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@Murrpy Its not only a French thing same here in Germany. Everything should be cheap or even better for free everyone over 25 should be banned and insert rant over current social policy thing. The youth knows only judges and demands because free is still to expensive.

This whole free bashing, lies spreading and hypocrisy sickens me. I just want to give up volunteering in the french fandom at this point.

Back then, people complained because we didn't have any furcon in France. Now we have and people complain about them, yet they follow the same formats as other furcons outside of the country. But outside furcons are fine, because, y'know, they're not in France, so it's okay.

@Christian_Kott Man könnte mit Gewissen schmunzeln eine Strophe aus einer bekannten Kindersendung zitieren. "Ich mache mir die Welt widdewidde wie sie mir gefällt.." die eigene Traumwelt ersetzt die Realität. Und die Realität hat nachzugeben.

Das 👇 ist eine so dreiste Täter-Opfer-Umkehr, dass sich daraus natürlich auf die fehlende Seriosität im Diskurs zurückschliessen lässt. Passiert war: - Therapeutin bewirbt öffentlich, wie man die gesetzliche Krankenkasse betrügt. - Das Video erzeugt Empörung. - Therapeutin klagt gegen die Empörung über ihre eigene Aussage und verliert. - Die Aktivistensekte framet daraus eine „Hasskampagne“ gegen die Therapeutin. Diese Leute leben in ihrer ganz eigenen, sehr surrealen Welt und glauben sogar selbst den Blödsinn, den sie 24/7 von sich geben.

@Ryan_Daigler My mother saw live like a stage play everyone was just a hired actor and she was the main star. She demanded others to stick to their role or told them they have nothing to do but serve her needs. why a bank was closed at 3 am on Sunday and no red carpet for her was..challenging

Growing up with #narcissists and you first start to realize that they’re jealous or envious of you and it’s like, “????! why!? Why are you even feeling like that!? We’re family?! You got me on your side, whatever you need! Please stop being mad at me for existing!” And then the hard reality settles in that they don’t understand that. They CAN’T understand it. They only see competition.

@DrDoyleSays Each letter had to be approved in the days before my birthday when the handwriting or my choice of words were not to her liking i had to rewrite it again and again some years this praise letter was rewritten 30 times. No matter how good it was never enough.

@DrDoyleSays I came into the world via a c section. It was very high risk moment. At my 5th birthday my mother demanded a thank you for "almost dieing while giving birth to me " out of a thank you became a 40+ page handwritten letter of thanks by the time I was 17.

Blaming you for sh*t you couldn't control, then gaslighting you into believing you "should" be able to control it, is a manipulation tactic that goes beyond abusers-- our whole culture loves it. Trauma survivors in recovery need to be ready to reality check that bullsh*t daily.

@Ryan_Daigler And the worst case is when a mother does this to her son and her reasoning is plain desire to be praised for his sucses. When you are so void you need others lives to fill your own unquenchable thirst for acknowledgement.

Narcissists believe they can author your identity—who you are, what you feel, what you said, what your intentions are, what your worth is. They don’t just want control over your emotions; they want control over your character and public image. That’s why they: -Tell you who you “really are” -Rewrite your character -Redefine your emotions for you -Assign you roles (villain, burden, unstable, selfish, etc.) -Act like their interpretation is more real than your lived experience It’s psychological colonization. If they can define you, they own you. And when you refuse that—when you think for yourself and ignore their twisted fantasy—it destabilizes them. That’s why they escalate, smear, gaslight, or rage. You’re removing their perceived authority over reality.

@Ryan_Daigler When your existence is only there for them to be praised for it. When every achievement you create is their doing and they harbor the praise you just have to deliver to their growing thirst for praise. And you learn only their praise can give you peace but it never happens.

SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN NARCISSISTICALLY ABUSED WILL OFTEN... 1. OVERTHINK EVERYTHING — because they've been trained to anticipate criticism and coriflict. 2. DOUBT THEIR OWN MEMORY - years of gaslighting make them question what's real. 3. STRUGGLE TO TRUST COMPLIMENTS - kind words feel suspicious, not sincere. 4. APOLOGIZE FOR EXISTING - they've been made to believe their needs are burdens. 5. SCAN PEOPLE'S MOODS CONSTANTLY - survival once depended on reading danger in silence. 6. FREEZE WHEN CONFRONTED - their nervous system still remembers emotional attacks. 7. DOWNPLAY THEIR PAIN - they're used to having their suffering minimized. 8. AVOID ATTENTION OR PRAISE - because it once triggered jealousy or punishment. 9. STAY OVERLY LOYAL - even to those who mistreat them, because betrayal feels worse than abuse. 10. SECOND-GUESS THEIR DECISIONS - the narcissist's control trained them to seek permission for everything. 11. FEEL GUILTY FOR SAYING "NO" - setting boundaries feels like rebellion. 12. EXPERIENCE EMOTIONAL FLASHBACKS - a tone, look, or phrase can send them right back to the trauma. 13. CRAVE PEACE BUT FEAR IT - calm feels unfamiliar after years of chaos.

