Valeria Gómez ☾

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if you don’t spend enough time getting to know yourself, you’ll end up absorbing everyone else’s definition of you

Psychology says some people avoid socializing not because they hate people, but because they can read them too well. They walk into a room and immediately sense the fake laughs, the hidden agendas, the performances. Their nervous system doesn't misread the signal, it just refuses to ignore it. Small talk feels like a tax they didn't agree to pay. Forced smiles cost them energy that takes hours to recover. They're not broken. They're calibrated differently. They don't avoid people. They avoid emotional labor that leads nowhere. When they do connect, it's deep, intentional, real. No masks. No games. Fewer friends doesn't mean loneliness. It means higher standards. That's not antisocial behavior. That's emotional intelligence.

Felicidades a las personas cuya amabilidad no es una estrategia, sino una forma de ser

— Susan Sontag

A veces me pregunto cuántas personas vivieron toda una vida con alguien, mientras en el fondo seguían amando a otra persona que nunca pudieron elegir.

El contenido corto fue diseñado para que no podamos crear memoria. Es decir, para que no podamos crear lo que somos. Lo que no se recuerda no se integra, no se vuelve carácter, no se vuelve ser. Es la forma más sofisticada que existe de vaciamiento del ser.

Fun people. I wanna laugh until it hurts. I wanna 'rock, paper, scissor' to decide where we eating. I wanna have dance battles and play fights. I wanna sing in grocery stores. Life has enough problems. I just want a joy-filled relationship.

alejandra pizarnik en sus diarios, 1 de enero

Les diré a mis nietos que ellos eran Bella, Edward y Jacob❤️

how you spend your days is how you spend your life. how you spend your days is how you spend your life. how you spend your days is how you spend your life. how you spend your days is how you spend your life. how you spend your days is how you spend your life.

When I get married I want my wedding video to be filmed like it's an episode of The Office. I want camera zooms, eye contact, side commentary ALL OF IT

peak female experiences : 1. realizing u can wear whatever you want 2. becoming besties with your sister 3. friendships start turning 10+ years old 4. accepting your body 5. finally understanding your mother 6. de-centering men 7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love

mi clase de 2° de bachi cuando teniamos que cambiar un examen de dia #LaIslaDeLasTentaciones2

Suddenly, you're 27. You make your coffee, rush to work, come home around 7, and you're too tired to do anything except eat, scroll on your phone, and pass out. Then you wake up, and do it all again. And when Friday comes, maybe you go out, or maybe you're just too tired. Then, out of nowhere, it hits you. How did everything pass by so quickly? You don't even feel 27. You still feel like that 17 year old kid who thought they had all the time in the world. But somehow, 10 years just disappeared. And you start missing the past. The feeling of being young, excited, and clueless. But then you realize, one day, you'll miss this, too. Being 25, being confused, being tired, but still trying. So maybe the trick is to slow down a bit and actually live this chapter before it also becomes just another memory. The point is no matter what age you are, you’ll miss these days. Life gets busy sometimes and it’s always a good time to stop and smell the roses.

Friends. Having actual friends. Not familiar acquaintances or online mutuals. Real Friends. One of the best hacks for a fulfilling life.

that vogue article is too real if he’s not obsessed w you just be single cause anything less is embarrassing

En tiempos de desinterés y falta de sentido, una conversación con alguien interesante puede resignificar el cotidiano accidentalmente. Como Anais Nin cuando escribe: a veces recuerdo palabras que has dicho y las exploro, pienso en ellas. Una frase tuya está llena de significado.