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One statement that women make that I don’t find very smart is “if you love me, you will trust me” The truth is that love is not synonymous with trust, and the absence of trust doesn’t equate to the absence of love and vice versa. I can love you to death and still not trust you. Let me use an example that should be easy for most people to relate to. The only people who are likely to love you under any circumstances are your parents. But if you had gotten into so much trouble as a child and you have a history of stealing from other people or fighting in the community, they cannot trust you enough to vouch for you if they received a call that you were arrested for stealing or causing trouble. Even though they will run to the police station and do everything in their power to prevent you from being sent to jail because they love you, they will never fight the case from the angle of “we trust our son/daughter to never do this” Now, compare it to a woman who has a history of promiscuity or showing signs of cheating but who tells when you confront her that “if you love me, you will trust me”. Not only is this statement flawed, it is also manipulative. Therefore, while you may fall deeply in love with a woman just weeks after meeting her, trust must be earned over a longer period of time, sometimes years.

143 thousand people have seen this video and I have gone through both the quotes and comments, no women to be found. You all call me "pick me, and always say I hate and talk d0wn women", but my God will deal with you all. Most women are self!sh, ruth!ess, heart!ess, pathological l!ars, man¡pulators, narc¡ss¡stic, financial vamp!res and emotionally blackma!ler. They don't care about any man's sacrifices, or any financial or emotional commitments, but only themselves. Count whatever thing you do for a woman as dash/favour because most of them don't have a conscience or know how to show appreciation. Women will keep dealing with weak/simp every day until you people begin to choose and prioritise yourself. HeartMattaz

I bear witness that Jesus is The Son of God.

Apostle Femi Lazarus challenges congregation to prove heaven exists as one bold young member responds with a Christian apologetics answer that leaves everyone speechless

Met someone like this recently and it left me genuinely unsettled. Her parents are Muslims but her grandma was a Christian who raised her mom as one. Her mom later converted to Islam. She doesn’t firmly identify with either religion right now cos her mom told her to wait and see who she marries and basically align with him. She is perfectly willing to marry either a Christian or a Muslim. The first thing that crossed my mind was, you genuinely do not understand what either religion is actually claiming. Cos if you did, how could you delegate the destiny of your own soul to a marriage prospect? This is also why I no longer do the kumbaya “we all worship the same God” performance. I have Muslim friends and colleagues. I can sit with you, eat with you, genuinely enjoy your company, and still tell you plainly that I do not believe in the substance of what you are doing, that I think it is completely baseless and remarkably flawed. I have always maintained that friendship and sharp disagreement are not mutually exclusive. Sports, religion, I will tell you directly. The exceptions for me are human rights and politics. Not this. Christianity makes a claim that cannot be softened, Jesus is God. Not a prophet. Not a moral teacher. God. And He is the only path to salvation and eternal life. If that claim is true, Islam is not an alternative road to the same destination. It is a fabrication from the pit of hell. Paul did not mince words; “even if an angel brings another gospel, let them be accursed.” Under Christianity, Islam is accursed. The being that appeared to Mohammed was not Gabriel. It was a demon, which is precisely what Mohammed himself believed in that cave before Khadijah talked him out of it. You cannot sit with that honestly and remain passive. It is not an option. Floating between the two is a serious sign of existential unseriousness. I will respect the committed Muslim far more than the one swimming with the tides, cos at least the committed Muslim has grasped that the stakes are real. And tbh there is a weight to this. Accepting Jesus as Lord can mean confronting what that implies about your late Muslim grandmother or cousin, or best friend. That is not a small thing. But that weight is not an excuse to commit to nothing. You never find peace with that. You just find a softer way to dodge the question. Lukewarm is not neutral, far from it. It is a answer in and of itself. And frankly imo it is the worst one.

This is one of the cutest video. The boy's parents picking him up from school dressed as Superman and Supergirl.

RCCG Designers and fast execution. There was this time during YMR Daddy G.O was coming in like 20 minutes and designs had to go out for Father’s blessings in Portrait, Landscape (2 dimensions) . Na dem fi run am. If you want to create good stuff in less time you should serve in the design team.

It’s never just cruise. We all know wetin we dey do!

One of the quickest ways to destroy a friendship with wealthy people is by constantly asking them for money. Begging puts pressure on the relationship, makes you look needy, and reduces the respect they have for you. Instead of approaching them with the “always wanting to take” mindset, focus on being valuable. Wealthy people naturally respect and keep close those who contribute positively to their lives; whether it’s through skills, ideas, support, or simply good energy. When you position yourself as someone who adds value rather than someone who only wants handouts, they’ll see you as an asset, not a burden, not an opportunist. This way, they’ll genuinely enjoy having you around, and the relationship becomes mutually beneficial. In the long run, being valuable will open more doors for you than begging ever could.

Someone made a video criticizing Hilda Baci’s cooking, saying, “Omo, this food no done.” In the comments, people quickly defended her, saying, “She promised the largest pot of jollof rice, not the most delicious.” But when Chef Dammy attempted to break the Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon, the same grace wasn’t extended to her. Instead of remembering that her goal was about time and not necessarily taste or presentation, many dragged her and tore down her efforts. The truth is, people don’t always measure with the same scale. Their reactions often depend on who is involved, how much they like the person, or the circumstances surrounding the attempt. The lesson to learn from this? Don’t let the shifting opinions of people discourage you. Today, they may cheer for someone doing exactly what they criticized another for yesterday. People’s judgments are inconsistent, but your dreams shouldn’t be. Focus on your race, your goal, and your growth, not the noise from the crowd.

