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My guy in the UK 🇬🇧 is frustrated. He just gave me a long call now. His wife gave birth 5 months ago and hasn’t returned to work, saying she’s still healing. Oya nau, while at home, go for remote jobs to support the family she ignores that option. Rather she focuses on "content creation" on TikTok that isn’t paying, while he carries all the bills alone, plus a ₦350k monthly allowance for his mother-in-law. Now this same mother-in-law is threatening him for “pressuring” her daughter to work, while she's still nursing a baby. She even declines the suggestion of GP appointments to really confirm her health status. Saying she just needs some time. He's so confused at the moment because he sees other women that gave birth in the same UK, and they resume work after 3-6weeks while arranging a nanny to take over. All the house bills are currently on him, and his wife isn't making life any easy because he doesn't even know when she tends to get back to normal work. All she keeps telling him is "give me more time to heal"...

People with no kids… be honest, are y’all actually happy?

“If i am moving to your girlfriend I won’t be telling her I like her, I will come in as a friend who is always there for her, And you will sound like a douchebag if you’re stopping her to be just friends with me” — Timini Egbuson

Golden handcuffs are the most expensive trap in the UK professional class. You take a £120K job. The salary feels life-changing for the first 6 months. Then the lifestyle catches up — the mortgage on the bigger house, the kids' private school fees, the car finance, the holiday cottage in Cornwall, the partner who's also stopped earning to look after the kids. The £120K, once a luxury, has become the minimum required to keep the life running. The job becomes impossible to leave because the entire structure of your life depends on it. You stop questioning whether you actually like it. You start measuring everything against the salary you'd be giving up. The lads who 'made it' in the City, in law, in tech management are the most trapped people in the country. Their version of freedom is being able to afford to retire by 55, after 25 years of work they couldn't escape from. The lads with no salary and no fixed costs have more genuine freedom at 27. What looks like the prize from the outside is actually the bait. The salary holds you in place better than any contract could.

This syntax… Admin, who you, how do you form?

If you like, give up.

“If I don’t get married early enough, I’m already secured because I have frozen my eggs. " " When i’m ready, we’ll do the insemination and i’ll give birth to my mixed kids." " I want strictly mixed kids”, — Ashmusy

These ones abi🤣🤣

Mohammed Salah’s daughters giving honest opinion about their dad 💀💀

There is a senior man I know presently playing his trade in Kazakhstan as a footballer, he was taken to Kazakhstan by a popular agent here in Abuja. When he came to Nigeria last year, he was in tears because he said he would have don more for his mum and dad but his hands are