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I love this porcelain tea strainer like a little umbrella.

one of the best tweets i’ve ever read on here. it really stuck with me.

I’m not coming home to a man built like this 😭

i love being in STEM (shenanigans, tomfoolery, escapades, and mischief)

They say a hit dog WILL holler So chifuta posted that ziku paragraph for what? if the money she wants is small monies , if your accounts are not frozen , if his lawyers already reporting cases to police ? If he doesn’t care Why write that big paragraph? Something is up. 😂

This is the type of discourse the world needs more of fr

Game theory proves that people do not act on information. They act on incentives. You can give a person all the data they need to make a better decision, but as soon as that decision threatens their position or costs them something visible, they will try to ignore the data. Before you ever try to convince anyone of anything, map what it costs them to agree. The cost of agreeing is the obstacle, not the argument.

People with ADHD have what’s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). It’s an extreme emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection. Your brain can’t regulate the emotional pain, so a small comment feels like a devastating attack. A minor correction feels like total failure. Someone’s tone feels like hatred. It’s not oversensitivity. It’s not being dramatic. Your brain literally can’t modulate the intensity of that emotional response. It’s neurological, not a character flaw

No new episode this week, so how about an everything we can tell you about Season 5 post

How do y'all deal with a man that admits he's not affectionate or romantic

If we don’t take this country back, we will have to open private libraries too. There’s really no other way. SMH

when you talk to someone who's genuinely low IQ it's almost as if they literally do not hear / process anything you say. like they just need someone to share their thoughts with out loud. it's actually scary.

i love when you get around a man and can tell that he missed you lol

you can instantly tell the difference between someone who has been deeply in love vs someone who never has. it’s literally a matter of being ensouled

Guys, a building contract is deep...and binding. Please do go clause by clause and ask 'what if'. Imagine EVERY scenario in a dispute and customise it to suit YOU. A 'standard contract' makes my skin crawl. Please...dont sign without skilled eyes 👀 casting an eye

First-born daughters who were raised spiritually as sons and hold genuine respect for their fathers are often capable of immense devotion in love, as they tend to be habitually perceptive and are not averse to taking accountability. What is often misunderstood is that, while they may not ask for help, they are highly sensitive to when it is proactively anticipated and provided, making them especially aware of and grateful for acts of attuned consideration.

This is why I argue that Zimbabwe urgently needs a paradigm shift in leadership to one grounded in emotional intelligence and guided by the well-known management principle that “a manager who wipes his shoes on the office doormat is signalling a culture of order and cleanliness.” Leadership, at its core, is about setting the tone. A leader who permits this kind of primitive politics to flourish under their watch demonstrates a troubling deficit in intellectual depth and strategic judgement. Such conduct reflects not only a lapse in discipline but also an inability to cultivate a culture of accountability and performance. A leader who metaphorically walks into the office “with muddy boots” inevitably presides over disorder, inefficiency, and declining standards. This is precisely the kind of leadership Zimbabwe must avoid. Zimbabwe cannot afford a continuation of this model of governance.

I’ll never forget a friend of a friend breaking down in drunk tears about how small her bf Penis was…. 10yrs later they’re still together. Thats how I know ppl settle on some things in relationships She was @ the table sobbing. My face…

Game theory explains why working harder inside a broken system is the worst response to that system. Because a system is never truly broken. It's just producing exactly the outcomes its own incentive structures were designed to produce, whether intentional or not. Working harder inside this system increases your output in the payoff matrix, but it simply won't change the actual structure of the system's matrix. Thus, the correct response is not more effort. Instead, you must aim to identify whose interests the current structure serves and position yourself in favor of those interests rather than against them. Change the game, or play the game that is actually being played. Either way, you must stop optimizing for the game you wish it to be and start acting realistically.