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Enjighe

@Enjighe

Adding salt and shining light in women’s matters

Nigeria เข้าร่วม Haziran 2013
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Enjighe
Enjighe@Enjighe·
@AnyanwuMalachy So true. Anybody who truly wants to build will not be counting scores
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Cjay🌎
Cjay🌎@AnyanwuMalachy·
A woman going through pregnancy, childbirth, and recovery deserves appreciation, respect, and support. However, the moment childbearing becomes a permanent excuse to avoid responsibilities years later, it stops being sacrifice and starts looking like manipulation. When responsibilities are discussed in marriage and you bring up childbearing as a shield, then you're actually looking for an emotional leverage. Many people act as though childbearing should automatically exempt them from contributing in other areas of the family forever. That's not partnership; that's negotiating from a position of emotional debt. Marriage works best when both parties focus on the growth of the family, not on keeping score of who has suffered or sacrificed more. A husband helping with cooking, cleaning, and childcare is doing his part. A wife supporting the family financially, emotionally, or otherwise is doing her part. The strongest marriages are not built by people constantly reminding each other of past sacrifices. They are built by people who wake up daily asking, "What can I do to make this family better?" In all, consideration is the purest form of love.
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Enjighe@Enjighe·
As a woman, whether you’re a virgin or not, once you marry an unfaithful man, he’s definitely going to cheat. It’s like telling a lion not to eat you because you’re a good person🤣 If women choose to keep their virginity, they should do so for self preservation only, not with the expectation that their husbands will not cheat.
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Glorious God
Glorious God@GloriousGod01·
If you don’t understand a post, it is better to ask the poster questions than to leave unrelated comments. Yesterday I called out men who marry virgins and then cheat on them. Many comments focused on gender equality or inequality instead. I kept wondering whether those people had even read my post. Let me be clear: I was not discussing gender equality. I was highlighting the unfair treatment of virgin women. Why marry a woman who preserved her virginity for you, only to cheat on her? She deserves a faithful husband. Nothing justifies breaking that trust. Above all, love God.
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Awelewa 😍🥰❤️
If someone rejects you, marries someone else, gets a divorce, and comes back... do they genuinely see your worth now, or are they just lonely? Let's talk.
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아두라💞💜
아두라💞💜@Aduradara61049·
Age affects men too. As you grow older, your chances of marrying your dream wife keep reducing.
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Enjighe@Enjighe·
@jon_d_doe Thank God my father was and is still capable of caring for us🤭
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Àgbà John Doe
Àgbà John Doe@jon_d_doe·
In the last 10-15 years in Nigeria, many women that call themselves university graduates today, would not have been graduates if not for men that are not their fathers or relatives. End.
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Cjay🌎
Cjay🌎@AnyanwuMalachy·
An adult male will come on X and be taking marriage advice from people that haven't even kept a successful relationship before? Una de muzz me seriously..😂 The truth is that you can read a thousand books, like and repost millions of 'supposed masculine tweets", and listen to a hundred opinions, but experience has a way of teaching lessons that words never can. What you live through, the personal victories, mistakes, and challenges leaves a deeper mark than what you're told. Imagine you want to start a million-dollar business, and you're taking advice from someone that hasn't successfully set up a street kiosk before talk more of a super market 😂
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Mazi Nathan
Mazi Nathan@rukky_nate·
Before, all we had was just “chef” Today, we now have “private chefs” which has absolutely nothing to do with cooking. Sigh.
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Hamzat Abdulrahman
Hamzat Abdulrahman@boyRay111·
@Enjighe @Obichinyelu @heisrichardz @Aduradara61049 You said how many of us has ned money? Shut the fuck up, many of us will be richer than dangote not to talk of ned nwoko.. even ned did not know he will be rich as he is when he was still a youth. We can marry whoever we want even at 95.. we buy you with money!
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Brooda John
Brooda John@Nigeriangod_·
Cheating married men think they’re the only ones people outside wants to sleep with 😂, you think men don’t toast your wives ? You think men don’t slide into her DMs?, But she decided not to reply anyone because she’s loyal to you but you the moment you step outside your house you turn into a wild dog chasing everything on skirt and embarrassing yourself and your wife. If your complains you start screaming “she doest give you Peace at home “.
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Enjighe@Enjighe·
@AnyanwuMalachy I can’t say for other women but If I don’t like you, I don’t like you regardless of your money. I agree that some girls are motivated by greed though.
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Cjay🌎
Cjay🌎@AnyanwuMalachy·
@Enjighe First of all, can we both agree that greed is one major thing that makes women fall into the hands of a wrong man? A man you don't like bit because he's materially available in your life, you fall for him.... that's desperation if we're being fair to words here.
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Cjay🌎
Cjay🌎@AnyanwuMalachy·
Those that go about shouting "marry virgin" women while they're community pen!s are actually f0olish because why are you looking for what you don't have? that's the height of hypocrisy. However on the issue that women are gatekeepers of sex is a valid point because from experience a lady has a higher chance of out rightly bouncing your sexual advances. Even if a man comes with marriage as a form of deception, at least it's not a coerced approach neither was it under duress and as such, the lady has 100% right to say NO while seeing through his bullshitt. That's why desperation should be far from every women because men use it against them.
Glorious God@GloriousGod01

They'll come with "Women are the gatekeepers of sex" but they forget that the gate cannot be opened if you don't approach and knock at it. Men will deceive women into relationships, promise to even marry them just to sleep with them, then dump them. The same men will be going around telling other men to avoid non-virgin women. "Men need experience" against an inexperienced woman? Really? Which culture, tradition or even religion said men should be promiscuous while women should remain virgins? You see why Jesus called those men hypocrites in the Bible? Those men who caught a woman in the act of adultery and wanted to stone her to death but they excused the man. You cannot mess up the pool and complain that its dirty when it's time to swimming. If you want women to remain as virgins, men must stop deceiving them with fake promises of marriage. Men must learn to keep themselves pure too. VIRGIN IS VERY GOOD AND IT'S GOOD FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. Above all, love God.

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Kabal
Kabal@Kabalmark·
@Enjighe @Aduradara61049 @BOBCyril2 And as you mumu reach your brain still no think reach say all ned children dey healthy bahh even as him still old… “none of them will have Ned’s wealth” You just dey talk bout your own family shaa
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Mazi Nathan
Mazi Nathan@rukky_nate·
Lately, I have noticed everyone seemingly looks okay until you eventually have a deep conversation with them. And then you realize this is a really sad generation of Nigerians struggling to survive. We’ve never had it this bad until now.
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Enjighe@Enjighe·
Don’t deflect from the point. You’re the ones saying old age doesn’t affect you people and you could still marry your dream girl because Ned did same. We women already know that old age affects everyone, so we’re not planning to marry our dream man at 70. You guys are the delusional ones.
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