Sa’adatu✨

So you guys want to marry a woman who works, comes home, cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids, meets your sexual needs, and also helps you pay the bills? 🥹🥹

𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗣𝗼𝗹𝘆𝗴𝗮𝗺𝘆 𝗥𝗲𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗠𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲: 𝗔 𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝗳𝗲’𝘀 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆 Polygamy is often portrayed as a source of jealousy, conflict, and heartbreak. But sometimes, when approached with fairness and virtue, it can unexpectedly breathe new life into a marriage. This is my story—how my husband’s second marriage revived my relationship with him, and renewed the love I thought I had lost. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐅𝐚𝐝𝐞 I married my husband when I was twenty. He was twenty-five—responsible, generous, noble. We built a life together: four children, shared responsibilities, love, and respect. In every sense, he was the man of my dreams. The first ten years were filled with warmth, intimacy, and laughter. But gradually, a subtle distance crept in. Nights together became routine. Conversations became transactional. Physical closeness diminished. I found myself retreating, sometimes preferring to sleep near our children rather than with him. I stopped paying attention to my appearance, my femininity, my presence in his life. He, too, seemed withdrawn—not unkind, but without the energy, the spark, the joy that had defined our early years. Monotony had settled over us like a shadow. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 When I was thirty-five, my husband announced that he had married again—a young, respectful, and virtuous woman. My first reaction was shock, disbelief, and fear. Divorce crossed my mind. But I reminded myself of his character: fairness, integrity, generosity. I realized he would not wrong me, and perhaps this was part of Allah’s plan. The first days were difficult. I struggled with jealousy and discomfort, imagining him with another woman. But then something unexpected happened. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐨𝐟 𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 From the moment he returned from the honeymoon, I noticed a profound change. He was radiant, lively, and full of joy. There was a sparkle in his eyes, a spring in his step, and a warmth in his voice that I had not seen in years. His love for life and for his new wife overflowed—and I was not left untouched. It was as though the happiness he experienced with his second wife couldn’t be contained. He came home with laughter on his lips, kindness in every gesture, and a renewed attentiveness to those around him. The joy that had seemed dormant now radiated through him, spilling into our home, into our interactions, into the way he looked at me. Every compliment, every gift, every small act of care reminded me of the man I had fallen in love with. He no longer took me for granted. He spoke to me as if I were discovering his love for the first time. 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐞 I began to notice changes in myself too. Seeing him joyful and alive reminded me of my own worth and femininity. I became intentional again: • Dressing with care, choosing perfumes, nurturing my appearance • Looking forward to our nights together with anticipation • Reawakening my own desires and passion He, in turn, became more attentive, more generous, more present.ɪᴛ ᴡᴀꜱ ᴀꜱ ɪꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇɴᴇʀɢʏ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ʜᴇ ᴇxᴘᴇʀɪᴇɴᴄᴇᴅ ɪɴ ʜɪꜱ ꜱᴇᴄᴏɴᴅ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ꜰʟᴏᴡᴇᴅ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ɪɴᴛᴏ ᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘ, ʀᴇᴠɪᴛᴀʟɪᴢɪɴɢ ɪᴛ. The home we shared became a place of excitement, laughter, and renewed intimacy. Even our children noticed the difference. He was calmer, more playful, and more connected with them. His joy had become contagious, filling the household. 1/

we’ve heard. bahaushe is not romantic. please go and marry the romantic men you want. you married a man more than a decade older than you and want him to be doing your childish instagram things. why didn’t you marry your mate that’ll do it with you? oh, e no guide? okay, sorry

march dump?

I can’t wait to dig into these pastries with a HOT cup of coffee in this perfect weather 🥺 I won’t let the fact that I am a Nigerian living under this administration dampen my mood

Do you think children deserve apologies and explanations?

If you're a newly married couple and want to rest before having a child/delay pregnancy, please and please Kuyi wa Allah ku avoiding injectable methods of family planning and consider other methods.This is based on what l've seen....and clients' experiences !! A word is enough….

With Red oil or Egg sauce??