundamental biology — rather than personality — highlights just how critical early caregiver connection is for healthy emotional and physiological development. [Bernard, K., Lee, A. H., & Dozier, M. (2023). "Maternal separation and cortisol response in 12-month-old infants: A longitudinal study." Developmental Psychobiology, 65(1), e22345. DOI: 10.1002/dev.22345]

No one is going to love you exactly the way you want them to love. Just notice their way of loving and appreciate it. That would encourage them to love you more - Lifehack/ lovehack

Indians are amongst the best immigrants who do not rely on social welfare and infact work their way onward and upward in any country

@aravind Please talk about Australia and Indians living there. What do you foresee as per your calculations?

Iran will undergo a regime change next. The US is taking its time and everything is being put in place to support Israel in this mission. The legacy red-green deep state, influenced by the China-Qatar axis, that compelled Trump to restrain Israel last year has lost its leverage.

Podcasts is one the best things that has happened in social media age . However, chose wisely what you are listening to ?

@HustleBitch_ I thought everyone knows this. Have always done this with my kiddos. It works like a charm . Another one is to do ‘Om’ sound humming - it helps them to calm down in seconds .

🚨 AMERICAN DOCTOR SILENCES SCREAMING BABY IN SECONDS - ON CAMERA - IN RURAL AFRICA A baby is screaming uncontrollably inside a small clinic in Buchanan, Liberia, when an American doctor calmly demonstrates a technique he says works anywhere in the world. With one arm positioned above and the other below, he applies a specific hold - no medication, no gadgets, no soothing talk - and within seconds the crying completely stops as the baby visibly relaxes in his arms. The clip has parents amazed, critics uncomfortable, and the internet arguing over whether this is a brilliant universal calming technique or something that shouldn’t be demonstrated so casually on camera. Is this a genius parenting trick… or something doctors shouldn’t be doing on camera?

The average person is quite dumb. Their opinions don’t matter. Look after your toddler and be their back up instead of being embarrassed for what they do in public

@LibertyCappy Mine did the same 😂

Why do they always try something completely unorthodox??? 🤣🤣🤣 👇👇👇👇

What 19 year old Vedamurti Devavrat Mahesh Rekhe has done will be remembered by the coming generations! Every person passionate about Indian culture is proud of him for completing the Dandakrama Parayanam, consisting of 2000 mantras of the Shukla Yajurveda’s Madhyandini branch, in 50 days without any interruption. This includes several Vedic verses and sacred words recited flawlessly. He embodies the finest of our Guru Parampara. As the MP from Kashi, I am elated that this extraordinary feat took place in this sacred city. My Pranams to his family, the several saints, seers, scholars and organisations from all over India that have supported him.

Totally wholesome content - A man raised right