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@liuyun @web3annie 你说得没错。我继子就是这样，他前妻一身债务，结婚后他帮她还掉了债务，后来他们离婚的时候，家产平分，他前妻还分走了他们共同账户里他继承的母亲遗产的一半。直到现在，他还愤愤不平呢。

@web3annie 我觉得主要是美国的婚姻法对于离婚来说太偏向于妇女了吧。 如果这个债务在她结婚以后，她的丈夫帮她还掉了，万一哪天要离婚，不仅要再分一半财产，还要把男方的收入分一部分给到这女的，这男的基本上就破产了。

国外也有这种情感连线啊？太逗了 财务教父 Dave Ramsey 这个直播片段爆火！ 一位26岁的护士打电话说，她有60万学生贷款，而她的男朋友年入170万，但结婚提出了一个条件：必须等她还清所有债务。 主持人直接给出建议：分手！ 你要知道，一个年薪近200万的人，如果不愿意帮你分担那点债务，或者不愿意在陪你还债的过程中给你一个身份，那只能说明：他在做压力测试！ 在他的人生规划里，你只是一个可以被随时优化的成本项，而不是一个不可或缺的共同体。 如果一段感情让你感到自己正在被面试，或者让你觉得必须剪掉身上的羽毛才能钻进对方的笼子，那这段感情从一开始就是坏掉的。 最好的财务方案，是两个人并肩作战去解决问题，而最差的感情方案，是其中一个人站在岸上，看着另一个人在泥潭里挣扎，并说：等你洗干净了，我再考虑牵你的手。 更关键的是，后来她自己又补充说了一个细节：因为男朋友承担了房租，她才能把大部分收入拿去还贷款。 从经济学角度看，这个男人现在的处境极其舒适。他支付了房租，换来了一个全天候的伴侣，却不用承担任何法律责任。 专家一针见血地指出：他为什么要结婚？他没有动力！ 你说他完全没帮吗？其实他帮了。他支付了全部房租，让女方能把几乎所有工资拿去还债。 但这正是他精明的地方： 支付房租： 这钱反正他单身也要花，而且房权在他手里，他没有损失，还能换取一个同居伴侣，他用最小的成本，换取了女方在关系中的低姿态和顺从。 清醒一点吧。 人生最昂贵的债务，从来不是银行里的数字，而是为了讨好一个不打算对你负责的人，而浪费掉的青春和自尊。 与其拼命还债去换一个求婚，不如先找回那个不需要任何人认可也闪闪发光的自己。 站在这个男生的视角，他不帮你还钱，可能是在看女方有没有财务能力。 他要的是一个具备财务自律的合伙人，都让我一个人买单，我可不当冤大头，还可能削弱女方对金钱的敬畏感。 美国护士年薪中位数65万，省吃俭用几年就能还清，如果实在消费压力大，目之所及未来几年也可以约定还清 50% 的债务，且保持良好的财务习惯，就可以进入订婚程序。 但如果这个男人只是站在岸上，拿着表掐时间，看你溺水多久能游上来，甚至还想在你上岸时检查你身上有没有泥点子，那么，还清债务的那天，就是你踢掉他的最佳时机。 如果两个人在婚前就不能在金钱观念上达成共识（比如你现在的债务问题和他的观望态度），那么婚后面对买房、生娃、养老等更巨大的财务决策时，这种分歧会变成日复一日的争吵和折磨。 钱确实是婚姻的头号杀手，但杀掉婚姻的往往不是钱太少，而是其中一个人太会算计。 当对方把婚姻当成一场资产清算，而不是一份情感契约时，这段关系其实已经死在了领证前。

After CBS embarrassed Karen Bass by fact-checking her debate lies about the Palisades Fire, they clearly got the call. CBS filmed with me on my burned out lot for over an hour, and they turned it over to Karen Bass’ PR team to edit it into a comical 5 minute hit piece with clips from the Hills. They can’t beat my ideas, they can’t beat me in the debates, so they gotta try to turn my campaign into a sideshow. People are done with these skeezy political tricks, and I’m done with CBS. They’ll never get a word from me for my next 8 years as mayor. Adios! What outlet should I have in their absence?

