BridgetKay

@HoffmannJo30873 referred to as an attractive mare, or attractive bitch for that matter, is taken as flattery by me and makes my husband proud, given that I am totally committed to him as his wife, woman, mare and bitch, or whatever status, however lowly, or demeaning, he wishes to describe me./2

@HoffmannJo30873 Thank you for the compliment. My most usual status is Lady Bitch, or just bitch, although there have been times when I have been referred to as a mare, mostly on the infrequent occasions when I have been required to submit to use as a PonyLady/PonyGirl. As a submissive being /1

A mature blonde woman in red, wearing necklaces and metal collar with leash ring. Those of us who are of a submissive turn of mind know the look and the feeling, wearing the necklaces of a lady with the collar of a bitch, particularly when it is desired to show our dual nature.

“Sherry in the morning, by Kristiania1890.” A delightful idea, including for modern times, at least for those of us who are in a non-vanilla lifestyle anyway.

The suspenders, stockings and shoes of a lady, as well as the collar and leash of a bitch. I enjoy being the former, but my strong submissive side compels me to accept being the latter as well. For both my husband and loan master I am, often, both, as their ‘Lady Bitch’.

A suspender belt and stockings with unusual extra straps for added security. Not something with which I particularly familiar, or have worn, but I am all for the unusual, love to be different, so I may try it sometime.

encouragement and/or instruction. Some interesting outings have resulted, even more so with enhancement by means of suitable accessories, though, of course, there are very many other ways for those of us in our mature years to look that bit different from other women of our age/2

That is more the type of suit I would have worn in my younger days, especially the skirt length. These days it would attract even more attention than it did then, particularly with stockings and boots, which is why I, occasionally do just that, sometimes as the result of /1

@MichaelPar99123 That is not me but I appreciate her choice of underwear as I am used to being available for my husband quickly, or, if I wear crotchless underwear, effectively instantly, as the underwear of the woman in the photo graphically demonstrates.

A style of pantie girdle which shows consideration for one’s husband, ideally worn with a suspender belt and stockings to maintain one’s instant availability to him, or to any other man to whom he may offer the use of one’s body. The bra style is also appropriate in that sense.

A close to ideal way, at least from my point of view, to be feminine and available, as well as to encourage that availability to be made the most of.

@ExPat828 Who pulled your chain?

@BridgetJKay What a load of waffle and fish nets don't look that great.

A simple and quite stylish outfit of a dress with fishnet stocking, or tights. That would be very much a vanilla world type of outfit for me, although I prefer separates to dresses. I do wear fishnet stockings, at times, but tend to go for a bolder look in that sense.

@kinkystryteller Having written that response, I suddenly realised that there have been times when I have said that, after my husband has granted a man access to me, I have acquisced and he has very rapidly made the most of the gift of me, of my body, with his body reacting rapidly as well.

@kinkystryteller Ooh! That was quick!

@kinkystryteller Of course. The wrapping often belies that which is inside. Even when, outwardly, I am dressed for the vanilla world, inside, under my outer clothes, that is often a very different matter, although, usually, I am suitably attired to allow use of me if my husband wishes.

@BridgetJKay It’s what’s underneath and easy access that counts, BK 🖤

@60PlusLatexMale one man. In many ways, as a submissive, there is a sort of mad pride on those rare occasions when a leash is attached to the collar and handed to another man with, “She’s yours for a few hours. Take her away and make the most of her, enjoy her.” /2

@60PlusLatexMale In my case that style and look would say that I am an elegant mature lady but, also, beholden to my husband, in a sense owned by my husband, hence the collar. It would also say that I am him to do with as he wishes, including loaning me, my body, to another man, or more than /1

could easily be responded to in the affirmative. Wearing an outfit like that, occasionally, would not very make much difference in my lifestyle, situation, as it is not wildly unusual for men to be given such permission for other reasons and for me to end up with sore boobs. /2

A mature blonde woman in a see-through top with patterning to highlight her boob boobs. In some ways that style is, almost, an invitation for a man to hold them, play with them, grope them, without saying anything to him. In our lifestyle a joking “May I?” to ones husband /1

@Lovebites118185 if my husband approves of a particular man making use of me, in the sense that he can, if he wishes, “wear himself to a frazzle”, if he so wishes, while having no need to concern himself too much with the wear and tear on me, on my body. /2

@Lovebites118185 That is what such a collar and ring would be for, at least once my husband gave permission. However, lips are for other lips and similar, not for oral, due to health risks, among other things. On the other hand, my tail end is a completely different matter, /1