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This whole 50:50 conversation is a conversation for poor people.
Mentally poor people.
It takes a serious level of mental poverty to be fighting passionately for your right to watch your partner suffer while you hoard your own money.
Again, mental poverty in glorious display.
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A lot of you are actually very toxic people…Why are you already imagining a future where your husband cheats and spends money on other women because you’re splitting bills? Your own fantasies are always negative. No happy home in view at all.
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The way I think about double income household is simple:
Both spouses should split individual income into 3.
1/3 from both sides goes into running the home (rent + utilities + groceries)
1/3 from both sides goes into savings and investments,
Remaining 1/3 is yours to keep.
Whether they earn equally or not, it works. Nobody is overspent.
Spouse A earns 4K, Spouse B earns 2K.
Rent, utilities, groceries = spouse A 1,300 + spouse B 700.
Savings and Investments = 1,300 + 700
When a spouse is unable to work, there's enough reserve in savings and investments bucket to cushion the working spouse.
Anyways, none of this will matter if you marry your enemy because that's what it looks like you people are marrying.
No one, who genuinely loves you, will watch you work yourself to the grave while she keeps her money to herself. Tueh.
👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊@UnkleAyo
You and your spouse moved to Europe where: * you're earning almost equally every month, * rent is due every month, She'll be "chipping in" while you're bearing the entire cost of the entire household, because you want to form "Head of The House"? Nigerian men 😹😹
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@Airplanmode1998 Legend says his finishing move is "Gosim ezé gị" (say ahh)
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Bro no even a professional Muay Thai fighter and he out there putting bta. 🇹🇭👊🏾
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@DwaunElam @lucky_uhuns @Airplanmode1998 That nigga isn’t winging anything, his purpose in life is to collect teeth. Look closely at his moves, always aiming for the mouth.
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@lucky_uhuns @Airplanmode1998 Bro, the way he's winging those punches is insane.
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The important part of this conversation is that when we think sexual crimes, we instantly think "men".
But the facade of innocence that women present allow them to run under the radar.
More women have normalized getting pleasured by their pets, they purchase more sex toys (which isn't a crime but does factor unbridled sexual desires), abuse young boys than it is on record.
Most of these boys can't, don't, won't come out because they've been misled to believe that it is a badge of honor. A belief system reinforced by dysfunctional men who were also abused by older women.
So when in the rarity we get a highly placed societal woman like Simi admit to sexual crimes against children, you bite it down as hard as you can because this is a conversation that never gets featured.
Because of this facade of innocence, more children get left with women like Simi who think it is okay for them to be objects of pleasure.
People like myself are too insane to be bullied out of these conversations.
#Justicefor4 #Simiwhy
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Government wey neva give you steady light since January, neva address the 150% spike in fuel price, dey give you ultimatum to pay tax else dem go bill you. And you dey shiver
We are a nation of 200 million spineless sheep
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I still remember 2004, when I went to England for my best man’s wedding and experienced very fast Internet for the first time, which was more than the 4 Mbps we had in the office in Lagos. I couldn't sleep as I downloaded everything onto my laptop to take back home.
This was after we had done a $300m telco deal and I had executed a $4m SAP project back home. You can be making a lot of money in a place and still have less access to the basic privileges others have outside in a saner place.
This is why I try to avoid many arguments with Nigerians here, as they argue from their frame of reference and lived experience, not the reality of most others in the world. They can be exposed and have money, but they are still mentally poor as I was in 2004.
I had to go live in the UK in 2005 and attend school for many of my misconceptions and beliefs to change. Some people also live in the same UK and still have this sufferhead mentality as they don't leave London. I went all over and saw things that changed me completely. My visit to Cornwall is still my most profound.
My old customer and mentor started a business after retirement that was making over £4m in monthly profit, and is still a quiet landowner and farmer. My frame of reference shifted from hoarding and flaunting wealth to sensible investing and building.
A recent revelation that many Americans have a net worth of over $30m shocked people. It shows how the same poverty mindset is prevalent globally, and many don't see the other side. Some even thought it was largely due to crime. A few criminals make plenty of money, but trust me, many more people make much more money legally.
I would rather try to understand how people use their unfair advantages and find mine than to engage in circus-like behavior that glorifies criminals or accuses people I don't know of crimes. There is too much abundance in this world that we are not yet tapping into.
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Let me clarify here before they lump everyone together.
I do not charge money to raise money for anybody. In fact, for everyone I’ve raised money for, I contribute my personal money to the cause. I cannot ask the public to raise money for someone and I’m not contributing to it.
You cannot fake kindness. It is not sustainable. Importantly, you cannot make such promises to raise the complete funds. It is public money, you can’t guarantee how much people are willing to part with and you can’t force it out of them.
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This lady has a sick husband with kidney failure. While trying to solicit help for his transplant, she reached out to popular influencers and philanthropists, but they gave her their rate cards before agreeing to post about her husband on their pages According to her, she gave a philanthropist ₦1 million and also paid a popular influencer ₦5 million before they agreed to post about her sick husband.
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WTH!!! 5km in 20mins or less is impressive!!!
gbeadese@i_mreed
did anybody order a sub 20 5k?😮💨
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The bizarre sighting of a cat meat joint with live cats on display in a cage at Gbawe, Ghana.
[🎥: eye.on.weijagbawe]
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Sam Altman and his Silicon Valley bros are trying to physically colonise human intelligence so that they can control it and turn it into something you have to buy from them as you get stupider.
Don't take my word for it. He said so himself:
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@jayebros @SimisolaTomori @hadj_gesinde @QualityGadgets_ I understand, but it’s better you sell it and donate the money to a family member or a religious body or even charity. The aim is not to give him anything (punishment for bad behavior). But it’s in the past now, this is a learning moment for me, hope you also learnt from it too.
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@supa_NOVA91 @SimisolaTomori @hadj_gesinde @QualityGadgets_ I can’t ride the bike, I can’t give another rider cos they’re all the same. The money I will realize from selling the bike is not upto the relief he gets for dashing him
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