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2023年10月7日，加沙巴勒斯坦人为哈马斯的惨无人道的大屠杀欢呼雀跃。下次再有人跟你说巴勒斯坦人有多可怜，把这段视频发给他看！

I just finished an interview with Brad from Across Nigeria… and honestly, I’m sitting here stunned. Today, he buried 14 Christians in a mass grave. Two were infants. One was a 4-year-old child. And this isn’t some recycled internet story or political talking point. Brad was literally there today helping bury them. While on the way to investigate one attack, another Christian community was attacked. He said the violence is happening so fast they can barely keep up anymore. What shocked me even more is this: Brad shared that 72% of all Christians killed worldwide last year were killed in this region of Nigeria. 72%. And hardly anybody is talking about it. The mainstream media should be all over this. Instead, most people scrolling social media today have no idea our brothers and sisters in Christ are being slaughtered while churches are being forced underground. Guys… this matters. Please watch this interview. Please pray for these families. And PLEASE share this everywhere you can. At this point, WE are the media. WE are how people find out. WE are the distribution network. If enough ordinary people start sharing the truth, eventually the world will have to pay attention. Watch the full conversation and help us get this story out.

《自以为清醒的人，也可能属于乌合之众》 —— 当人看透世界，却仍不愿归向神 引言 很多人厌恶“乌合之众”。 他们看得出： 群众容易盲从； 世界充满虚假； 舆论常被操控； 人群情绪化跟风； 多数人并不真正思考。 于是，他们开始远离大众，不再轻易相信媒体、潮流、口号与群体狂热。 这种“看见”在某种层面并非完全错误，因为圣经确实揭示：这个世界在黑暗中运行。 但问题在于，有些人虽然看透群众的盲目，却并没有因此更靠近神，反而进入另一种状态： 冷漠 骄傲 犬儒 明哲保身 对真理不再顺服 他们以为自己不同于众人，却没有看见：若离开神，人依然活在同样的黑暗体系中。 圣经的问题从来不只是“群众愚昧”，更深的是：人离开神之后，即使自以为清醒，也仍在黑暗里。 ⸻ 一、看透群众，不等于认识真理 有些人确实比一般人更敏锐，能看见： 群体容易被操控 世界充满利益交换 舆论带着欺骗 人性充满虚假 但识破谎言，并不等于得着真理。 人可以从一种迷失，进入另一种迷失。 因为看透世界，并不等于认识神。 传道书说： “虚空的虚空，凡事都是虚空。”（传道书1:2KJV） “Vanity of vanities… all is vanity.” 所罗门看见人生的短暂与劳碌的虚空，但如果停留在“看透”，人容易进入消极与冷眼旁观，对任何事失去信心。 然而圣经并未以虚无为终点，而是指出真正的智慧： “敬畏耶和华是智慧的开端。”（箴言9:10KJV） “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” 真正的光，不是看清世界的黑暗，而是认识那位掌管世界的神。 ⸻ 二、有些人不是脱离乌合之众，而是换了一种形式 有些人不再跟随群众，却转向另一种中心： 自己的判断 自己的聪明 自己的优越感 自己的洞察力 表面上，他们脱离了大众，实际上只是从外在跟随，转为内在自我跟随。 圣经说： “我们都如羊走迷，各人偏行己路。”（以赛亚书53:6KJV） “we have turned every one to his own way” 问题不只是“群众偏行”，而是“人人都偏行”。 因此，一个人即使不随波逐流，只要仍以自我为中心、不敬畏神，他依然没有离开属世体系。 ⸻ 三、属灵骄傲，比盲从更隐蔽 群众的盲目容易看见，但“自以为清醒”的骄傲更难察觉。 法利赛人就是典型例子。他们熟悉律法，也能分辨对错，但主耶稣仍严厉责备他们，因为问题不在“无知”，而在“自义”。 