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Did you own me epic style? Did it work? Was it worth the shot?

You absolutely can. The ability to see a woman's highest self and to love that version of her into existence, is exactly what makes some men superior to others in inspiring a woman's devotion. To see a woman's wounds and struggles, and to see her strength and capacity to overcome them - it is a deeper type of game. It doesn't simply spark tension and arousal, it makes her feel completely and utterly seen. The feminine grows by praise, but most praise is cheap. It is superficial. But not belief. Belief is the highest form of praise, because it is manifestation. If you believe in a woman, you make her feel safe to surrender not only her body and mind, but her vision of herself to you. Which is how you can mold her into the best person she can be. You see her potential, and can now challenge her lovingly when she falls short of it. You will not accept protests from her that fearful and complacent versions of herself are "who she is" because these are betrayals to her integrity. You hold her to account - not through criticism, but through clarity. This is how you lead as a man: you guide a woman through love and conviction to the future, higher iteration of both her and your relationship with her. If she turns away, it's because she felt she wasn't worthy. And you were lucky to lose her.