Masculine Revival รีทวีตแล้ว

A year of long COVID destroyed every habit I'd spent a decade building.
For close to a year, it took me hours to get out of bed. I couldn't exercise. I could barely work. At the same time, I'd just acquired a new company, started a full-time PhD, and was still managing a team of sixty people.
One morning, I was talking to my writing partner Joshua about this over coffee, and he stopped me mid-sentence.
"Let's simplify this: what is the one daily habit that makes the rest of your behaviors naturally happen?"
"Waking up at 5:30 AM and dropping straight into flow (focused work). From the moment I started my first business, everything good about my day traced back to that."
The problem was, even after recovering, I couldn't stay consistent with it. Too late to bed, snoozing the alarm, sucked into the phone.
Joshua asked a different question. "What has to happen, and by when, in the 24 hours leading up to 5:30 AM, to guarantee you hit it?"
We reverse-engineered it backwards. Asleep by 9. In bed by 8:30. Done eating by 5. Done with work by 5. Reboot routine at 8. Wake at 5:30.
Six landmarks. We set an alarm at each.
I've stuck to the 5:30 wake-up with near-perfect consistency ever since.
Research at UCL and Stanford shows that habits form when a cue reliably precedes a behavior. An alarm can be that cue.
Willpower gives you one chance a day. Hinges give you six.
Full breakdown in the article below.
- Rian
Rian Doris@RianSweetDoris
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