耶稣说： “你们说，我们能看见，所以你们的罪还在。”（约翰福音9:41KJV） “now ye say, We see; therefore your sin remaineth” 真正危险的，不是承认自己有限的人，而是自以为已经看见，却拒绝神光照的人。 ⸻ 四、明哲保身，不等于属灵智慧 有些人看见世界败坏、真理被拒绝，却选择： 沉默 旁观 不见证 不承担代价 他们认为只要自己保持清醒即可，但圣经并不以此为智慧。 在以西结书33章中，守望者若见危险却不警告，他要承担责任，因为真理从来不是私有认知，而是对神的忠心回应。 很多所谓“聪明”，实质只是： 害怕代价 害怕孤立 害怕损失 这种状态不是敬畏神，而是敬畏环境。 ⸻ 五、真正属神的人，不只是“看透”，而是“站住” 圣经中的先知，并不是看透后退缩的人。 耶利米明知无人听，仍然传讲； 以西结面对悖逆仍然说话； 以利亚面对全民拜偶像仍然站立； 使徒面对逼迫仍然传扬福音。 主耶稣说： “你们是世上的光。”（马太福音5:14） 光不是用来欣赏自己的清醒，而是在黑暗中见证神。 ⸻ 六、自以为清醒的人，也可能活在犬儒里 有些人逐渐进入一种状态： 不再相信真理 不再相信人 不再相信公义 对一切冷漠讽刺 他们认为世界本质如此，因此不再爱人、不再承担、不再盼望。 但圣经中的光，虽然看见黑暗，却从不失去： 爱 怜悯 真理 盼望 主耶稣看见人的败坏，却仍然流泪、呼召、怜悯，并为罪人舍命。 真正属神的光，不会让人变冷，而是使人更有怜悯。 ⸻ 七、真正的分别，不是“比别人聪明” 很多人潜意识中认为： “群众愚昧，而我更清醒。” 但圣经拆毁这种比较： “你有什么不是领受的呢？”（哥林多前书4:7KJV） “what hast thou that thou didst not receive?” 因此，属神之人的标志不是更高明，而是更谦卑；不是更优越，而是更依靠神。 若没有神恩典，人同样会偏离。 ⸻ 结语 乌合之众的危险，不仅在于群众的盲目，也在于人可能一边批评群众，一边仍然活在远离神的状态中。 圣经划分人的标准，不是： 谁更聪明 谁更清醒 谁更能分析世界 而是： 谁敬畏神，谁顺服真理。 有人随众迷失，也有人冷眼旁观； 有人盲目跟风，也有人骄傲自守。 但若都不归向神，本质仍在同一黑暗中。 真正的清醒，不是觉得自己比别人更明白，而是承认： 离开神，人同样会失落。 因此，真正的智慧不是远离人群，而是回到神面前。

SCOOP: Meet Amy Brown, who works as a Personal Care Aide for Klarus Home Health in CO, according to her Facebook. Amy’s profile banner is "8647" which symbolizes kiIIing Trump. We reached out to Clarus Home Health for comment but they declined to respond. Would you trust this person to care for you?

Nick Shirley says it’s getting harder to investigate fraud for a number of reasons - He’s become very recognizable to fraudsters because of social media - Fraudsters are on high alert right now because of his reporting - Fraudsters are covering up the fraud - some fraudsters are taking what they’ve stolen and leaving America Impact - The Federal Government shut down over 500 hospices in California. Not a single hospice has said, hey, open our hospice back up. - In Minnesota, they froze $250 million of payments for childcare there. Not a single daycare sent a single receipt - They just raided 22 daycares and other welfare programs. Not a single mother complained about her child not being able to go to a daycare. The real problem is none of the politicians who have let it happen have been held accountable. Not a single one

Happy Anniversary, Charlie and Erika ❤️

Today marks 4 years of being married to @MrsErikaKirk. Second to following Jesus, it's the best decision I've ever made. She is bold, smart, loyal, and beautiful. Happy anniversary, Erika. I love you.