You cannot make $1M alone. You’ll need people, a solid structure where everyone collaborate, play a role, and share money after. Stop limiting yourself, start collaborating!!!

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙮𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙢 𝙃𝙖𝙨 𝘼𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝘽𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝘽𝙧𝙤𝙠𝙚𝙣 Once again, we see the same cycle; a system built on the sweat of young Nigerians failing them at critical moments. JAMB has now admitted that 157 centres were affected by a "technical glitch" during the 2025 UTME. That’s nearly 1 in 5 centres! Yet, this is not a one-time event; this has always been the reality for many Nigerians navigating our flawed educational systems. But the deeper problem is not just the glitch. It’s the culture of impunity and unaccountability that runs from JAMB to WAEC, down to our tertiary institutions. Students read tirelessly, overwork themselves preparing for exams, only to face an opaque system where some lecturers don’t even mark scripts. They assign grades “𝙖𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨,” and nobody questions it. The students just accept it, because they don’t have a platform or a voice to challenge it. And in all of this, students bear the brunt. When the system is corrected, students suffer again, retaking exams they already sat for, facing new sets of questions under fresh pressure. What happens if they don’t perform as well this time? They are penalized twice for an error they didn’t cause. And when the system isn’t corrected, students are still the ones who suffer, carrying the weight of a failure that was never theirs to begin with. It’s a lose-lose situation for them, all because of a system that refuses to take responsibility for its flaws. To make matters worse, some in the society are quick to blame the students, saying things like "they’re lazy" or "they’re always on TikTok and Instagram." But when you have a mass failure rate of over 75%, or even over 50%, the first thing that should come to mind is not student laziness, it should be that the system has failed. We can’t continue to scapegoat the victims of a broken system. The data is not just a statistic, it's a reflection of structural failure, negligence, and lack of accountability at the top. We’ve normalized injustice. We’ve been told to “take what we are given” without asking questions. These institutions don’t want their systems challenged; they fear scrutiny because it exposes the rot. That’s why they prefer silence. That’s why they offer excuses instead of solutions. And that’s why they continue to get away with mediocrity. But here’s the truth: if we don’t speak, nothing changes. Every time we challenge these failures, whether through mass outcry, petitions, protests, or institutional pressure, we see some effort to correct things. When students rise, systems are forced to respond. So let this be a reminder: We deserve better. And we must demand better, not just from JAMB, but from every institution that has failed to uphold fairness, transparency, and excellence. The integrity of our education must never be optional. It must be demanded.

10k is too small for your babe, but that’s the money you think your family deserve just because they won’t complain and don’t feel entitled? Anything you’re doing for your girl, your family deserve at least X5 of that. They’re the only people you can really bank on.

No matter how old you are, or how much money you have made, or your position in the office and how many subordinate you command, you'll always be a child to your parents.

Reality Check, Son: Men & Women Have Different Timelines A 23-year-old woman is at her peak in looks. A 23-year-old man is just getting started. Life isn’t fair—it’s just reality. Why? A woman’s value is front-loaded – Youth, beauty, and fertility are prized early. A man’s value is earned – Money, power, and status take years to build. Men age like wine, women age like milk – Society rewards men who build, but punishes women who waste their prime. How to Win? 1. Ignore distractions – Chasing women in your 20s slows your growth. 2. Stack skills & wealth – Build yourself first; women will follow later. 3. Master discipline – Gym, career, mindset—outwork everyone. 4. Patience is your weapon – Your peak comes in your 30s & 40s. Stay focused. By 30+, the tables turn. The women who ignored you will seek you. The men who mocked you will envy you. Stay in the game, build your empire, and watch them come to you.

I agree in part and I disagree in part. What does he mean by "he needs to have 2 or 3 bedroom apartment before he can marry" How many people can afford it now? Someone that graduated around 1985 would be talking as if his time and ours are the same. Even those of us that can afford it in this generation, don't say this nonsense. The lady was also sent to school, where is her own 3 bedroom apartment since it is easy to make money and pay this astronomical rent in Lagos. If 2 people are committed to each other, they should pull resources together and get a place to stay. If it is one bedroom the guy can afford, they should move in there. Life is progressive. Let them build their lives together. This is not the era of a man killing himself with bills. Both of you were sent to school and both of you are working or expected to be. Both income are family income. Build your home and lives together. "What do you do and how much do you earn?" goes both ways. You both need to know what you earn to ascertain the family income and plan how to navigate the economy and plan for tomorrow.

😂😂😂😂😂 Companionship, partnership, and building a family are the real reasons for marriage. If all we see in marriage is financial burden, then we’re looking at it wrong. A good wife is not just another bill to pay; she’s supposed to be a helper, a supporter, and a partner in building something greater than what you had alone. Yes, she was paying her bills before, but marriage is about merging lives, not keeping separate financial records like roommates. Also, you're the head and provider... The real question is: Are you choosing a woman who understands partnership, or are you picking someone who just wants to offload her responsibilities onto you? Because the right woman will add value to your life, not just expenses. The whole deal is marrying right!

You don’t spend to get a woman to like you. You get a woman that likes you, then spend on her. That’s it.

This is how you know many people are evil. They are using all their energy to fight against retaliation instead of just telling people not strike others in the first place. Stiking people doesn't kill. Na retaliation dey kill. You dey craze 🙏🏾

@Wizarab10 Make nobody shaa touch me. Make or female, anything you get after hitting me first is on you.