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IndiBayo
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IndiBayo
@IndiBayo
Like gaming, studying computer science. Love some anime.
เข้าร่วม Mayıs 2018
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Why do so many try to treat grown ass women like they are kids who can't think for themselves?
Endy 🍃🖤@endearestx
mass unfollowing a bunch of mutuals today. i can't believe the amount of you that are in defense of someone lying to young girls/small vtubers to cheat on their partner AND victim shaming in the same breath unbelievably disappointing.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I can very rarely catch her streams due to time zones, I honestly should be in bed right now.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Yes he was insane for that regardless of what she said.
Well I am glad we were able to come to a consensus of sorts even if we don't agree on everything. And cool to see another girl dm fan in the wild. She is a bit more niche than other vtubers.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I wish we had more screenshots from them to see the extent of what he told them. I dont think its any better if he said that shit to Mal in 2 days of talking
Imagine 4 months or more.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I meant a few of the other girls it does apply to some of them though.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I mean, they are talking about getting a cat together, gym dates, moving in together.
And that she might have to come back after a bit, why say that if you were just over for a hookup?
Makes more sense if you are planning a future together.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Idk if they really thought they were dating him it felt like hookups based on the screenshots but it could be either ig.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong When everyone involved thought they were dating him, I dont think how they all felt changes that much.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong That's a good point ig. If they even provided evidence that she was fine with them exposing him I would be ok with it too.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I dont think the gf wants to make herself more known anymore. I wont either.
Imagine being known as "Syk's gf he cheated on" for the rest of your career? No ty.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Well I cant argue with that though typically that manifests on the person they are cheating on rather that who they are cheating with.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong That's fine, but if someone is a cheater and a bad person, its more likely than not they are worse than we know that they are better than we imagined.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Fair point I do still think I would prefer that the gf herself told her story.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong He can. But he betrayed his gf, his fans, these girls, even his friends if they are innocent and misused his career for it all.
The least that should happen is he loses this position and career because of misusing it.
Like how you use your license in a DUI.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong True that, I am finding it hard to call them victims though. Maybe I am being harsh but there have been too many google docs with a lot of them being nothing burgers truth be told.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I mean, not saying that they are bad people, but bad people can also be victims.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I mean they should know to warn people involved with him. But at the same time he could improve and be a better person if we are being hopeful and optimistic, I doubt it but hey.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Problem with private resolution is that anyone not aware of Syk being a cheater would fall for his antics again.
He would just be smarter this time.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I personally think that if she told them to stay silent they should have resolved this privately. And if not she should have been the one telling the story on her end. Sykunno would have been on blast and no one would take his side.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I dont really know. But so far they have tried to keep her anonymous.
Sadly she did get doxxed accidentally, but I think they have done realistically enough to ensure he gets exposed and she doesnt get involved.
I dont think they should stay silent because his gf asks them to.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I just don't think the evidence stacks at all towards them not talking and not knowing in any way. And I also do not think most of the people involved are good people truth be told.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I dont think they knew or talked, I was working on your hypothetical.
I really think this narrative is a bigger stretch than "they didnt know he was cheating."
The only thing this narrative does is taints the women involved and reduces sympathy for them
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Yeah but did they confirm with her they would do this whole exposure? Like they definitely talked to her but did this come on her terms? I doubt it.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong They did talk to her. Mal said she had a whole talk with her, and then talked again with Bao involved too, IIRC
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong So they do know then and have talked. When killing the goose means you can get clout from it in a space like CC I can see it happening and it has happened before and would happen again.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong So they kill the golden goose instead of just sharing him?
That sounds like something 15yos would do. It doesnt make sense.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Which is kinda my point and beings my other issue if them not consulting her before doing this whole exposure of Sykunno. It is not about her anymore it is about this other girl who is now the center of the story.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Syk's gf is a pure victim in this, with no agency in this. So it is nigh impossible not to sympathize with her.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong When you notice your star crush is getting a lot of attention from "competition" it becomes wanting to secure your star crush..
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I can believe they are hiding it because why would they sabotage their relationship with possibly a star crush?
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I am more inclined to trust family but there is also family you know are trouble and find harder to trust.
I don't think it's about empathy. I can empathize easily with a lot of people, like Sykunno's girlfriend is the one person I genuinely think deserved better.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong IDK, just picture if a friend or family member made such claims, I dont think we would be as skeptical.
I think its our perception of NSFW CCs and this streamer space that makes us cynical and prevents us empathizing with these victims.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Possible he said that but they can certainly talk to each other and they definitely do. I really doubt stuff like this is not conversed regularly between them.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Very likely he told them not to talk about their connection to him so they dont get targetted by parasocial folks.
So they might have hidden it from each other too.
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Idk where you see honesty I see a different type of manipulation. Maybe I am jaded by this space. And I definitely do not like Bao and her orbiters(is that the word?) so involvement with her is guaranteed to have me side eyeing a person.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I think they knew that. And they didnt hold back because what they say about him does fit the patterns, the MO, the women involved. The behavior.
Does it have a bigger backlash? predictably so.
I feel like they risked that to be as honest as possible with their experience
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@ClarkKrist15532 @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong I don't really care if they knew about the gf that would make things worse for them but isn't my point anyway.
I am almost sure they knew each other tbh that space is too interconnected.
Maybe not only for those things but I think they are a factor.
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@IndiBayo @KolkanCova @snowdroppp0 @DejaWukong Oh no, absolutely.
Some things like knowing the age gap is on them since that's publicly available info.
I am mostly against the narrative that these girls
- Knew about the gf
- Knew about each other
- Only did it for clout/fame/money
- Did this for retaliation and not exposing
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