ingrid🩹

lemon cheesecake

made you look

Emotional vampirism

@Asmodoues @CPTNPHOEBUS @pannekook perfect, so just suck it up like a champ and stop victimising yourself haha

@yddirg @CPTNPHOEBUS @pannekook Telling someone they're annoying means feeling out the situation and determining how they will react (some react poorly!). This is a meaningful amount of interpersonal work/stress to do for a stranger's benefit. Expecting people to do that for you all the time is unreasonable.

sometimes i feel like the way people talk about autism on this website obscures the fact that it mostly makes you very bad at recognizing when something you’re doing is annoying

@zuzu__omelete @pannekook Not really, they usually make us a target 💔💔 I suppose they’re just bored and stupid and lack basic human decency but it does get tiring yknow? Like we’re not your babysitters?? Lol but c’est la vie!

@yddirg @pannekook It sounds awful indeed! I really hope people can act nicer after learning about your autismo, though! I mean, that should be basic human empathy I guess 😢

@CPTNPHOEBUS @pannekook I think you’re mistaking social convention with social trends; some people are different and take more offence at being alienated by their peers because it makes them feel bad and this is usually considered rude :/

@yddirg @pannekook i don’t see the utility in assigning bad faith to everything others do. many people (yes, even autistic people) do in fact take offense in being told that the way they express themselves is bad or annoying. it’s not a social convention for no reason

1 week countdown til my birthday!!! I’m planning to eat a different slice of cake every day!!! Starting off by cheating w a giant brigadeiro (the bakeries were all shutting so had to stop by our local Brazilian shop)

“People you may know” and it’s the devil from the Bible

@CPTNPHOEBUS @pannekook it’s not considered rude if you’re not rude about it? It’s kinda selfish not to actually. but then again most people do become rude and condescending at any given chance. But yeah, definitely not ideal, hence why most logic-based autistics won’t engage in such behaviour

@yddirg @pannekook it’s considered rude to tell somebody that they’re being annoying. the polite thing to do according to most people’s social standards is to just grin and bear it, but many people are not very good at doing that, so they let on nonverbally that they’re annoyed w/o saying it aloud

@girlmeat07 it’s only patriarchal if u feel bad about it!!

i wish i was dumb enough to be a choice feminist and genuinely believe that doing my hair, makeup, etc. was just "because i want to", but unfortunately every time i do those things i am painfully aware of the influence the patriarchal beauty standard has on me

big brown eyes and the heart of an angel

becoming a star sirius the brightest star the heavenly wolf star

I taste you in the sun

so I was watching this movie in parts and then it stopped loading right after she’s in her car, happy, with her newfound boyfriend about to move to SE, and that’s it, that’s where the movie ended for me

besitos

mwah is such an important word

No one WANTS a ghost in their attic bro you just have one

drain cleaner is so scary what do you mean it's going to burn my skin and eyes