@master_hypnotic The most corruptive words can also be the most seductive. Drawing you in charming you mesmerizing you and every sweet word spoken so gently only works it's way deeper and deeper into your mind. Affecting you more and more the longer one listens. Is it corruption or Realisation.

Do the words..the whispers corrupt you..or do they merely let the good boy you've always need to be out...

@DingsdaMc Für eine größer werdende Gruppe ist "depression " die neue freifahrkarte um zu tun und zu lassen was man will. Und wenn depression nicht ausreichend ist wird selbstdiagnostiziert. Schwere Depression kann einen verzweifeln lassen man kann wütend sein aber kein Arschloch.

Ein Mensch benimmt sich wie das größte Arschloch der Welt. Und wenn man was sagt, kriegt man zu hören: "Hab Verständnis, die Person hat Depressionen!" Nee sorry. Kein Verständnis von mir. Ich hab auch Depressionen. Und die sind kein Grund andere Menschen wie Dreck zu behandeln.

@GermanSkrat They are both extremely hungry for attention and to be noticed and recognized. Many belive they are missing out on a never-ending party. Everything gets turned to 13 cause over the top is just enough to get attention and one must outdo everyone around them.

@GermanSkrat I feel it's a influx of the say younger generation most just 18. These kids are to a point way more expressive as they grew up in a world where showing off and proving superior is common. How you look, how you are noticed is becoming most important. 1/2

Part1: I wanted to ask how you all see this. From my perspective, our fandom clearly feels like it’s regressing. I’ve been part of it for several years now, and what I’m seeing at conventions lately—especially at the NFC—and on X (formerly Twitter) really worries me.

@Wolvinny How about a character inspired by the word of warcraft tauren?

I want a cowfursona so I can sing alongside Dojacats B*&%# I'm a cow.

@Truffle_otter Hang out with furrs your age and see whim you get along with maybe it will click with someone. You know what you look for in a partner so just look for it. Growing older doesn't change the process. And best of luck to you.

Genuinely, how do older furs find love? Most people my age are in happy relationships & have been for a long time I'll be 38 next month, 2 birthdays as a widowed otter & I hate living life alone. I want to be making memories with someone, sharing moments, laughing together.

@fakehistoryhunt I already see the news "unpopular (highly criminal) person XX killed in mystery accident by a 60 feet stroopwaffle a Zeppelin was seen leaving the accident site in southwest heading. "

Normal people: when I get rich I will buy a villa, jewellery, big car and expensive clothes! Me: I'll buy a castle, sword, helmet, more medieval pottery, longbow, 1:1 replica Hindenburg, 1:1 replica S.S. Normandy, 20 foot stroopwafel, more pets, swords for pets... for starters.

@TitustheTiger the most wonderful birthday to you. Best of luck, success, happiness and good health to you in your new race around the sun. May you have a wonderful day with your wife your family and loved ones to make this day extra special.

@SDL_Facility Very nice animation. So easy to just keep looking at it and getting drawn in. Wanting to just look more.

Stare into my eyes Feel how you relax Slowly sink deeper Can't resist the pull Deeper and deeper Getting harder to think Head becomes dizzy Head becomes empty No need to think Float deeper in Trance It is a drone It obey Master Raze It serve SDL No freedom or will JOIN AND REPORT

@SteampunkSergal Welcome to the club. I hope things will improve for you. We all don't deserve to get stuck like this. Best of luck.

The conclusions I've come to after some self-reflection... 1. I'm tired of being tired all the time. 2. I'm afraid of dying alone. 3. I yearn for intimacy. 4. I want a simple life. 5. Happiness is reachable for some people, just not for me.

@ItsZaltany @Kiba_Wolfy Hummus the duck tape song.

I can fix him !

@CoVahr_Fox You do the hard work replacing you would take 3 ppl you are hardly if at all sick do overtime and you are still the bad guy.. been thee done that. Best of luck to you.

Do you also often feel treated like the last piece of s$%t sometimes at work but arent allowed to say anything as that would even diminish your income significantly?🫥

@Kaomoro97 There can never been enough paws

2026: I clearly need more paws 😔