Even though our kids won’t see our love “grow old together” from an earthly stand point; they’ll see it from a Heavenly one. And I’ll tell them of our love story any moment I can. Happy Anniversary to the love of my life.

This is despicable! Islam is the enemy within, yet we are okay with allowing members of our Armed Forces to practice this evil ideology while in uniform on base? Completely insane!

BREAKING: Islamic Terrorist Regime IS DUMPING OIL INTO THE SEA! 🚨 As we warned: the regime has run out of storage capacity. For days now, they’ve been faking tanker transfers while pouring massive amounts of extracted oil straight into the ocean. Deliberate. Criminal. Environmental catastrophe. They are literally poisoning the sea. This is ecocide in real time. #KingRezaPahlavi‌ForIran

@xiaominz_film 提供合法身份，并不意味着大赦，我想是会分层管理，对不同的人会有不同的政策。等后续的具体政策措施出来再讨论不迟。

🚨昨天刚刚传出重磅消息‼️ “边境沙皇”汤姆·霍曼（Tom Homan）在接受 CBS 新闻采访时，透露了一些不同寻常的信号。 记者问他是否会为那些守法、纳税、在美生活多年且没有犯罪记录的非法移民（包括“追梦人” Dreamers）提供某种合法身份…… 霍曼承认，白宫正在讨论：他明确表示总统正在与内阁成员讨论这类人群的法律地位问题。这说明，白宫确实正在探讨那些“守法贡献型”无证移民留下的可行性。 这可真是个好消息。有些人虽然是以非正式身份入境，但他们常年生活在美国，做出了很多贡献，特别是他们安分守己、常年纳税、遵纪守法。可以说，这是一批“经过考验”的人。 这些人已经在美国落地生根，特别是当他们的孩子也是在美国出生长大的情况下，这些家庭无论从经济还是社会层面上来说，都不会对美国造成伤害。 反之，那些重罪犯、间谍、假装成平民的军人，或者千方百计钻法律空子、常年占美国便宜的人，才是应该被一个个挖出来并驱逐出境的对象！ 真为特朗普总统有这种考虑感到高兴！希望那些好人以及守法的家庭，可以获得留在美国的机会，并最终实现他们的梦想🙏♥️🌹

The American people have long sought transparency about the government’s knowledge of unidentified aerial phenomena. Under President Trump’s leadership, the Office of the Director of National Intelligence is actively coordinating the Intelligence Community’s declassification efforts with the Department of War to ensure a careful, comprehensive, and unprecedented review of our holdings to provide the American people with maximum transparency. Today’s release is the first in what will be an ongoing joint declassification and release effort.

The next Star Wars movie comes out in TWO WEEKS All Conservatives must BOYCOTT Mandalorian and Grogu after Mark Hamill wished death on Trump SPREAD THE WORD SEND A MESSAGE #DumpStarWars

@whiteTony99 醒醒，该吃药了💊你！

特朗普的脸快要挂不住了，他还剩不到十天就要访华了，但中方的态度却冷淡到连不少外国媒体都觉得不对劲的地步。 有外媒注意到，按外交惯例，这个时间点早该官宣了，可中方至今不确认、不预热、不拒绝，连个多余的形容词都没给。一个提前半个月就敲定行程、运输机往返数次、总统本人反复放话“中美关系极好”的访问，中方回应居然只有五个字：保持着沟通。 而且没有欢迎，没有日期，没有行程。

