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Àgbà John Doe

@jon_d_doe

Man, Husband, Father, Uncle. C-in-C of Àgbàfians. Insult=Block. Click & subscribe to the page, for ads & others. T&C apply. DM @jon_d_doee

Присоединился Nisan 2020
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Àgbà John Doe
Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
My tweets may be very unpopular, but when you read through and think deep, they'll resonate with you. I can't guarantee if you'll like my tweets. But I'll tweet them regardless.
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Sadeeq Syllar
Sadeeq Syllar@sadeeqsyllar·
@jon_d_doe This story offers an insight into what Agba has been teaching us, both silently and loudly. "Whatever I am telling you people, I have passed through it before, I know about women from my wife and my mother, I learn from my father" and so on. God bless you more Agba
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Ayo
Ayo@Biebele01·
This is deep Writing this alone would have triggered memories you didn’t want to awaken Every day, you come to share your personal stories, trying to make sure others don’t fall into the pit you’ve seen. I always knew that your motivation for doing all these isn’t fame or monetary gain Now, I understand better. I may be wrong, but I believe this is probably the first time you’ll be sharing this side of your story, a side that may never heal. It used to be your sister being a single mother, but now, understanding the situation of your home before the passing away of your father, it's clear why you say the things you say, with the level of emotions it carries. It's funny how a lesson can lead to another. It was a lesson on how your mother, although not academically educated, still had the best interest for all her children, to how your dad dealt with your mother leaving, and having to raise you all in a way he deemed fit. This short thread here has more lessons than it may seem. Thank you for sharing. At this point, the only thing we may not know about you is your name and what you look like. As for personal experiences and what knowledge you possess, we have a clue. Thank you, Agba
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
You may wish to imagine how a man that grew up in a separated home, was able to bring many together. Mend many homes and connect several single people, & has initiated many weddings. That's me. I am Àgbà John Doe. The most hated man on X. And the man of the people. End.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
Did I say that my father did not fuck for those 30 years? Una with una reasoning sef.
Favormillion◀️@favor_million

@jon_d_doe @CTMpire Man… the way your father chose celibacy for 30 years just to shield you from a bad stepmother situation 🥹 That's real fatherhood. Respect to him forever, and respect to you for breaking the cycle. Happy marriage looks good on you.

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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
She's still alive. But I love her from a distance.
EKÙN II🐯🐅(Tiger de 2nd)@ekun_II

@jon_d_doe Whoa!!! One thing I’ve learned since following Agba is to show both your vulnerabilities and your strengths so people know you face the same struggles they do. One question though: Is your mother still alive, and if she is, do you have a relationship with her?

