whatever you do for you, will always help someone else if you allow it.
So do it for you. From an upright and sound state. It’ll be alright. Do you worry about them, do you.
When i say that’s ok— i mean that from the principle of what matters.
you don’t do this for them. You do this for YOU.
whether it helps, hurts, brings about realization— whatever! It’s ok.
MAKE. IT. ANYWAY. that’s YOUR job.