Vera 🦢

You were the problem in some stories too. Accept it!!

My man said something to me that really stuck. He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.” He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.” And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.

date idea: you watch my favorite movie and i watch you react to it