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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
My mother did not even finish secondary school. But I recall one night, she beat the hell out of me because I could not spell "school" I was in primary school at the time. I recall it was my neighbor friend called "Ozioma" that rescued me. He saw me crying outside and taught me how to spell school. That was how I was able to eat my dinner that night. My father was not a university graduate. But he was making public speeches and corrected us when we made blunders. My late father gave scholarships to many young men and women who could not afford secondary or university education. He did his best for us as his children. But we followed our paths and made our choices. My late father did not make the best decision in his marriage and his choice of a wife. And he suffered for it till he died. But my mother for the period she was with my father, played her role and made sure that she was felt. My father never remarried for almost 30 years until his demise. I saw my late father in tears and pains. He needed a wife, but he was more concerned for our wellbeing and didn't want any woman to come in to maltreat us. I recall one time, I asked him: "Daddy, mummy has gone, don't you want to remarry?" In his words: "My son, I love you all, but learn from my mistakes. I don't want you to marry your wife, and divorce her. I have suffered too much because I am no longer with your mother. But she's still your mother" My loving father died of heart attack at 72. And my mother wasn't at his burial. And that was my father's wish. We honored it. Now you know why I frown against divorce, and why I always praise my lovely wife. I learned from my father's mistakes and God blessed me with a lovely wife. End.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
Even some of you dating these GEN Z girls. They cannot engage you in chats. Send them properly written words and wait for their replies. You won't see nothing. Instead, they'll be sending you VNs with plenty of grammatical blunders. "I goes, I comes" 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 End.
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YOUNG GEE
YOUNG GEE@holafemi_·
@jon_d_doe Agba I’m not in support of what you want to start this night, I don’t have strength 😂😂😂
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
If your wife is a Gen Z mother, please quietly observe whether she can help your kids with their arithmetic and other assignments. Some of you would be disappointed. Even when your wife is a university graduate. Your wife na olodo. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 End.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
Gen Alphas and Betas would be smarter than the Gen Zs. Gen Zs are the most unfortunate and shameless generation. End.
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Abimbola M@Itz_genade·
Sir, your concerns are not only valid—they reflect a reality many people are noticing but are afraid to discuss openly. What we are seeing among a large number of Gen Zs in Nigeria is a clear shift away from foundational values that sustain long-term relationships, especially marriage. The rise of social media has amplified this problem. Platforms now reward attention over character, and many young people, particularly young women, are being conditioned to trade dignity for validation. What used to be considered private or inappropriate is now normalized and even celebrated. Yesterday I saw a video of a lady who was asked to use a dildo on herself during a TikTok live stream just to get a gift. Shockingly, she didn’t hesitate—she brought it out and used it while the guy counted down, telling her when to stop. When someone becomes comfortable displaying intimate or questionable behavior publicly, it raises serious concerns about their understanding of boundaries, respect, and long-term responsibility. These are not traits that can simply be switched on when marriage arrives. Character is built over time, and what is practiced consistently eventually defines a person. Another painful truth is that many young men are enabling this decline. Instead of upholding standards, we reward and encourage the behavior, creating a cycle that keeps lowering the bar. As a result, both sides contribute to a culture that is gradually weakening the institution of marriage. The concern about the future is not exaggerated. A generation that prioritizes attention over substance may struggle with commitment, contentment, and stability. This can lead to frustration, emotional instability, and regret later in life, especially when reality sets in and the consequences of past choices become unavoidable. Ultimately, sir, your message is a call to return to core values. Without kindness, selflessness, and deliberate commitment, no marriage—regardless of religion or background—can survive. These qualities require discipline, restraint, and responsibility traits that are gradually being eroded by a culture of instant gratification, exhibitionism, and shallow validation. If these principles continue to be ignored, the cracks we see today may widen into something far more damaging in the future.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
I think it's time to do some justice on tik tok. I just posted this on that stupid app.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
Dear women who shamelessly display your sensitive parts on social media. Please know this. Most of you will not raise responsible daughters. It doesn't matter how rich you are. Especially you so called celebrities. Because you're a bad example to them. End.
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
Good submission. I have always said that marriage thrives on 3 major principles. 1) kindness 2) selflessness 3) deliberate commitment Be you a Christian, Muslim, traditionalist or atheist. If you ignore these 3 principles, your marriage will crack. And in most cases, a failed marriage is not necessarily a divorced marriage. I fear for the future of marriages. What we are witnessing with the younger generation is chaos. This morning, I brought up the topic of debauchery being displayed on social media and the lack of shame being displayed by our young girls, often aided by stupid men. And I said that I am worried. These young girls are supposed to be future wives and mothers to unsuspecting men. Truth is, for any young girl to be bold enough to display such shame online, there would be no way that she would make a good wife. And so all it takes is time. The unfortunate men who would marry them would later get to know that they made a terrible mistake. And then they would opt for the option of walking away quietly. Many of our young girls are a disgrace. Poor in thinking and lack absolute shame and decorum. And this is why scientists and researchers have tagged the Gen Zs as the generation with the least cognitive ability or thinking. Many of them would need to check into a mental home in the future. Because they would be depressed and frustrated by the poor choices that they made. And their innocent children would suffer for it. End.
Gabriel Gana@DVeilOracle

Here’s a deeper lens to consider as to why your assertion will actually hold. Marriage, like every meaningful structure in life, is governed by principles. The same way Chemistry governs materials, Physics governs systems, and Biology governs the human body. Even X is built on the principles of physics and electronics, and is then sustained by the laws of economics; otherwise, it would cease to exist. Marriage also is not exempted from laws and principles. And as a Christian, I believe the biblical standard for marriage remains the highest expression of these principles, yet it is the very standard many professing Christians are quietly walking away from, taking advice from feminists, single mothers whose marriages failed woefully, and abusive fathers who lack the moral authority to speak on such issues When these principles are ignored or violated, no force on earth can stop marriage as an institution from collapsing Sir, what we are witnessing in many modern marriages is not just emotional failure, but a breakdown of understanding. Many men and women are entering marriage without a solid grasp of its foundational responsibilities, commitment, sacrifice, accountability, and presence. Most know nothing about marriage outside of sex And you see, you don’t fix a broken structure by walking away from it; you expose that it was either poorly built or poorly maintained. My people perished for lack of knowledge. If the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do.

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Arome@MrPhloxx·
@jon_d_doe How would you feel if na your fellow "old man" call you baby? 😁
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Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
A whole old man like me, na me dem dey call "baby". Some of these side chicks no go respect ooo. "Àgbà my baby" A whole Supreme High Chief. Choi 🙆‍♂️.
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OBI OF ABUJA🇳🇬
@jon_d_doe Once u tell women say you like them,20 years done comot from Ur age. U done turn baby be that. See Simi wey been dey call me uncle before pop😂😂😂😂😂
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