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Muting/Blocking = Self Care

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•36 •He/him •COVID Safe Somatic Trauma Therapist (LMHC-D/LPC) •Free psych info 4 all & free therapy 4 Black ppl •Backup: @Queering_Psych •Free Practice: @mhc4oc

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I offer clinical supervision to licensed therapists interested in incorporating somatic practices into their clinical work And supervision session fees go right into running the practice & providing free therapy to low income Black people So you grow for a good cause
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And this is literally mandatory for repair & community building And this counts for most harms You can’t just change behavior quietly and act like you were always like that if you actually want to movie forward in a health way
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It‘s IMPOSSIBLE to change w/o admitting you’ve harmed ppl w/ your behavior & taking active steps to learn from & heal what you’ve done. Period Time alone doesn’t heal wounds. Ppl need to put in work to make up for what they’ve done or they‘re bullshitting. Don’t let ppl play you

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I need an acknowledgment of being propagandized & of having added to the systemic harm The actual apology is the consistent, longterm change in behavior
ABBY 🇵🇸@abbymachines

i do anticipate we're going to see more and more people come around on masks & covid mitigation. and many (though not all) of those people will never apologize for spending years ignoring and belittling the people who tried to get them to care

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This popped into my head this morning Remember when the Epstein class was spreading psyop that kink at Pride (and then that LGBTQ adults just existing) was grooming children Only 4 years ago. Meanwhile now we know for sure what they were doing the whole time
Muting/Blocking = Self Care@QueeringPsych

This is part of why conservatives & TERFs convincing younger generations of queer & trans youth to actually buy into the “kink at pride is grooming” bs is so dangerous These youth don’t realize what they are being convinced to go along with until it’s too late

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This doesn’t mean asking the person if they are fawning & asking them to be “honest” This means looking at yourself & your actions. What are you doing or enabling on your end of the relationship that your comfort is such a high priority over their systemic & personal safety?
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Fawning is a natural response the body can default to in order to survive Fawning is a sign of not feeling completely safe & a sign the body is under stress Does it sit right with you that someone you’re caring for could be fawning consistently in their relationship with you?
Muting/Blocking = Self Care@QueeringPsych

And here is the video version of the basics of fawning, people pleasing, trauma, and healing via somatic work:

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“I take care of my disabled loved one & they don't ask me to mask” Well yes, 1) you, the more abled person, have more power in that relationship, 2) they need you & know that your whims determine their care, 3) If they did ask you to mask, would you treat them the same?
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FATALE.NYC@ICONOCLASTIAE·
A sex worker developed a site prior to OF. The guy who founded OF was her developer. He threatened to dox her user base if she fought it. Her user base was almost entirely sex workers. OF is a clone of that site and technically simple. It’s been theft from SW from day one.
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Lou@plagueprose·
just imagine how much more effective these movements will be once disability justice comes into play.
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CMC@BlackChthonic·
Remember when the taxi drivers who’d refuse to pick up black passengers started complaining about being pushed out by rideshare apps? Similar energy as this. ICE is awful, but I’m not defending TSA agents who profile + harass based on race + trans status. Both work under DHS.
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popping in from hiatus to recommend thinking twice before donating to a random white guy who swoops in at the eleventh hour donning a homemade cape who is at all other times uninterested in practicing public health within his own communities... ...who has blocked multiple mask bloc accts and disabled people when held accountable for appearing maskless at countless protests... ...and making sure he doesn't leave a protest without getting a mic in his hand and having someone snap his photo. mentioning mask blocs is awesome! so is accountability. unblock the mask blocs then. and for the love of god, mask up. and instead, PLEASE donate directly to Cuban aid funds in the coming days, get your hands on some respirators, PUT ONE ON, distribute them to Cuba and throughout your own communities, start walking the fucking walk. masks work. anyone whining about it and pointing two hands' worth of fingers elsewhere to deflect from their own abandonment of public health and complicity in an ongoing mass disabling event, is a weak-willed crybaby who needs to spend less time kicking the can down the road and more time reckoning with their aversion to the material reality of a post-2020 world. it really is that simple.
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⚜️Sovereign⚜️
⚜️Sovereign⚜️@sauvamemte·
I know some of y’all don’t give a fuck about anyone but yourselves and your aspirations are to be a revolutionary, but you cannot be a revolutionary if you do not care about the most vulnerable people in your communities.
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Danie ❤️ you
Danie ❤️ you@obaa_boni·
The cage is here and the cage is now People are being trained to stand by idly in the face of repression, violence and disappearance. We are numb to action And the few ppl courageous enough to resist have been convicted of terrorism charges in Texas The prison is closing in
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Danie ❤️ you
Danie ❤️ you@obaa_boni·
By the time people who are not incarcerated realize that they’ve been in prison this entire time it’ll be late The borders are more violent than ever, travel is harder. Travel documents for Trans ppl and immigrants are being invalidated which sets precedent for the rest of us
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Danie ❤️ you
Danie ❤️ you@obaa_boni·
The entire United States of America is a prison. And the state is surveilling us at unprecedented levels. ICE and police is at airports, on buses, at hospitals, in schools disappearing people. Flock cameras are watching the streets, RING cameras are watching private property
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Tal✨they/them
Tal✨they/them@talyaTheeEnby·
You CANNOT be Pro-Black and use and/or be Pro AI.
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ebonically intelligent papi 🌻
Helping a friend raise funds, goal is $300. Pls d*nate and share
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