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@thefourgregs And if she has to take it off alone.. that a whole other pain for a submissive

A collar that means "she submitted" is a title. Titles are meaningless. "Still choosing today" is meaning. That collar only means anything if she can take it off.

The tasks can be done by anyone. That's not a problem — that's the point. She's irreplaceable because of love, not because of the dynamic. If you need the dynamic to make her irreplaceable, you've confused operations with love. Love already made her irreplaceable.

@BluEyedKitten77 Love you!! thank you!!

@actually_dr Happiest of Happy Birthdays to You my friend. I hope today is a wonderful & blessed day filled with love, laughter, & pure joy. 😘 I LOVE You! ❤️

Tomorrow I will turn 51! I will start taking my "happy birthdays" now

Grading her work is leadership. Grading her as flawed is harm. The more intimate they become, the harder it can be to see where one ends and the other starts. A woman worth keeping will say "you're scoring me as a person right now" and it lands like a correction, not a fight.

@MstrBiceptimus This!

If she kneels because she can't stand on her own, that's collapse, not surrender. Able to stand. Able to walk away on her own solid ground. Kneels anyway.

The community says "follow a man worth following." That puts the entire weight on him, and turns submission into her evaluation. The life he's building has to be compelling enough to earn her ongoing submission. She's not surrendering — she's auditing his direction. And the moment his direction falters, her submission leaves with it. It was never his. It was on loan. The difference between submission and due diligence shows when he isn't providing. When she doesn't need him for anything, and stays anyway. When nothing is impressive. When the direction is just ordinary life. She's still there — not because his purpose passed inspection, but because she's his. Submission is staying when the only thing left to follow is the man.

A submissive isn't a woman who needs a man to function. She's a woman who already functions and chooses his direction over her own. Not out of desperation. Out of devotion. Dominance is recognizing a woman who already has ground to stand on and giving her somewhere to walk.

@MstrBiceptimus Yes! This!

Rubbing elbows and schmoozing tonight

Conference in NYC this weekend. Its nice... but there are way too many people here

Ouch

Tomorrow ... Tomorrow will hurt less than today

“Stop obsessing over someone who sleeps just fine without you” is the quote I didn’t realize I needed to slap me in the face today.

If its raining. No one can tell you are crying. A trail, a good cry, a scream into a waterfall and straightening my fucking crown. Good day.

it hurts seeing how fast u forgot me