Psychedelics show you how not in control you are but it's even more intense when you experience it sober.
We are not in control at all.
Might as well live with super powered confidence and faith.
conversationg between my friend and i:
Him: I still talk and flirt with other girls randomly, but not very seriously, i keep my game sharp
I prefered if she was bisexual like my ex girfriend
For me a bisexual girl is the ideal one for marriage
Me: bi sexual is the easiest route for mairrage but the best girls arent bi.. theyre possesive and sensative. we as men need to evolve past our attractions controlling us and sacrifice what could be a sexual encounter for growing closer to God. using them as a stepping stone to the top instead of having sex, hurting our girl, and hurting our family
side note - the higher you get with God, the sharper your game will be. you dont need women for game. you can do it on your mission, with everyone, and the HIGHER up you get
No one can give you an opportunity better than you can give to yourself!
isn't it ironic that as soon as you don't need opportunities from other people anymore, the best ones show up?
it's painful because you know you'd crush it, it's so perfectly laid out, and it would be fruitful long term, but as great as it is nothing can beat your own set up
i never wanted to be entrepreneur. shoot, i never even wanted to be in sales! i thought sales was for suckups. i thought entrepreneurship was too complicated. well, i was partially right about the second one.
The thing that's really crazy about having your own business is that you get paid so much more per job that nothing can come close. you can do 1/5 the amount of deals as being a salesman for another company and still make MORE. still have more freedom, a better life, and potentially even more upside in the long term (likely so)
this is not to dissuade people from working for someone else. the only reason i am where i am is because i worked for great companies in my youth. i had great CULTURE around me. the training, the people, the teammates you gain forever, that's priceless.
but if you can't get what you sought after inside of a company, you eventually have to start your own. if you got to stay where you were at, you're lucky. but if you had to start your own, you will be blessed
my mindset as an employee (i didnt even know i had an employee mindset. just because you think big doesnt mean you don't have an employee mindset) was *invest my time now, get paid big later*
an employee thinks like a pledge. again, theres a good time and place for this where if you tried to go against it, youd NEVER GET ANYWHERE. i was once a pledge. i was once an employee, and a great one at that. this is why im a great owner.
a pledge thinks in term of getting a future payoff due to their time (not money or investments like an owner)
as an owner you think *get paid NOW, future payoff even bigger later*
sometimes you invest your money or time but you have full CONTROL over what you're putting it into. you must have control to ensure a BUSINESS youre WORKING FOR pays off. (investments into companies are a different story, of course)
an employee is a buyer.
he goes to the table looking at the offer in front of him. if youre the one being courted, you dont have control. you dont have the power position. essentially, theyre looking to make more off of you than you will off them. Nothing wrong with this, and sometimes its extremely advantageous. pro athletes are employees.
but the real money is in being an owner. an owner is a seller.
hes going to the table to make money. he may get turned down, he knows this. but when he strikes a deal, hes a big winner. the other person also wins, but he potentially makes a jackpot.
are you doing the pitching, or are you getting pitched?
most people's egos get in the way of what's best for them. the person being pitched is the loser compared to the person pitching.
if youre now at the owner level, you need to be making the offers, not receiving them.
yes, you can make offers even as a customer or employee. most business owners dont even have the owners mindset to lead a situation anyway...
the goal isnt to get accepted, get flattered, or have things given to you. its to hit jackpots. the only cost of that is rejection.
TAKE CONTROL
Figure out HOW something works, not just if it does or what it does!
This will help you stay addiction-free and fueled by the real source of energy of life