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Growth needs honesty and without accountability, even ”good” people can become deeply harmful.

@MatthewCoast I learned that lessons with an individual I thought I can trust with his public reputation…😓 man that’s skilled and polished in manipulation is scary…trust is not for cheap people

Make a man show you, not just tell you. Because some men will tell you anything.

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@MatthewCoast ❤️

When she detaches, you've lost her forever. You'll never get the same version of her again. The woman who loved you unconditionally is gone. The person who fought for your relationship has left. The one who made excuses for your behavior has evolved. The girl who believed your promises has learned better. She's learned her lesson. She's seen your true character. She's experienced your real priorities. She's witnessed your actual values. She's understood your genuine intentions. Once she emotionally checks out, there's no going back. Once she stops caring, she doesn't start again. Once she removes her heart from the situation, it stays removed. Once she chooses herself, she keeps choosing herself. You can't un-teach someone what you taught them about your character. You can't un-show someone what you showed them about your priorities. You can't un-prove what you proved about your values. Don't mistake her kindness for weakness. Don't confuse her love with stupidity. Don't assume her patience means she'll wait forever. She gave you her best and you showed her your worst. She offered you her heart and you broke it repeatedly. She's done learning the same lesson over and over.

"Sorry." "Really Sorry." "Extremely Sorry." Apologizing is the easy part, coupling it with real change is much harder. Over time what I have come to understand about those who cannot admit wrongdoing or offer a sincere apology is this... An apology demands vulnerability, the kind that requires we see ourselves clearly even for a moment, to hold our own conduct up to the mirror of truth and expose it to the light without flinching and choose to make a real change. Some people tragically spend their entire lives avoiding that level of humility... It is not that they care nothing for the wounds they have inflicted on others. Rather, seeing themselves as one who has caused such damage would shatter the carefully constructed image they have built of who they imagine themselves to be. The pain of another feels far less threatening to them than the ruin of their own cherished self-deception. ...and that tells you everything. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by The Truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God. [John 3:20-21] True repentance begins with humble self-sight before God first, who already sees us fully, followed by a complete change of heart and mind away from prior evil choices. Until a soul is willing to stand in that holy light, no genuine apology can take root. Remember: An apology without any real shift in conduct is just manipulation. Fake apologies only serve to protect the ego. If you can't apologize from the heart, don't bother, you're not actually apologizing to anyone. Real apologies repair trust, take ownership of the wrongdoing, express regret, show understanding and come with REAL changed behavior, not more excuses!

@MatthewCoast Yes so essential ! Those that without can drives you nuts…and at the end, still expect you to coax him 😅

A good romantic partner makes everything in life easier. A bad romantic partner makes everything in life more difficult. Therefore, relationship skills are some of the most important skills in life.

How many man need to hear this TRUTH ? The WAY is always getting right with God is the most important thing anyone could ever do. ✅

@KnightWorld So cute 🥰🥰

my favorite view

@DanielvsBabylon Amen 🙏

You are the sons and daughters of God and it’s time to start acting like it.

@MatthewCoast Oh yes 🎯

Sometimes, you have to let a man, who was never on your level to begin with, go back to what he was used to.

@SerahOceane 🥰😍

These two are just chillin' out under a tree nearby watching my chickens in their run. 🦌

⚠️Sex before marriage changes relational dynamics in ways many couples underestimate.

@elonmusk @IterIntellectus @iScienceLuvr 😂😂

@iScienceLuvr Putting “Ph.D.” in your social media name is a sure sign of a pompous retard

This sort of mindset is probably why xAI failed to catch up to other frontier labs. If he wants to make SpaceXAI into a frontier lab, hope he changes his mindset. Though being a cloud provider is probably something they can easily excel in anyway lol (Colossus is impressive!)

@MatthewCoast Men who blame everyone except himself is a BIG red flag 🚩

Men love to say their ex took everything from them, but they leave out the part where he took EVERYTHING from her. Her self worth, her future, her security, her trust in men, and ten years of her life.

@MatthewCoast 🌹

Karma doesn't forget, when you play with someone's heart. If you’re lying, giving them fake hopes and empty promises, take it as a loan, it will come back to you with interest. And remember that you didn't break them, you borrowed their peace, their trust, and their love. And one day everything you took will come back for you.

@MatthewCoast No unless God intervenes.

Can you forgive infidelity? What do you think?

Reality of ‘modern dating’

@MatthewCoast 💝

Stop giving chances to people who don't value and respect the opportunity. You keep forgiving them. They keep repeating the same behavior. You keep believing they'll change. They keep proving they won't. Every chance you give them is an opportunity they waste. They apologize but don't adjust. They promise but don't deliver. They say they understand but don't act like it. Your forgiveness isn't teaching them to do better. It's teaching them you'll accept less. Stop giving unlimited chances to people with limited accountability. Some people don't want to change. They just want you to keep accepting their behavior. Your time is valuable. Your energy is precious. Your heart deserves protection. Stop pouring into people who leak everything you give them. When someone shows you they don't value what you're offering, believe them. When someone repeatedly disrespects the opportunity, close the door. Save your chances for people who actually want to be better.

A man who can't lead himself —financially, physically, energetically, or spiritually — how could he lead you?

@KnightWorld 🥰🥰

let yourself be loved gently