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Kingsley
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Proudly Catholic || A child of Saint Padre Pio ✝️ Club world cup winner 2025💙 @Chelseafc fan #Agbafian
Nigeria เข้าร่วม Ocak 2022
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@KINGPIO__CFC Jeremiah 30:17: But I will restore you to health and heal your wounds,’ declares the LORD, ‘because you are called an outcast, Zion for whom no one cares.’
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I love you Onyi 💜 and I love your idea. But childbirth, I think, is not the greatest sacrifice in marriage. Neither is it the biggest offer that can be brought to the table. The biggest sacrifice is "leaving one's father and mother and cleaving to one's spouse."
I say this because, if a woman is unable to give birth to a child, does that mean she can't offer anything? The biggest sacrifice is saying "yes, I will marry you," "yes, I'll do life with you."
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Last B 🌼🌸@Ony1nyechi
Ultimately, Childbirth is the greatest sacrifice in a marriage.. the biggest offer that can be "brought to the table "
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@HeartMattaz What is we? You are the confused one. Leave your husband out of this conversation
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The quality of the lies she tells you, is a reflection of
1. her estimation of your intelligence
2. Her level of investment in the relationship.
If she thinks you're smart (or smarter than her), she will put more effort into making her lies believeable
Similarly, if she has made considerable emotional and material investment in the relationship and so, exposure and a break up would come at great cost to her, she will be more deliberate and convincing with her lies.
The inverse then, is equally true.
If she thinks you're slow (or slower than her), you will get low effort lies; the kind Wike and Tinubu give us, delivered with either the expectation that you will believe them or indifference as to whether or not you do.
Same logic applies where there is a substantial asymmetry in investment.
If you've been the one doing a disproportionate amount of the heavy lifting in the relationship (initiating a vast majority of the calls, texting first, replying instantly while she doesn't, always viewing her statuses, pushing for visits, apologising, self diminishing to accomodate her etc), you signal/evince that you need the relationship more than she does because you have invested much more than she has.
And because of that substantial imbalance, she will be less motivated to make her lies convincing. Whether or not you believe them becomes an irrelevant consideration, because the consequence of your disbelief (possible break up) carries a higher cost for you than it does for her.
Under that dynamic, low effort lies like this one, become commonplace.
You cannot stop anybody from cheating, lying or betraying. But you can make the cost of doing so so high, the risks demonstrably outweigh the reward.
The higher the risks, the stronger the deterrence and the less likely they are to betray. The lower the risks the weaker the deterrence and the more likely they are to betray.
Stated in another way, you cannot control what anyone chooses to do, but you can control what it costs them to do it, and force them to calculate if that cost is worth paying.
So what it comes down to really, are
- perception
- investment
- and leverage
With those keywords in mind, analyse your relationship or marriage (past and present) and you will see why things are/were the way they are.
Goodluck
Renny@R_nnyu
See time wey this girl dey talk Goodnight💔
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One more year before it becomes forever.
Introvert 🎲🥏@hintrovertt
Happy 39th birthday to pooja 🎂🎉
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Years ago I was traveling from Enugu to Awka, missed the last bus, and became the first passenger on the next one, so of course I secured the front window seat. If you know, you know.
As the bus filled up, a man came to sit in front with me. When I tried to step out so he could take the middle seat, he refused and told me to move inside because I’m a woman, apparently, a man should sit by the window, not me. I told him I got there first and chose that seat on purpose. That’s when he started shouting about how women don’t respect men anymore.
I ignored him, but then he went further, talking nonsense about how a woman who squats to pee can’t challenge a man who stands. At that point, I simply opened my bag, counted money, and paid for the seat. He was the last passenger, so I told him to wait for the next bus and asked the driver to move.
The entire bus burst into laughter. As we drove off and he stood there insulting me, I just looked at him and did ntooor 😜. I’ve never felt that satisfied humbling someone.
And to think I didn’t even know the word misogyny then, I just knew I wasn’t going to let disrespect slide.
Treazy@treazyblaq
What was the most satisfying way you’ve ever humbled someone?
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Breaking News 🗞️
Pope Leo XIV has recently made statements regarding the Catholic Church's stance on LGBTQ+🏳️🌈 issues, particularly concerning same-sex marriage and transgender individuals.
He has affirmed that
" there will be no change in Church doctrine regarding these matters. Specifically, he reiterated that the Church's teaching on marriage remains that it is a union between a man and a woman, and he will not bless same-sex marriages"


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