Tanner Chidester

Some days it's hard to not compare or feel like you aren't good enough. Some of who I consider my closest friends are worth 9 figures already (and will be 10). I'll hit 9 well before I die, but 10 is ambiguous at this point in my life and it feels scary (yes boo hoo I know, first world problems). Keep in mind everyone's problems seem like a big deal to them. Doesn't mean they are, but everyone is battling "worlds biggest problems." Anyways...I was cleaning out my phone today and on the left was my net worth in 2016. On right is 100+ million in sales since 2017 (most from 2019+). The hardest part as a high achiever is to find joy in the work and the journey, and not obsess about the destination. I know it sounds crazy but there's days I don't feel good, I'm not the leader I need to be, I feel bad I don't have life all figured out etc. People will put you on a pedestal and act as if you feel different at different levels and you just don't. If you feel down today hoping this can give you some inspiration, I've been there. Off to work 🫶🏻

Most people think optimism means ignoring reality. Wrong. Optimism means: Facing reality Refusing despair Believing effort changes outcomes Betting on yourself Rejecting victimhood

The price of discipline is paid upfront. The price of regret is paid forever.

Execution beats perfection.

Nothing lower you can do than attack a man’s girl verbally. You’re a FP.

I know it’s hard to believe, but some good looking women also make their own money. If yours is a 4 and doesn’t, don’t hate on mine ❤️. Never have and never will date just on looks 👍🏻. Ty for coming to my Ted talk.

Avoiding responsibility feels light in the moment. Carrying the consequences feels heavy later.

Consistency is the entrance fee.

Don’t envy the results. Envy the discipline.

Nothing more disappointing to me than to hear bad things about someone you admired, from people you trust. Complete mind fu*k

The people who grow the fastest are willing to look stupid in the beginning.

If you can’t measure it, you can’t improve it.

Discipline is the ultimate life hack.

Honest men sleep well.

You don’t need to be liked. You need to be respected.

Your parents didn’t raise you to give up. Remember that.

Emotional intelligence isn’t about feeling more. It’s about reacting less.

Your excuses won’t feed your family.

Don’t yell. Don’t flinch. Don’t fold.

Stop creating content to impress other coaches. Start writing to solve your client's actual problem.

If you can’t lead yourself, you’ll never lead others. Start with discipline.