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@jekins27919 @Blessmyhalo @Wizarab10 Nah your papa be mumu

@wealth5872 @Blessmyhalo @Wizarab10 Mumu,shut up abeg

This is a tough one, so stay with me. An erect penis or lubricated vagina, isn't necessarily a sign of arousal. The body could be aroused even where the mind is not. In order words, the erection or wetness does not reflect the intent of the heart. It is called Arousal Non-concordance. Also, rape and arousal can happen simultaneously, and one does not exclude the other. The body responds to pain and pleasure. Orgasm during rape isn't an expression of pleasure. It is an example of an involuntary response to pleasure. It is irrelevant that you orgasmed, it is irrelevant that you enjoyed the sex. The pleasure is after the fact. You were raped! I'm so sorry you were raped. Nobody should have to violate your body like this. He gave you a moment you didn't ask for, nor consented to. He has destroyed the relationship you held so dearly and left you picking up the pieces where you masturbate to a memory that has held you bound and damned, unable to emotionally and intimately commit to your partner. You were raped and that is not okay. My only fear is, judging from your last paragraph, you want another round of this - this time consensually. You just might bury yourself in a hole you may never be able to get out from.

@jekins27919 @effiemoritz @Wizarab10 Because not everyone knows that and you are the must mumu man I have ever seen, idiot educating people was and will never be a bad idea

@wealth5872 @effiemoritz @Wizarab10 Please shut up, you just dey go under everybody comment dey talk this same nonsense,mumu

@Utumax1 @Wizarab10 No sir, she was wrong texting back to back and she should have rejected the drink and walk out but sir, some guys are crazy with sweet talks

@wealth5872 @Wizarab10 I see,you are trying to excuse her without blames. Good. Are you saying she was right to be texting him while in relationship with her boyfriend? Moreover,when he started sweet talking and touching her why didn't she get angry and leave ?

@Olaniyi_Olami @Utumax1 @Wizarab10 See person wey get brain

@wealth5872 @Utumax1 @Wizarab10 You no worth my time, I no fit dey go back and forth with person wey dey brainless.

@IDAsirAhmad @Wizarab10 Human heart is full of evil sir

@wealth5872 @Wizarab10 Wow! Chai This is really terrible and some people are wicked. 🥲💔

@Olaniyi_Olami @Utumax1 @Wizarab10 You be idiot, because clearly I was only educating people who wanted to blame her, and you can see they have been texting and she thought it’s was only a kind guesture. But people like you are stupid to understand

@wealth5872 @Utumax1 @Wizarab10 Shut up jaare, you just dey talk this same thing for everybody comments, why she go drink am

@MrPatri56805144 @Wizarab10 Sir, may God bless you that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 This is a tough one. But you have to erase that memory from your mind because you'll certainly regret it on the long run.

@zee_992 @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@ucheya_clinton @Wizarab10 Sir, may God bless you, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 Just bcoz you've never orgasmed like that before doesn't mean you had fun. You were raped. Your refusing to call the dude out means you're encouraging him to keep raping vendors; spreading STDs in the process. Your silence is the nemesis of other vendors. Call him out.

@Blessmyhalo @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 I might just be that guy & say she wasn't raped; she told us she was, just so she can bring herself to tell the rest of the story without feeling bad. I dare say it was consensual. People can't be wanting rapists dead for violating them, & you're thinking of calling your raper?

@Utumax1 @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

If we ask questions here now, some people will go mad. But the truth is this story is not adding up. Women should learn to define everything. You can't say you went to someone's place to drop goods sbd from dropping goods you sat down, listened to his sweet talks took the alcohol he gave you qbd didn't sense any danger. Omo. I am out.

@joe_sttimothy @Wizarab10 Sir, may God bless you that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 You were drugged. That's why the sex was so good and unforgettable. It's the drug you are longing for, not just the guy.

@mrViccman @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

To anyone who has been assaulted: please hear this—your body’s reactions do not define your consent. Erections, wetness, or orgasms are involuntary; they happen automatically and do not mean you wanted it. Feeling guilt, shame, or confusion afterward is normal—but it’s not a reflection of your choice or your worth. Understanding arousal non-concordance matters because it separates your body’s reflexes from your mind’s intent. You were violated, and that violation is never your fault. Consent is the only thing that counts. Your experience is valid, your feelings are real, and hearing this doesn’t change the truth: what happened to you was not okay.

@MrPhloxx @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

I'm so sorry he gave you a moment you never asked for. I'm so sorry you're left carrying the pieces while he probably walks around like nothing happened. But, you deserved a love that never made you question whether your body was lying. You deserved a partner who would have stopped the second you hesitated. You deserved a memory that didn't become a cage.

@nonsonasty @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 Most rich men keep taking advantage of vulnerable ladies out there because they think they're well connected and better off... This is has become a pandemic 🤦‍♂️

@TijaniAbio52782 @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@Wizarab10 I don't believe this. Something is not adding up walahi. It's like you skipped so many part and started telling us in episode 500 and expect our advice or response. You went to deliver at his place (Delivery should be outside collect your money and move)

@Paulidagu01 @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

This is a heavy but important conversation. A lot of people don’t understand that the body can react in ways the mind never agreed to that doesn’t change the fact that consent is the only thing that matters. Arousal isn’t the same as desire, and involuntary responses shouldn’t be used to confuse or invalidate someone’s experience. That’s exactly why conversations like this are needed so people stop blaming victims for how their bodies reacted in a moment they didn’t choose. At the same time, healing from something like this is not linear. Trauma can create confusing emotions, even attachments to painful memories, and that doesn’t make someone “wrong” it just means they need time, awareness, and probably support to process it properly. End of the day, nobody deserves to have their boundaries violated. But also, nobody should have to navigate the aftermath alone or in confusion. Sad 😢 💔

@GreensnGood @Wizarab10 I bet you don’t know what goldfly and pussy sweetener is, she will stay over and over again

@Wizarab10 I won't totally call it rape because after first touches she still stayed, if she really didn't want it to happen she would have left she just didn't want to look so cheap and easy to have... But if you were raped sorry for that it's so wrong .

@GreensnGood @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

@ClementEhis @Wizarab10 Sir, that was the work of the original goldfly, the guy pour it in her drink, that was what made her to reach orginsm if care is not taken, she won’t be the same again for life, she will be that guy slot, I pray she was able to fight it. SHE WAS RAPED

I am sorry you had to go through that. Mastubating to the the feelings of the experience is what is reinforcing your desire for it. Try to quit the mastubation. And don't forget, someone who raped you is an animal and hoping for a consensual meeting will him will further damage you. By all means save the tiny bit of you that is left