Krishna Kumar S
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Krishna Kumar S
@KKsTechter
Going with the flow...
Chennai,India เข้าร่วม Nisan 2020
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#Dude left me thinking far more than I expected. On the surface, the film seems like a wild premise: Agan marries his uncle’s daughter Kayal, not out of love, but to help her escape her casteist father and unite with the man she truly loves, Paari.
He loves her, yes. But he still chooses her happiness over his own, knowing fully well that she has chosen someone else.
At first glance, the plot may sound absurd. But it is an honest, uncomfortable truth:
When you genuinely love someone, their happiness outweighs your ego.
Agan embodies that. He does what most people claim they would never do. However, society and reviewers didn’t take this lightly.
The movie has faced sharp criticism for “destroying the sanctity of marriage,” “mocking traditions,” and “character-assassinating” Kayal for being “immoral.” Some even went after the supposed “holiness” of the mangalsutra/thaali, arguing that the film disrespects it.
My view is simple:
A Thaali has no meaning if the person tying it and the person wearing it do not want to share their lives.
It’s a symbol of union, NOT THE UNION ITSELF. Rituals cannot create bonding when the minds have already parted ways.
Tamil cinema has always pushed boundaries. If social media had existed in 2000, imagine the outrage over Alaipayuthey. There’s literally a scene where Shakti keeps her thaali aside at night and wears it again in the morning. Today, that clip alone would have triggered endless debates on “culture,” “values,” and “respect.”
But the point is this:
These symbolic gestures have nothing to do with whether two people want to share a life.
Society has always obsessed over the guardrails and rituals, not the actual emotional compatibility between two adults.
DUDE simply reinforces that two people should be together only if they want to be. When caste, religion, status, or family pressure corners them, they will take extreme steps to claim their happiness. Calling them “immoral” while turning a blind eye to honour killings in 2025, Tamil Nadu is the real irony.
This is not theoretical for me. A woman in my own distant family secretly married a Christian man because she feared that her family would not agree with her choice. They revealed it only when her marriage was being arranged. And guess what, they’re happily living together today. Many in my family even watched Alaipayuthey back then to see “where she got the idea from.”
So here’s my question to society:
If someone you love does not choose you, does that automatically give you license to disrespect their love?
Why does everything have to be filtered through the male ego?
People who call Agan a “cuckold” completely miss the point. If he had abused Kayal or killed her, as we tragically still see in honor killings or jilted lover cases, would that have satisfied the “morality”?
And what if the situation were reversed? If Agan loved someone else and Kayal helped him marry her, would she suddenly become a celebrated symbol of sacrifice?
The truth is painfully simple:
Marriage alone doesn’t bind two people. Choice does. Compatibility does. Desire does.
And I’m NOT TALKING ABOUT ILLICIT RELATIONSHIPS. I’m talking about mature, consenting adults choosing whom they want to share their lives with.
People often say, “Divorces have increased these days.” Sure, but mayb that’s because people today can walk away from relationships that don’t serve them. Options exist. Awareness exists.
Look at Mouna Ragam:
In 1986, when Revathi says she wants a divorce, Mohan respects it and takes her to a lawyer. Even then, the divorce lawyer discourages her because society wasn’t ready to accept the concept. NOT TODAY. Because we’ve evolved. Laws evolved. Society evolved.
So why shouldn’t our ideas about relationships evolve too?
I genuinely feel Keerthiswaran has attempted something important. Flawed? Maybe. But necessary? Absolutely. He’s forcing society to confront a conversation we’ve postponed for too long!

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@moviesavailable There is logic issue in that certainly, they could have talked in phone itself way before marriage date regarding it. But I would say this movie is not worth that much investigation and thought put into it. Just go with the flow and leave it when he movie finishes.
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@KKsTechter Hmm, Confusion about marriage? Marriage is not joke, which involves two people & family. but it's her life to face struggles or whatever it is. Why let hero suffers?
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#Dude -Apart from caste, honor killing. It happens many decade. What about heroine-She love other person once #PradeepRanganathan rejected and pregnant too. Her choice. But She didn't cancel or reject the wedding when it started.Telling to Dad before a day.

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@ChroniclesHindu That's interesting to know. keep the stories coming
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When Lord Shiva took the form of "Sharabha" the being who calmed Narasimha.
After killing Hiranyakashipu, Lord Vishnu’s Narasimha avatar was still burning with cosmic rage.
Neither Brahma nor the Devas could stop him.
Then… Shiva stepped in.
#harharmahadevॐ #PuranicStories

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🚨 In Ujjain’s Kaal Bhairav Temple… the deity literally drinks alcohol.
Not a ritual, not symbolism —the liquor vanishes right before your eyes.
No pipes. No tricks. Absolute mystery
#SanatanDharma #HinduMythology #Bhairava #HarHarMahadev
In detail below....

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@RanaMishka There’s a movie called “dude”, that released in tamil recently related to similar caste issue
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Marriages these days are so scary. One of my friends is getting married to one of my school mates.
She was in a relationship with a guy since 4 years and they couldn’t marry because of caste issues. While, the guy she is getting married to was in a relationship since 5 years and couldn’t marry his gf again because of caste issues. They are still deeply in love with their exes.
Six lives wasted, just settling in a setup created by parents somehow. And I know many such more cases. It’s extremely exhausting to see them.
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@poitholamaadu @mohandreamer Yep agreed. Innum better ah pannirkalam
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@KKsTechter @mohandreamer அதனாலதான் இந்த தாலி feelings matter படத்துல உட்காரல, Female character Arc கேவலமா பண்ணிருக்கான் .. உடனே jump love, உடனே pregnancy.. worst writing

@kingniranjan123 @Keerthiswaran_ Yes, I will make sure I oppose honour killing mindset if I set to encounter it.
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@KKsTechter @Keerthiswaran_ Start from yourself ! All the best
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@poitholamaadu @mohandreamer Padathala marriage ku apram dhan pregnant agara mari kattuvanga. Visa edukumbodhu it was already 3 months and she was 2 months pregnant.
Neraya peru neenga nenacha mari dhan thappa pakuranga, but its not the case
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@mohandreamer #Dude தாலிய விட பொண்ணுக்கு feelingsthan முக்கியம் சொல்கிற்காங்க நல்ல விஷயம்தான் ஆனா இந்த பொண்ணு 6மாசத்துல வேற #Love பண்ணி, matter பண்ணி அதெல்லாம் ஹீரோ கிட்ட மறைச்சு கல்யாணம் game ஆடும்.. இப்போ இந்த type பொண்ணுக்கு போய் தாலி feelings-matter Suit அகல கேவலமா இருக்கு🤡🤮 #Tamilcinema
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@Venom36143048 Not sure this movie is getting this much hate though. He just comes willingly to help that girl to live the life she wants. I agree the second half could have been different. But this is unreal misunderstanding from many
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DevOps tools:
Programming → Python, Groovy, Go Lang
Provision → @github
Containers → @Docker
Orchestration → @kubernetesio
Cloud → @awscloud @CivoCloud
@Azure
CI/CD & GitOps → Jenkins, Github Actions, Gitlab, ArgoCD, Flux
IaC & IP → Terraform, Ansible, Pulumi, Crossplane
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