Tomie Tang

dressing up like the character that made me gay:

OF creators subjecting ourselves to public humiliation rituals on podcasts run by the worst men ever ultimately harms us & greatly benefits them. if all industry women boycotted these grifters they wouldn’t even have a platform, but we’d be fine. they need us, we don’t need them

women in porn: there will never, ever be a man who can make or break your trajectory. especially now in the golden age of self produced content. you don’t **need to** go to any party, shoot with any one dude, suck up to any clique etc. cultivate your own empire, I’m begging you.

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dream date at the protest

@jeanstherapy1 the people doing this are mostly not leftists

@tomiethetang the impulse to baselessly prescribe to the entire human race your own ideology-flavored personal preferences is weird and why normal people find leftists to be weird freaks

idk if other porn creators will say it publicly: its reasonable to dislike porn & not want to date men who watch it. what concerns me here is the response from young adults harshly shaming sexual expression/indulgence in general. this convo needs nuance & it doesn’t exist online

Onlyfans will always be hated immensely more than standard industry porn because misogynistic men want women they perceive as promiscuous to suffer and onlyfans provides us safety and control that alleviates suffering

i think people who are anti porn simply refuse to grasp the concept of “adult fun” being anything which requires maturity and mindfulness to partake in. sex, drugs, alcohol etc are all risky but ultimately being an adult is what permits you to take that calculated risk !!

i don’t want to generalize but personally the only people i know who even use the word “wasian” often are entirely non-asian people who are just very tiktok-brained & speak in meme references

Decriminalizing sex work isn't a fix-all. It's not intended to be. What decrim does is protect sex workers from the harms of criminalization specifically. Poverty and violent clients won't disappear because of decrim, and their continued existence doesn't mean decrim fails.

most porn does depict misogyny and I’m saying this as a woman who works in the porn industry! maybe if we were all more honest about it, this could change!

The Grotto of the Nymphs, from Pierre Louÿs’ The Songs of Bilitis by Willy Pogany (1926).

Nana & Marceline

masculine women should also be pulling off my clothes

I agree that labor organizing & dismantling capitalism should be prioritized bc it’s the only way to achieve a better quality of life. but I also understand that SW in its current form is a direct result of capitalism, even if trading sex for resources has always existed even in prior economic systems

@tomiethetang SW existed before capitalism, it doesn’t exist bc of it. But it’s real. Any work under capitalism is shit. Feminist should focus on labor issues in general and the fall of capitalism instead of policing SWs.

feminist convos on SW will never be productive until we accept that while every individual SWer may have a diff personal experience, the fact is most of us do it out of necessity. whether u like it or not, SW exists bc of capitalism & criminalization puts all of us at risk