Tendireh
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Tendireh
@tendireh
Public Health | SRHR | HIV | Health Promotion



Imagine dating a Zimbabwean civil servant with a monthly salary of $220US,barely sufficient for a single lunch outing


“Sincerely we don’t care” is crazy because the girls you are supposedly mentoring will live in the same society with the men you don’t care about.👍🏿😂

Q3. I’ve been living with my boyfriend and his 16-year-old daughter for 2 months. (I left my man for him.) I took his daughter’s phone because she refused to do her chores. As I slept, she put vegetable oil in my hair and ruined my $300 wig install. When I woke up, my lace-front was puckered and rolled back toward the center of my head. She left the oil bottle near me so I would know that she did it. My hair could not be redone without washing it. I told him I was gonna kick his daughter’s azz. Him: “Why are you disciplining her? How are you the authority in my house when you sleeping on my floor?” FYI: He doesn’t like anyone to sleep in the bed with him so I have a sleeping bag near the foot of the bed; I’m not sleeping on the floor, I have a sleeping bag. He won’t pay for a new wig. Advice. #SBCCHAT





So… I recently discovered kuti Doek & Slay – hakuna varume. I have never been, and only now did I realize… no men at the event. Saka tinoonekwa nani? Yes, yes, I know… it’s women doing it for themselves, but hear me out: I have a better chance of meeting a decent, nice man grabbing coffee at Sam Levy’s than going to Doek & Slay on a Sunday. And here’s the thing - most women going to Doek & Slay are single, decent, with good jobs, entrepreneurs, running businesses… quality. Men should come to Doek & Slay, make it 'Doek & Slay – Mix 'n' Mingle.' People meet their life partners at such events. Before you know it, men and women will be saying, 'We met at Doek & Slay, and we’ve been married for 20 years.' Just my thoughts. I get it - some will disagree, and that’s fine.


Couldn’t keep this in my CR.

Q5. I only have one life and I want to live it to the fullest. My husband is 12 years older than me and my boyfriend is 9 years younger. I’m tired of pretending to be in love with my husband. I want my boyfriend, full time. He gave me an ultimatum a while ago (buy him an Impala car or he’s leaving me) but there’s no way I could hide a big purchase like that from my husband. Plus, my husband has the money and the credit score. My boyfriend is handsome, muscular, a great lover, attentive and any woman who sees us together tries to take him. Should I buy the car for myself-and gift it to my boyfriend-or should I walk away? #SBCCHAT





