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@letice721 @emilykmay Ye but the thing is people can have hookups with any stranger and just have sex. But kissing and cuddling without sex isn’t really something that happens between strangers. That’s what makes it different. In this gen, everyone has sex with ppl they’re not close to.

@hoeatak @emilykmay I'll tell you EXACTLY what a man is thinking while kissing and touching. "holy shit, my girl is so beautiful, I love her. Kissing her is nice, I feel close to her. But wait, why should we only settle for "nice" when we both could enjoy "MORE nice" together?"

there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.

@letice721 @emilykmay I get where you’re coming from, but there are other ways to be intimate besides having sex, which is what the post is about. It would be nice to be able to cuddle and make out with your partner without them being like “sex?”. Sex is nice, but intimacy without sex is also nice.

@emilykmay Men are so fundamentally easy that I don't understand how ANY women is confused. Men only need three things in life to feel like a king. They need food. They need to be appreciated. They need the love of a good woman. For that, a man will eagerly wrap himself around her finger

@richhoescheat @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae True, but what difference does this make in sex? How does men being aggressive with sex=women should get treated differently. Break it down. Cause it seems to me that it doesn’t quite correlate. There are obviously biological differences, but socially, why does that matter?

@hoeatak @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae Men n women r different fundamentally Testosterone levels being a major factor. Understand that testosterone affects your THOUGHTS. Men are more aggressive in everything including sexually. you would have to literally ignore this FACT to treat men and women the same about sex

women receive more shame for consensual sex than men do for rape

@richhoescheat @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae Explain why you feel this way, I am open to different opinions. Imo there is really no reason for men and women to be perceived differently when it comes to sex in today’s society without misogynistic reasoning.

@hoeatak @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae And if u want to try n change how women and men are perceived In their actions Be my guest Call it misogyny say it’s being excused whatever u want But u will never be able to change the different feelings surrounding what men and women do. It’s just reality.

@richhoescheat @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae You are 100% right, those are the standards. If that is something you want to change and make equal, then try your best, you have my support. That doesn’t excuse misogyny. Being ok when men do something, but hating women when they do it is wrong.

@hoeatak @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae U said a lotta nothing lol Men and women will never be the same. We need different standards. Y’all don’t expect women to propose Women don’t want to propose and men don’t want to be proposed to. Because men and women want different.

@richhoescheat @MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae We do want to do that. The reason that some men don’t hold women to their standards is because of nothing but misogyny. That is why they view women differently, and nothing else. Some men view women as objects still.

@MsOnnaHush @PoorDecisionsMW @yvessirae Because men aren’t women. Why do yall constantly compare the two when it comes to sex. Women aren’t penetrating they aren’t approaching they aren’t PAYING. And frankly they don’t want to Holding men and women to the same sexual standards is NOT what yall want to do

@chaeyuer this is the song that got me into twice 🥹

just remembered the best song of all time

@ichriecheblut @Hollywood_JT_ no. it might be better for some people to wait til they are married to have a kid. In most cases, marrying someone means that you know them better and are willing to spend the rest of your life with them. People nowadays have kids with people they don’t fully trust/know.

@Hollywood_JT_ so what are you saying? she should’ve married him so she had to deal with a divorce as well as abuse?

minji reaction when hanni said this “I’m really telling the truth.. but at some point.. Like, She making me look like a liar..”

Me laughing then I remember I’m fat

my baby

Roblox is wild

creature experiences remorse

Idk when we decided Snoop Dogg was the official US mascot, but I hope it never changes. twitter.com/TheTinderBlog/…

The dog was like “well that was very nice of you”

why i just found out that my daddy be vacuuming twilight 😭😭😭

Sound on 🔉