Daniel Kolade Adewoye

When your nervous system grows quiet, everything comes into regulation. You now see yourself and also the people around you clearly for what you all truly are. No emotional pull. Just clarity.

If you prove that you don't have a boundary, they'll show you that they do and will make you stick to theirs. They are not selfish, you're the one abandoning yourself.

Just remember these four things tonight: 1. The healing you need is coming. 2. The money you need is coming. 3. God is making a way for you. 4. You can trust His perfect timing.

@Bunny_ngl Pepper sauce😂

When life gives you lemon, you make lemonade out of it . So what if life gives you pepper ?

@3amfeeliings That's a grand sacrifice.

Imagine someone trying to fix themselves so they can love you exactly how you deserve to be loved.

@SinghManju37713 I know but then you're still attached so they're damn special. 😭😂💔

When you lose emotional attachment to someone, you realize how ordinary they are. It was your love that made them seem so special. ♥️

@Mutomuto_trades @KeruboSk No way, we didn't need a pictorial description. 😭😂

@KeruboSk Every one here it 🤣

Guys I have a question I’m too embarrassed to google 😭 When your stomach makes that loud demon noise in a quiet room… is it only loud in your body or can everyone hear it??

I'm taking my chance on that! Let's see what plays out!

How do you handle a vulnerable moment? I mean you're feeling like everything inside of you is about to collapse and the more you try to gather yourself it feels like you're dragging parts of yourself that wants to stay apart. What do you do?

@grayshurz I read all through this because I could open the curtains of my experiences right from yours.

I'm finally coming to terms with the fact that as much as l wanted certain love, certain people, certain versions of my life, that just isn't my reality right now. And as painful as that is to admit, what hurts even more is realizing how close l came to losing myself trying to hold it all together. Fighting for things that didn't fight for me, pushing for things that didn't belong in my life anymore, trying to force situations that deep down I knew were slowly breaking me. And I can't do that to myself anymore. I can't keep abandoning myself just to avoid losing someone else. So if letting go means I lose people, memories, plans, or the life I thought I'd have by now, then I'm learning to be okay with that. Because at the end of all of this, I still have to live with myself. And no one talks about how hard it is to keep your head up and your heart open when you feel broken and heavy inside. But I know one thing for sure I'm my own home, my own safe place, my own constant. And I'm not losing her for anything or anyone. So whatever happens next, however life looks after this, I'll be okay because this time, I chose myself.

@Big_Dreez89 I want to retire now too. I'm done 💔😭

As a retired oversharer, take it from me: keep your business to yourself ! Even the slightest of info !

I laid on my back as my stomach slightly became irritated all of a sudden. Maybe as a result of what I had eaten earlier today but it didn't mean so much at that moment because all I could do was listen to my mind tell me over again, all the decisions I had made-good and bad.

@feyiszn Oh Feyiii. I hatelove that you speak my mind in transition. 😭😂❤

Once you finally get over someone, you have to deal with the next phase, which is dealing with disappointment in yourself for accepting their rubbish behavior 😂.

@Ajoke__xx I just realized I once prayed to be calling my own shots. And I mean doing my own stuffs. That's something to be grateful for.

Sometimes we are so focused on our future , that we don’t realize we are in the middle of what we used to pray for.

It was such a good time to start because a lot of things were already messy.

@talesreisa Very hard. I can attest to this. It does feel good to have you around sir. I appreciate it.

@d_utterance that quiet nudge can be hard to ignore when has your instinct been right

Trust your instinct when it disturbs, God speaks through it.

@KeruboSk Plot twist that should never be twisted. What ever that means... You saved a soul with memes.

I kept texting my ex-coworker after she quit, just memes. “You’re missing this chaos.” She’d reply at first… then nothing. I figured she moved on. Still, I sent one every week. No replies for months. Felt stupid, but she was my work best friend. I couldn’t just stop. Six months later she texted: “I’ve been in treatment. Depression got bad… your memes were the only thing that made me smile. I saved all of them.” Now we get coffee once a month. She has a folder called “Hope” with every meme I sent. Turns out I wasn’t being annoying, I was helping her survive. 🥹

@thedankoe There's this deep seated rumination that happened on my seeing this. Truly competition is only but an illusion. This clearly is saying you're in competition with yourself.

Competition is largely an illusion. 95% of people don't even try to do great things. 0.1% of the people are loud, so you overestimate how many people there are. The rest get stuck worrying about competition and quitting after 2 weeks.

@Freyy_is It's hard to sit with the reality of this. When you're at the tail end of this puzzle you understand this with a spontaneous clarity. Experiencing this can only make you detail it this better.

you can have the most electric connection with someone and still spend every day in that relationship managing anxiety you should not have to manage. the chemistry was never the problem. it was never going to be enough to compensate for someone who is consistently unkind, consistently unavailable, or consistently pointed in a different direction than you.

@KeruboSk You communicate from a dimension i find very easy to understand and that's top tier. I see you in ways that don't need me to struggle.

“Why are you working so hard?” Because some of us weren’t born into comfort, we were raised in responsibility. We grew up watching our parents carry weight they never complained about, noticing the exhaustion they tried to hide, the sacrifices they made just to keep life moving. We saw the stress, the quiet struggles, the things they went without… and it stayed with us. So we don’t just work to get by, we work to change the story. To finish the dreams they had to put aside. To build a life where struggle isn’t the norm anymore. Because at the core of it all, we’re not just chasing success, we’re chasing peace for the people we love.

@SahilBloom Going through emotional instability experientially will make you give this a solid nod.

Nobody tells you this: Emotional control is the ultimate sign of growth. The ability to remain unshaken by the little collisions and inconveniences of life. To avoid assigning false narratives to everyday slights. That’s when you take control of your own life.