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You need to stop projecting your male brain on women.
Men and women are very different.
If she’s trying to argue with you, it’s just a test to see if you have a strong frame.
Your approach should be everything else than arguing back.
Argue back = she’s thinking, «he don’t have any emotional control.»
«If a burglar breaks into our house, he may not be able to protect me and the kids.»
When she’s testing you, it’s perfect to use @alpharivelino ‘s approach:
SHE IS LIKE A CHILD.
No he’s not saying «she is a child»
He’s saying «she is LIKE a child»
When she’s mad at you, think «aaah, she is like a child, how adorable.
Tell her she’s cute, kiss her forehead and be fun. Play with her.
Example: pillow fight, wrestling, dancing.
You get it.
In my experience everytime she’s mad (without being hungry) it takes me 60 seconds to make her laugh.
And remember, if she’s mad at you, it’s good!!
She’s emotionally invested in you. She likes you.
She’s cute like little children biting their toys because of feeling angry.
It’s not much logic, she just feels.
What she feels in the moment is what she perceives to be true.
If she feels another guy is better than you, she believes it like it’s objective.
And she might taste him.
If he’s better than you when she takes a bite, she’s gone.
If he’s worse, she’s going back often more in love.
«taste» and «takes a bite» may not be what you think it is.
It could be as simple as smiling at a guy walking pass her.
Hungry girl lecture:
And, always remember to feed her when she’s hungry.
When a girl is hungry, her negative feelings is 10x+++ her normal feelings.
Just give her food, and don’t ask her if she’s hungry. Because it’s obvious.
Example of what you can do, (it’s often depended on context)
Think: «She’s hungry, that’s cute»
Do: Give her food.
Imagine arguing with a child, and then imagine arguing with a hungry child😂
If she crashes your car, you should take 100% responsibility and think: «It’s my fault»
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