Bukola❤️

23.🎈 Show me how good life can get, dear God.❤️

an annoying roommate can really give you a preview into what marrying wrong could look like

Brown is such an exclusive taste. You will always look good in brown.

If it was RCCG or any other church that held a large conference yesterday, there would have been a large outrage of how religion is the problem Many of you only find your activist voice when you see church and pastors Fake activism.

Oddly specific moments I wished I had a boyfriend:

only way to save money is to not care about your appearance and have no friends and not eat

“I don't like children” and “I will protect all children” are, in fact, two views you can simultaneously hold

There is no common sense in coming back home to cook for someone who has been home all day, except such person is disabled.

Lmao. There is love at home.

i have embarrassed myself enough for human connection it is now time to embarrass myself for professional connections

Does anyone else experience a complete loss of appetite during their period? Like instead of the cravings other people have, you can't just eat.

i miss when 80k was my problem, now i need millionssss😔

Dating-to-marry doesn’t mean I’m dating you to marry YOU. I’m dating you to see if I want to marry you. But that’s a conversation nobody’s ready for.

the disappointment i feel after being vulnerable is not rooted in the act of opening up but in the realization that sincerity is often received with far less care than it takes to offer it. there is something profoundly disorienting about exposing the most fragile parts of yourself only to discover that the person listening did not hold them with the same gravity you carried them with.

A lady is thriving : Your boyfriend must be lucky A lady’s skin is skinning : Your man is really taking care of you Una no even rate person parents again

“People know exactly what they’re doing” Until it’s you. Then suddenly, your intentions matter. Everyone wants grace for themselves, but rarely wants to extend it to others.

That's why you try not to internalise anything. Just do your best.

If my WhatsApp gets hacked and someone asks you for money, and you send it you’ll be disrespecting me. Like, when have I ever asked you for money?😔😔

i’ve removed ego and shame from the experience of liking people. me liking someone is my personal decision, but that doesn’t mean they’re obligated to like me back, desire me or act according to my expectations. i don’t see rejection or lack of reciprocity as an attack on my self worth. and by “shameless,” i mean i’m not carrying embarrassment on my head because i like someone. whether i text first, express interest or end up liking them more than they like me, it is what it is. i’m not going to start acting emotionally detached just to protect pride. i also think people who genuinely find mutual attraction, emotional alignment and timing at the same time are very lucky because it honestly doesn’t happen as easily as people make it seem.

You can literally just be existing and next thing, your period will come.

I should lock my notes app after tonight. A major reflection went down and now I'm going to sleep loving myself a little more.