🚨ENDORSEMENT ALERT🚨 Today is day 127 that I’ve been asking Senate Majority Leader Thune to pass the SAVE America Act. I said that if Leader Thune did NOT pass the SAVE America Act by the end of April, then I would get involved in Texas. 👉Today, I proudly endorse KEN PAXTON & ask every Texan to vote by May 26th👈 🚩 Cornyn voted for red flag laws 🚩 Cornyn pushed the COVID vaccine 🚩 Cornyn advocated for deportation *relief* for illegal aliens 🚩 Cornyn worked w/ democrats to offer a pathway to amnesty for DACA illegal aliens 🚩 Cornyn advocates for H-1B visas & even went so far as to say, “Welcome to the Indian Century” (before deleting that post) This 24-year incumbent nearly came in second despite his allies (SLF & NRSC) spending a combined $100 million — which could have been better spent in other states. 👉Like Indiana, send a message to the United States Senate: Either pass the SAVE America Act or you will lose your seats👈 I ask for your vote for Attorney General Ken Paxton: 🚨Early Voting — May 18 - May 22 🚨Election Day — May 26 May 26th comes right after Memorial Day. It’s going to be a very low turnout & every vote counts. All they had to do was pass the SAVE America Act. ⬇️

🚨20 Reasons to Vote AGAINST Thomas Massie🚨 1. Betrayed Trump Agenda: Voted against Trump-backed priorities and the OBBB. 2. Killed Tax Relief: Opposed no tax on tips, overtime, and senior relief. 3. Weak on Border Security: Opposed key border and emergency funding measures. 4. Shutdown Risk Votes: Frequently votes against GOP funding and unity bills. 5. America Last Foreign Policy: Opposed Iran action, sanctions, and defense funding. 6. Blocks Reform Efforts: Opposed welfare checks and spending reform measures. 7. Questionable Donor Ties: Took support from anti-Trump and Dem-linked sources. 8. Weak on Election Integrity: Opposed parts of SAVE Act-style protections. 9. Anti-Tariff Votes: Sided against Trump tariff authority and trade policies. 10. Constant GOP Holdout: Repeatedly becomes the lone Republican “NO” vote. 11. Opposed Kentucky Wins: Voted against projects and funding benefiting his state. 12. Libertarian Over MAGA: Prioritizes ideology over America First results. 13. Undermines GOP Momentum: Gives Democrats talking points against Republicans. 14. Anti-Team Player: Breaks ranks during critical fights and negotiations. 15. Media Darling Republican: Frequently praised by left-wing media for opposing Trump. 16. Obstruction Over Results: Prefers protest votes over passing legislation. 17. Votes “No” on Everything: Built a brand around blocking Republican bills. 18. Weakens Trump’s Leverage: Undercuts negotiating power during major fights. 19. Purity Politics Over Progress: Chooses ideological standoffs over America First wins. 20. Unreliable MAGA Ally: Conservatives never know when he’ll oppose the agenda. KENTUCKY DESERVES A AMERICA FIRST FIGHTER! 🚨VOTE FOR ED GALLREIN 🇺🇸

🚨 JUST IN: Scott Presler is now pushing to RIP APART Senate Majority Leader John Thune's campaign war chest SLUSH FUND, and primary out his allies because the SAVE America Act was not passed SCOTT IS PLAY HARDBALL 🔥 "You can request a refund! Get back your money and take away their power by going to WinRed(dot)com forward slash contact and you can get a refund!" "Take away their ability to protect themselves, vote in every single primary, and that is our pathway and way forward." "My major peaceful bone to pick is Senate Majority Leader Thune. Today is day 127. You remember ousting RNC Chair Ronna McDaniel...we did the same thing with her. It was over 300 days." "And she finally sat down and we were able to push her out. Today is day 127 leader. Thune is not delivering!" "Despite having the ability, the authority, the agency to do so. And so if we're going to hold him accountable because he's not up for election until 2028, then we will meticulously and with methodical precision. Take down his allies." "Thune wants to protect Cornyn, defeat John Cornyn elect Ken Paxton on Tuesday, May 26." "Leader Thune wants to protect Bill Cassidy — defeat Bill Cassidy on Saturday, May 16 and one by one take down his allies!" "If you've donated to the National Republican Senatorial Committee, if you've donated to the Senate Leadership Fund, which is Senate Majority Leader Thune's slush fund to help as candidates." "If you've donated to a candidate like Cornyn or Cassidy or another squishy establishment Republican, you can request a refund!" @bennyjohnson @ScottPresler