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第2弾オリジナルメニュー販売開始
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第2弾フォロー&リポストキャンペーン実施!
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@sugu_darakeruyo 3人分の妊娠出産した身体と何もないで勝手に子供が3人できた身体が同じ疲れだと思わない方がいい。大人が相手であり就労時間が決まっていて妊娠出産してないんだから。3人も産んで更に働けとでも言うのか。奥さんのストレスは「それなり」なんてものではないし息抜きが必要なのはどう考えても奥さんよ
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@tsukitate_com 同じくです‼️どこで買ったらいいの⁉️冬はどうするの⁉️みたいに戸惑いが多かったです‼️あと上靴毎週持ち帰るのも北海道はありませんでしたよね…?
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@TeimurazLezhava @itotladze8 お土産にやきそば弁当を買って下さい。空港でもりもとのハスカップジュエリーを買って下さい。かま栄のパンロールを買ってください。いろはすのハスカップ味を買って下さい。ルタオでルノワールという紅茶ラングドシャ買って下さい。あとこれは娘のお気に入りのクマのぬいぐるみです🐻空港で買えます。

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いろんなニュースに掻き消されてるけど、高額療養費上限引き上げ、決まっちゃうけど本当にいいの?去年あんなに反対されて引っ込めてたのにこれも白紙委任状?本当に?
#月183円なら払いますので高額医療制度を戻して下さい
#高額療養費の限度額引き上げを撤回してください
保団連(全国保険医団体連合会)@hodanren
明日(4月7日)、政府は高額療養費を含む予算案を参議院で採決しようとしています。 収入減による受診への影響を考慮・検討せず、患者団体が不同意の意思を示す中で負担増を決めることに強く抗議します。あらためて高額療養費制度の見直し撤回を強く求めます。
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“I don’t pay for women,” wrote a 52-year-old man.
I showed up to the date without makeup and wearing sneakers.
We had been talking for about two weeks. Giovanni was one of those rare people—polite, straightforward, no mind games. Divorced, two grown kids, worked in construction. He had humor, balance, culture. When he asked me out, I said yes without hesitation.
Then came that message—clear, almost sharp.
“Let’s be clear: I don’t pay for women on dates. It’s my principle. Hope that’s not a problem.”
Honestly, it wasn’t.
In fact, I appreciated the honesty. Better to know upfront what you’re getting into than to face the bill and pretend nothing happened.
I replied: “Fine, no problem. See you Saturday.”
Inside me, an idea was born.
A simple, honest experiment.
Saturday morning, I woke up early. I’m 46 and I know exactly what “getting ready” for a date means. I opened my closet, picked the right outfit. Then makeup: foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, mascara, lipstick—the usual ritual.
And then I stopped.
Why?
If we’re truly equal… if everyone pays their own way… if there are no roles…
why should I spend two hours getting ready?
Why should I look flawless while Giovanni probably shows up in jeans and a T-shirt, ready in ten minutes?
So I decided.
Jeans. Gray sweater. Comfortable shoes.
Ponytail.
No makeup.
Just me.
In the mirror, I felt strange. Not worse. Just… different. Used to seeing myself “constructed,” I now looked simply normal.
“Let’s see,” I thought.
At the café, Giovanni was already seated. He greeted me, smiled, everything calm. The first few minutes were pleasant, natural. I almost thought I’d overthought it.
Then he paused, looked at me more closely, and said:
“You didn’t get ready much to see me, did you?”
“What do you mean?”
“In the photos, you looked more polished… the dress, the makeup… Now you look… like you ran an errand.”
I smiled. Because in that moment I knew the experiment was working.
“Giovanni,” I said calmly, “remember what you wrote about the bill?”
He nodded.
“Yes.”
“You talked about equality. Everyone pays their own way. No roles, no expectations. You’re independent, I’m independent.”
“Yes… and?”
“So I asked myself: why does equality only apply to money? You showed up comfortably, no special effort. I did the same. Isn’t that consistent?”
He stayed silent. Then tried to explain.
“But these are different things…”
“Why different?” I asked.
He spoke about habits, “female nature,” the fact that women like to take care of themselves.
I listened. Then I said something simple:
“Taking care of yourself costs. Time, energy, money. And it’s often taken for granted. We talk about equality when it comes to paying, but still expect a woman to be perfect… for free.”
He tried to defend himself:
“But women like it…”
I smiled.
“Yes, I like feeling beautiful. But I also like being myself. Sleeping in. Not worrying about makeup. Wearing comfortable shoes.”
He looked at me, unsure what to say.
We finished our coffee talking about something else. Then the bill arrived. Split in half.
Perfect.
We said goodbye politely.
We never contacted each other again.
No, I don’t regret it.
That date taught me something.
We live in a time when everyone talks about equality, but often only where it’s convenient.
People want an independent, autonomous woman—but also flawless, polished, perfect.
True equality isn’t splitting a bill.
It’s sharing the same effort, the same respect, the same investment.
If you don’t want to pay for dinner, that’s fine.
But then don’t expect someone to spend hours looking perfect for you.
If we are equal… we’re truly equal.
No double standards.
Giovanni wanted equality.
He got it.
Just not the kind he imagined.
Credit - Mr. Commonsense

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Out of 10 men, 1 makes a sexual joke at a woman, 2 laugh, 3 fake a chuckle to fit in and 4 stay silent. None of them speak up. Later, 9 of them still believe they're the"good guys." But from the woman's perspective, the laughter, the silence, the looking away, it all creates the same environment. So when women say"most men are the same," this is what they mean: not that every man harasses women, but that most men help protect the system that does.
Yves ౨ৎ@yvessirae
what opinion about men do you have that makes people feel like this?
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